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HappycamperNZ, in How to respond to gf saying "I'm fat"

“Fuck I love your curves”

Or ask if they want a back rub. Gets you out of alot.

get_off_the_phone,
mojofrododojo,

Or ask if they want a back rub. Gets you out of alot.

can confirm, this is a legit emergency evasive maneuver of successful relationships.

AgentGrimstone, in What is your earliest memory?

I have handful of memories when I was probably 4 years old. Not sure which one was the earliest but my favorite one is my grandpa and I walking to the beach and passing by a wall of little white flowers that smelled really nice. I wish I knew what those flowers were.

AgentGrimstone, in How to respond to gf saying "I'm fat"

IT’S A TRAP! I don’t have an answer. I just want to wish you the best.

PopcornPrincess, in What is this growth on fallen tree branches?

There’s a fungus among us.

xigoi, in How to respond to gf saying "I'm fat"
@xigoi@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

“Phew! I thought you were pregnant.”

Emerald, (edited ) in What is a nifty little feature modern gadgets have lost?

Oh yes the notification light was incredible. I had one on my Pixel 2 XL. I just switched phones like a week ago to a Nord N200 and it doesn’t have one. Not too big of a deal though.

I wish phones still had IR blasters but those are long gone. It would be awesome to control my Edifier speakers with my phone as a remote control.

Edifier RC10E (Unofficial remote control for Edifier R1280DB speakers) f-droid.org/packages/ir.remote.edifier.rc10e/

Edit: Also how about a good camera? All mid range and low end phones today have like 3 or 4 mediocre cameras because it looks fancier then having 1 nice camera.

tourniquet,
@tourniquet@lemmy.world avatar

I believe almost all phones from Xiaomi’s budget Redmi series still have IR blasters today.

cation,

still using my four year old redmi note 8 and yeah, the ir thing works well. I like xiaomi phones because they are so customizable, you can install custom OS and root it quite easily.

Chee_Koala,

Switchbot has some " phone to IR " solutions on the cheap, might be just what you are looking for eu.switch-bot.com/products/switchbot-hub-mini

Emerald, (edited )

Back when phones had ir blasters you wouldn’t need a proprietary app to use them. The switchbot hub sounds like an iot nightmare

fastandcurious,

All midrange and low end phones today have like 3 or 4 mediocre cameras because it looks fancier than having 1

The pixel a series does that right, also i would prefer two, 1inch sensors with 26mm and 50mm focal lengths, i rarely use telephoto or ultrawides (purely because Of the bad quality)but it seems like I am in a minority

cheese_greater, in Can kindness be learned or cultivated, and to what extent is it an innate quality?

I would just say that people are much nicer when their needs (positive and negative) are both being met generally. Until then, one can’t help being selfish and innwardly focused

dog_, in What is a nifty little feature modern gadgets have lost?

Headphone jack.

grue, (edited ) in How to respond to gf saying "I'm fat"

Might as well ask Lemmy how to pass the Kobayashi Maru test, while you’re at it.

HappycamperNZ, (edited )

Understand the deeper meaning of the situation and what they are actually looking for?

You know what, other poster that recommendations cheating may be easier.

Edit: or is this a helplessness, try anyway deal??

Im_old,

Might be a tricky example. The answer to that according to a certain cadet is to cheat. Not sure gf would appreciate that.

Strayce,

I always liked Calhoun’s solution. Obliterate the Maru. It’s either a trap or it’s not. If it is, you don’t want to leave it there for someone else to fall for. If it’s not, you don’t want to leave it there to cause a diplomatic incident, and fiery plasma death is probably better than whatever the Klingons / Romulans would do to the crew.

Of course, I don’t recommended launching a full spread of photon torpedoes at your gf.

HeyThisIsntTheYMCA,
@HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world avatar

The Calhoun solution? Throw a bald cancerous kid in the simulator?

KingJalopy,
@KingJalopy@lemm.ee avatar

If done successfully she’ll never know

kerrigan778, in What is a nifty little feature modern gadgets have lost?

I loved the notification light, I had mine programmed to have different colors correspond to different types of notifications and it would buzz at me in response to being picked up as well if I’d missed a call or text.

arin,

New phones have always on displays where you can configure them to show any info you want

technomad,

No. Not what I want.

kerrigan778,

They’re not all that configurable and it’s always a wall of useless text notifications and it’s hard on battery life, 100x less useful.

hamsammy,

I got an app called Always On Edge where you can do literally just that and you can also choose for the entire edge to flash or glow or keep the old virtual dot, change the colors and interactions based on which app it was, and more.

