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Diprount_Tomato, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule
@Diprount_Tomato@lemmy.world avatar

Would they win in a contest that has female beauty parameters tho? It’s like judging an M based on how similar it looks to an F

SturgiesYrFase,
@SturgiesYrFase@lemmy.ml avatar

That’s not the fucking point, clownshoes!

Diprount_Tomato,
@Diprount_Tomato@lemmy.world avatar

Then what is it?

Here_in_Malaysia,

It’s not about winning, it’s about sending a message. The message being that trans women shouldn’t have any problem competing with cis women if the judges feel that trans men will have a problem competing with cis women. I hope that make sense to read.

fugepe, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule

Janitor on intense shift deleting comments. AND HE DOES IT FOR FREE!

beta_particle,

You’re out here acting a fool for free 🤷

eggvng, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule

Elia Bonci, who also spoke to la Repubblica, said: “I took courage, used my deadname and signed up for Miss Italy because fighting transphobia is intersectional and even though I’m not a trans woman, I’ve decided to fight for their rights.”

much respect to all that followed!

fugepe,

a dead name

mental illness is strong on these fellas

FlyingSquid,
@FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

I went to high school with a Ruth. She decided to change her name to Elizabeth when she went to college. She still goes by Elizabeth. Is she mentally ill because she doesn’t want anyone to call her Ruth?

pythonoob,

I’m confused. If they are using a dead name how are they not trans?

AmbleHamble,

Think the others were missing the point - they are trans men. Their dead name is their dead female name.

The ruling was to prevent trans women from competing, so while they can’t stand for trans women, they’ll stand for all trans.

maynarkh,

They are trans men, who the organizers consider women as opposed to the trans women who can’t compete because they consider them men.

Imgonnatrythis,

I’m gonna need a pen and paper for this one.

SuddenDownpour,

We need a powerpoint explaining the 5D transphobia.

Jeanschyso,

So like, according to the organizers, if they were born with a penis, it doesn’t matter if they transitioned, they are considered men.

This trans man (a person born with a vagina who transitioned ) is entering the contest, because if trans women are considered men, trans men are considered women.

So this dude is entering a “female” beauty contest to show how dumb the rules are. He is allowed to do so because said dumb rules make him a woman in the eyes of the organization.

peipei1,

I’ll summarize:

  • The contest organizers don’t accept trans women (AKA assigned male at birth, transitioned to female)
  • This means that they are being transphobic, they aren’t treating trans women as women.
  • The person in the article is the opposite, assigned female at birth and transitioned to male. AKA a trans man.
  • This person is considered a woman by the beauty contest despite identifying as male.
  • He entered the beauty contest as a form of protest and to bring attention to the blatant transphobia.
Lorium_O,

“Transphobia” idk I just think they don’t want certain ideologies in their shows. Makes sense to me but you guys will probably start spamming slurs at me if I keep speaking so…

Edit: I agree the rules are dumb and contradictory but calling it transphobia is just hilarious to me

Imotali,
@Imotali@lemmy.world avatar

“We exist” isn’t an ideology.

Lorium_O,

Fair but I just thought calling it transphobia was over the top

supakaity, (edited )
@supakaity@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

You are actually a little bit correct.

Most uses of the misnomer “transphobia” are actually incorrect, because the people involved aren’t actually suffering from an irrational medical or psychological fear of transgender people.

What they actually are doing is more accurately called “transmisia”, because they are transmisic. This means they are heavily prejudiced against transgender women and believe that they shouldn’t be involved in the competitions.

Their reason for this are not because the transgender women don’t meet the beauty standards, or aren’t passing the judging categories, but because they just don’t want them there purely due to their trans-mysogynistic preconceptions.

abraxas,

You are actually a little bit incorrect.

In the vein of words like homophobia, these words’ definitions are not strictly in line with their etymology. Per every dictionary (but quoting Webster), transphobia is defined as:

irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against transgender people

And this might create some linguistic ambiguity, but I cannot seem to find actual documentation on a medical or psychological fear of transgender people at all. It seems this behavior is entirely (or almost entirely) a learned bigotry.

The other word, “transmisia”, has not really been officially adopted in any circle I can find. The only place I could find it with any prominance is a site called the “Trans Language Primer”, and I know nothing about it (except that it looks like geocities) so I won’t be linking it directly. Suffice to say, they speak negatively of the term (despite defending it as having a good intention) and favor “transphobia” for reasons of clarity.

MonkderZweite, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule

Wait, they have to tell the organizers such sensible details?

Are they required to be virgins too?

Fazoo,
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You’re thinking of Miss Vatican.

MargotRobbie, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule
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I hope he wins. That’d be really funny.

fugepe,

you have no standards

MargotRobbie,
@MargotRobbie@lemmy.world avatar

While I don’t like the concept of pagents in general, I would like to think that my own standards are pretty good, and I also think you should leave.

Imotali,
@Imotali@lemmy.world avatar

They were forcibly shoved through the door.

lingh0e,

Neither did your mom. She just let some hobo pump and dump her, and now you’re walking around this planet spreading your shitheel ignorance.

MargotRobbie,
@MargotRobbie@lemmy.world avatar

Dude chill, don’t feed the troll.

ThisGuysNeverSerious,

Nom nom nom

Stanwich,

He has to come out in slacks, his special talent should be mowing the lawn. Tuxedo print t shirt for evening gown. REPRESENT!

Diprount_Tomato,
@Diprount_Tomato@lemmy.world avatar

Imagine a buff, bearded person that identifies as male wins in a contest that measures female beauty

MargotRobbie,
@MargotRobbie@lemmy.world avatar

I know right? It’ll finally make pagents worth watching.

We should also get drag queen bodybuilding competitions. If everything is going to be reality TV for a while (support the strike, by the way) I’d at least want them to be entertaining.

DharmaCurious,

I would love to see drag queen strong person competitions. Imagine log rolling in heels and an evening gown?

Ooh, or maybe like that next ninja whatever show. I can’t remember what it’s called. The one with all the crazy acrobatics and stuff. Imagine having to do that obstacle course where you hang from the bar and “jump” while holding the bar to the next slot, but you have to sing And I Am Telling You while you do it!

American TV could get real fucking good, real fucking fast.

MargotRobbie,
@MargotRobbie@lemmy.world avatar

Rapper warrior ninja. :)

Fubar91, (edited )

Holy crapoli, I’ve tried other peoples heels briefly a few times. I have no idea how people even walk in them let alone log roll in them! That sounds like some great entertainment tbh.

Or imagine one of those lumberjack competitions where they scale the trees and top them.

This is the kind of television we need!

DharmaCurious,

Imagine them having to apply makeup while running chainsaws? It’d put japanese games shows to shame!

tenitchyfingers, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule

YES. This is EXACTLY what I’ve been saying!!! Like honestly, as a cis woman from Italy I’m so embarrassed by this nonsense. Like, cutting trans women out of the competition at this moment just means people are recognizing that trans women are “unfairly” more good looking than cis women. Which, personally, is true in my case but you don’t see me bitching about it. Fuck yeah trans dudes, trans chicks and non-binary buddies.

Diprount_Tomato,
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Wait what? I get why someone would forbid trans women from participating in female sports events, but why TF can’t they go to beauty contests?

axolittl,

It’s wrong to ban trans women from women’s sports, because trans women are women.

Diprount_Tomato,
@Diprount_Tomato@lemmy.world avatar

But they have the muscles of a male and usually beat all women-since-birth in competitions.

Yeah, Ik I’m gonna get downvoted to oblivion and I’m gonna get called TERF but that’s the reason it’s controversial in the first place

seukari, (edited )

I’m trans and I actually agree with you. I don’t know the solution to make things fair, but I wouldn’t want to use a strong biological advantage over someone else.

I see it like if I’d been born with some identifiable and categorised physical advantage then I shouldn’t be competing against people without that advantage.