Highly recommend it.

kerrigan778,

Ooh, thank you I will check that out. That sounds great.

TheIllustrativeMan,

I use AODnotify to effectively do the same thing. It animates a ring around either the display (when the screen is “off”), or the camera cutout when it’s on.

GreyShuck, in Can kindness be learned or cultivated, and to what extent is it an innate quality?
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I would say that kindness is an expression (not the only one) of empathy. Some degree of empathy is present in the overwhelming majority of people - barring extreme sociopathic conditions and an absence of mirror neurones. So for most people I would say that it is innate to some extent.

Even in cases where empathy is not present, kindness can be simulated or faked and some people with strong sociopathic conditions have proven to be very good at this when it suits their purposes - so I certainly say something with the appearance of kindness can be learned in one form or another.

It can definitely be cultivated - and I would say that this is one of the major qualities in the whole “two wolves” metaphor or, in classical Greek terms, a virtue to be developed.

ScaredDuck, (edited ) in What is a nifty little feature modern gadgets have lost?

My current Xiaomi phone has an IR blaster, but what I miss is having an IR receiver as well, trying 100 random remotes to find which one works with your obscure TV/AC is such a pain when you used to be able to just clone one instead.

lvxferre, in Can kindness be learned or cultivated, and to what extent is it an innate quality?
@lvxferre@lemmy.ml avatar

I believe that there is at least some learning/cultivation; I’ve seen plenty people becoming nicer over time, and some nice people becoming arseholes. However that is not enough to rule out a potential innate component.

otter,

I think there’s also a learned component of being kinder and more respectful to people. Even with the best of intentions, it takes time to learn how to do it effectively and learn how people might want to be treated.

Afterwards the positive feedback can encourage more good actions

ani, (edited ) in How do you think social media platforms should work?

Everyone should have to provide their real identities for all kinds of social media, which in turn would be directly tied to social credits and justice system; this would discourage a ton of bad behaviors on the internet, including but not limited to cyberbullying, racism, trolling, and so on, and would instead encourage good behaviors by gaining social credits. Social media platforms should also be hold responsible for any kind of bad content, and have to compasate all victims of harassment. Really, just some days ago a wonderful young woman of just 22yo died by suicide for being harassed so much online; she didn’t even have social media, but harassers were able to get pics of her and create a fake story that escalated a ton…

federatingIsTooHard,
@federatingIsTooHard@lemmy.world avatar

please no

ani,

I don’t care about “freedom” that’s actually used for harassing and killing innocent people. Saving people’s life, like the life of that young woman, should be priority in all cases. All kinds of social media that don’t comply should be banned. I’m really serious on this take. Go have your freedom in your island country all alone instead.

federatingIsTooHard,
@federatingIsTooHard@lemmy.world avatar

the result would be a total police state. I understand you don’t care about freedom. I do.

ani,

That’s not freedom, that’s unregulated communication mediums being exploited to harass and kill. Do you really rather innocent people dying? If I was a politician, I would be definitely fighting for better regulation of social media to save lives.

federatingIsTooHard,
@federatingIsTooHard@lemmy.world avatar

harassment is bad. anonymity is good.

captainlezbian,

Anonymity swings both ways here. It saves lives of people posting for advice on how to leave abusive partners, of people in unsupportive environments forming community and kinship, and of people who need help but are too ashamed to attach it to their name.

I’ve known people harassed to suicide, and I’ve known people whose online activities were exposed to abusers they can’t escape who were then driven to suicide for it. I support anonymity, but I’ve dealt with the dark side of it, including years long harassment campaigns

xigoi,
@xigoi@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Have you watched Black Mirror and thought that it’s supposed to be a utopian series?

ani,

Honestly, I haven’t watched it. What association are you making here?

xigoi,
@xigoi@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

There was an episode about people giving social credits to each other through an app which would affect their entire life, showing how such a technology could go horribly wrong.

jtk, in How to respond to gf saying "I'm fat"
@jtk@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Ham on. Ham on. Ham on whole wheat, all right.

So_zetta_slowpoke,

When you’re only havin’ seconds, I’m having 23rds

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