It’s debatable how big the difference is, however, and whether it’s a gap easily closed or not. My thoughts are that there could be an open category where anyone could compete on the understanding that there may be severe biological differences. There’s no easy solution :(

Edit: thinking about it, sporting competitions are more sex-catagorised than gender-categorised. I don’t think someone identifying as female with no physical/medical alterations from a biological male form should compete with biological females and I don’t think that should be controversial since the gender isn’t what people care about there. It’s the physical characteristics. In some sports that might provide an advantage, in some a disadvantage, but I do this it’s important to discuss! At that point, however, you’d be better ignoring gender and sex entirely and only categorising sports like ‘feather weight’ or ‘strong muscular development’ or something

Diprount_Tomato,
@Diprount_Tomato@lemmy.world avatar

Just make it body mass based

tenitchyfingers,

I think this is where it makes sense to go. Like wrestling, right? Just make every sport competition divided on gender if it’s that important, and then divided on the basis of body mass. Although frankly I think that would make every sport ten times more boring than it needs to be. Like smaller athletes usually need to figure out a way to still compete, and that’s where part of the fun is, both in competing and watching. If an athlete feels disadvantaged, they’re just lazy and not training well or enough.

Then again, I do think sports should be less owned by massive corporations and media companies, and move more to their dimension of play, admiration for each other and self-improvement. Not saying sports shouldn’t be jobs and not have money go in and out, but they should center that dimension a lot less.

tenitchyfingers,

I mean… some cis women are born thicker and taller than others which might be an advantage over other women, biologically. Yet, nobody disqualifies those women from competing. It just means everyone else has to be twice as competitive and work around their physical limits. Sports are largely about overcoming one’s performance limits. Like, a shorter basketball player can still play basketball and be really good at it, it’s all about how they train, what they focus on and how they play. And it’s about how good they are at dealing with the space around them and controlling their body. This was always the case, always in the history of sports. Being a stronger athlete was never a problem before, and now suddenly it is? It doesn’t make any sense, and it’s just an excuse for bad athletes who don’t wanna git gud to demand special treatment. I’m speaking as a cis woman who’s bigger than most other women around me. Not my fault that I can accidentally throw other chicks to the bleachers without even being aware of them, and I’m still a woman no matter how other people see me. So yeah, this whole discourse affects me too, because trans people being targeted also targets any person who was born intersex or just different.

tenitchyfingers,

What’s your idea of what a trans woman’s body looks like, exactly? Like, do you think a trans woman is just “a man in a dress”? Because that’s just straight up inaccurate in every way. HRT changes trans people’s bodies and how those bodies work. That’s why we say “trans women are women and trans men are men”. Like, would you think making someone with the body of Buck Angel compete in women’s competitions would be fair? Google Buck Angel, look at him and then come back at me.

Diprount_Tomato,
@Diprount_Tomato@lemmy.world avatar

Hormones are not going to reshape someone’s body structure

tenitchyfingers,

Except they do. Literally look at any picture of a trans woman before and after transitioning. Their bodies literally change in every sense.

Diprount_Tomato,
@Diprount_Tomato@lemmy.world avatar

“Oh their fat is accumulated in other places”

I’m talking about internal stuff

tenitchyfingers,

“Internal stuff”? What do you mean? You mean like men have more organs than women or something…? What kinda statement is this

Diprount_Tomato,
@Diprount_Tomato@lemmy.world avatar

No, but sizes and positions do have slight variations

tenitchyfingers,

Can you be more specific though?

Jonna,

Given a long enough time on the right hormones, and most (not all) of that advantage disappears. “While absolute lean mass remains higher in trans women, relative percentage lean mass and fat mass (and muscle strength corrected for lean mass), hemoglobin, and VO2 peak corrected for weight was no different to cisgender women. After 2 years of GAHT, no advantage was observed for physical performance measured by running time or in trans women. By 4 years, there was no advantage in sit-ups. While push-up performance declined in trans women, a statistical advantage remained relative to cisgender women.”

There’s also a large band of ability within people. Michael Phelps has a genetic advantage, but his accomplishments are still celebrated.

academic.oup.com/jcem/advance-article/…/7223439?l…

Silent_Cipher,

Here is my question though, and if you have any info I’d love to see it. Do performance enhancing drugs interact in men and women the same way? I ask since not all enhancing drugs are banned.

If yes, how do these interact with tans people? Would a trans woman be able to get more positive effects from the drugs?

betheydocrime,

It’s rare that I see someone type a comment that mentions everything I want to say. You rock!

tenitchyfingers,

Ok, hold on, why would you forbid trans women from competing? Because of “unfair advantages”? First off, trans women who completed their transition don’t have a male body. They have a female body. And some athletes are naturally better at some sports than others. Like, shorter basketball players are naturally disadvantaged at basket, which is why they need to train twice as hard as taller players or switch to another sport. Also, every whiny white woman complaining about trans women doing better than them always forgets to mention the athletes winning are still the cis ones, which destroys the idea that trans women have an advantage.

The point never held up either in sports nor anywhere else. And it was never about sports anyway.

Diprount_Tomato,
@Diprount_Tomato@lemmy.world avatar

Bone and muscle structure won’t change because of transition

tenitchyfingers,

You’d be surprised.

seukari,

From experience, female clothes aren’t proportioned to fit trans women as well as cis women. While in your other comment you make a good point about some cis women also being outside the ‘conventional’ physical expectations for women in western society, that doesn’t also mean that trans people don’t face the same issues. We talk about these problems from a trans perspective because trans people are often targeted with legislation and rules from people who don’t understand, and are blocked from being treated as their preferred gender. A bulky cis woman might share physical characteristics with a trans woman, but their existence is also significantly less opposed.

Edit: to my first point there are a number of biological size/proportion differences between cis men and cis women that can be seen here: ehs.oregonstate.edu/…/ergonomicsanddesignreferenc…

tenitchyfingers,

Oh yeah, for sure, I’m not saying gnc cis woman face the same amount of oppression as trans women. What I’m saying is, by shoving people into very restrictive, hyper-specific boxes, we end up excluding people who by definition shouldn’t be excluded. Like the cis athlete who was excluded from competing because she naturally produces more testosterone than the others. While being cis, again. Or like, all the cis gnc women who get attacked or murdered because transphobes think they’re trans when they’re not.

My point is, women aren’t all the same. Also, women who are naturally prone to packing muscles can and sometimes do go toe to toe with men in terms of height and strength. But they’re still cis women, and should compete as cis women.

But all of this is pointless anyway: this is a BEAUTY contest, and excluding trans women in this historical period is basically like saying trans women have “unfair advantages in the field of beauty” which I mean, could be, but it’s very much a self-report. There’s also the objection that “trans women do surgeries to look the way they look” which yeah, true, but cis women who participate in Miss Italia also very much do get surgery to look the way they look. Matter of fact, there have been multiple scandals about Miss Italy winners having gone through plastic surgery to win. So I mean, everything goes.

nickhammes,

Because excluding trans women from sports was never actually about fairness. It’s about normalizing excluding trans people from aspects of public life.

fugepe,

smettila di farci sembrare tutti brutti a causa delle tue sciocchezze

Imhotep, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule

So I thought I would look at the modlog in this thread

A comment was removed starting with

Not really seeing […]

by @Whirlybird

Heavily downvoted sure, but what rule is it breaking?

MelonTheMan,
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Is being a terrible person with bad takes against the rules? I haven’t checked.

Diprount_Tomato,
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Thee has’t did challenge the hive mind, anon prepareth to receiveth downvot’d to oblivion

FlyingSquid,
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Mods are hive minds? Are you sure about that?

Diprount_Tomato,
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Not talking about the other guy, but about the guy who I was answering

MelonTheMan,
@MelonTheMan@lemmy.world avatar

I actually think a lot of people are confused because they didn’t read the article or know what community they’re in, so I’ll take the downvotes in stride.

Trans people are people too no matter which arrow you hit.

betheydocrime,

I think the issue is that there is no such thing as a “biological woman”. Manhood/womanhood is an issue of gender, not sex, and gender is something that we collectively made up whose meaning varies from person to person and from culture to culture. The only person who is capable of saying “Person McFaceface is/is not a woman” is Person McFaceface.

Even if we were to interpret their comment to mean “sex”, that isn’t a simple binary yes/no kind of question. There is no single trait that determines maleness or femaleness, and lots of people have traits indicative of both sexes or of neither sex (or they were born that way then surgically altered shortly after birth), and sometimes those traits are so hidden and so internal that the person themself doesn’t know about it.

Imhotep,

But do you think it deserved to be removed? You could have answered that directly to the commenter

IMO, this is too strict.

betheydocrime,

Yes, I do. This is a space where trans rights and trans people are respected. That means that their existence is accepted as fact, not debated in the comment section.

There are numerous places and resources available for that person to educate themself, if they had chosen to do so before commenting. Instead, they chose to comment from a place of ignorance. We have no obligation to offer them that education here.

Imotali,
@Imotali@lemmy.world avatar

I’m just enforcing the rules of this instance. Specifically hate towards any specific group (which includes rhetoric designed to oppress) is against the rules.

Sorry, not sorry. In fact, I took great joy in removing the transphobes from this comment section. I only removed egregious errors.

In a way you could say I’m maliciously complying with the instance rules.

Imhotep,

I got that yesterday, why the encore?

use that tiny amount of power you say you enjoy so much and ban me. This good people circlejerk is of no interest

Imotali,
@Imotali@lemmy.world avatar

You’ve not said anything rule breaking, let alone transphobic enough to be banned. Saying unpopular things will not get you banned/comment removed.

Imotali,
@Imotali@lemmy.world avatar

They were banned for transphobia. Finish that comment. Don’t cherry pick their words. Transphobia and bigotry are against the rules here. As a cis person, I don’t get to decide what is transphobic; trans people do.

Pykenike,

If we can tell the differences between woman, why do different rules apply depending if youre born woman or not?

Besides having an opinion about something that doesnt affect you, seems quite reasonable is it not?

Imotali,
@Imotali@lemmy.world avatar

Trans women were born a woman. I’m not trans so I don’t get to decide what is or isn’t transphobia just like I don’t get to decide what’s racist towards black people because I’m not black. I don’t get a vote because it doesn’t affect me.

betheydocrime,

You aren’t the judge of when someone is or isn’t a woman, though. The only person whose opinion matters in that case is the woman herself.

Imhotep,

I don’t think they got banned? not sure

I didn’t post the whole comment precisely because it got removed by a mod.

In my view, the moderation of a forum should be based on rules, not on individual’s judgements.

Imotali,
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I banned them. And transphobia is against the rules of this entire instance (not just this community).

Pixlbabble, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule

Beauty Pageants are uglyphobic.

Diprount_Tomato,
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Bodybuilding competitions are fatphobic

Pixlbabble, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule

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  • gnygnygny, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule

    Trans Europe Express

    Pixlbabble, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule

    Men don’t understand no, I’ve heard this before…

    surewhynotlem,

    In what way? I don’t understand how that pertains to this.

    tenitchyfingers,

    I hope this is a joke?

    curiosityLynx, in "Picture of a skin"

    Overwatch PR showing they don't understand English grammar. That's a picture of skin, not a picture of a skin. The "a" matters.

    aard, in Here's all the source code
    @aard@kyu.de avatar

    Did the device happen to be the CueCat?

    Blackmist,

    Now that’s a name I haven’t heard in a long time.

    The guy who invented it sounds like a certified nutcase.

    In 2016, Pulitzer appeared as a treasure hunter on The Curse of Oak Island on the History Channel. He searched for the Ark of the Covenant and working with amateur historians from the Ancient Artifact Preservation Society he claimed that a sword found in the waters off Oak Island in Nova Scotia had “magical magnetic properties” and was evidence of Roman presence in North America and contact with the Miꞌkmaq, which a historian of that people dismissed. An archaeologist and a science writer criticized Pulitzer’s claim, suggested the sword was a replica said that Pulitzer threatened to sue them.

    Certainly sounds like the same guy.

    slazer2au, in Here's all the source code

    Legally they had been served, so there was nothing they could do about it.

    Pretty sure the can go to the judge and as you to deliver the information in a more friendly format.

    fmstrat,

    Yea, as entertaining as this is, it sounds like they already had the source from the repo and made the request to make sure nothing was being hidden from them (standard discovery). They would have just re-requested in digital format.

    Bardfinn, in Trans men enter Miss Italy contest to protest anti-trans ‘women from birth’ rule

    How will the patriarchy ever recover?

    AngryBear,

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  • vlad76,
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    And from what I’m being told by the internet, men make the best women.

    AngryBear,

    Which is indeed super ironic.

    jocanib,

    Something being a social construct does not mean it has no real world effects. That’s kind of the point of identifying it as a social construct. HTH

    AngryBear,

    Men women aren’t a social construct. Society structures around the biological facts of there being men and women or male and female, and what makes them different. Which is something that should be celebrated, not demonized.

    jocanib,

    So you do think there is a patriarchy? And you think it is based on fact, not the social construction of gender?

    AngryBear,

    I think In society men and women formed a structure based on strengths and weaknesses. This is neither dominated by men or women, not the way you want to see it. Which is why I made an earlier comment to go to places where men DO dominate society on every level and treat women like 2nd rate humans. If you truly believe we here in the west live in that way as well, we got nothing left to talk about.

    jocanib,

    So, you think you live in a society where discrimination based on sex does not exist.

    Where is that, and what is your evidence for your claim?

    AngryBear,

    I don’t know what country you live in, but no here in the Netherlands it’s pretty equal. My evidence? I live here.

    jocanib,

    The story is about Italy?

    You didn’t give your evidence so perhaps you’d prefer to refute this? Patriarchy in disguise — the myth of gender equality in the Netherlands

    AngryBear,

    Does that matter? I said the west, the west in general is fairly well balanced in terms of rights or equality. Maybe it’s different in Italy specifically but considering trans men can sign up for miss universe contests, apparently it’s not so bad.

    jocanib,

    Bullshit.

    You probably missed my edit. You didn’t give evidence for your position so I’ve asked you to refute evidence for mine, just to make it nice and simple for you.

    AngryBear,

    How the f would I go about proving that? You come with an article speaking about a serious outdated law nobody lived by to begin with. Changed decades ago to reflect that fact.

    jocanib,

    So, you think when bad laws go away, the attitudes behind them disappear as if by magic?

    The article gives up-to-date statistics as well as the dates of various laws. If you think those statistics are wrong, or don’t demonstrate what the authors say they do, you can explain. Or admit that your opinion is rooted in abject ignorance of the world you live in. Either will do.

    Nerorero,
    @Nerorero@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

    The natural male urge to sit in a cubicle for 10 hours a day

    lapingvino,

    It’s still a social construct if it’s based on facts. Social construct doesn’t mean fake, it means we gave it a name and meaning.

    VirulentAura,

    That’s cool, except if only certain people with certain body configurations have the uncontrolled freedom to be themselves, that’s still a problem.

    Or, as long as people who do not identify with the body they were given are ostricized, there are problems. As long as there are people who are groped because their body is different, lynched because their skin is different, or kept out of certain rooms just because of growths on their bodies they have no control over, there are problems.

    Just because you remove a label doesn’t mean there isnt a problem any more.

    Ajen,

    In that case, is “patriarchy” the right label? Most men (racial minorities, non-cis, etc) face systematic oppression, so it doesn’t seem like gender is the problem. Seems like oppression follows class lines, not gender, race, orientation, etc.

    VirulentAura,

    I don’t care if you call it The Wibbly Fuck Problem. Stop worrying about what it’s called and just do something about it. Damn. Everyone always worry about the unimportant shit.

    charolastra,

    I see a lot of mouth and no trousers/skirt in this statement.

    VirulentAura,

    Pervert. I don’t have to show you my ass just so you don’t be a dick.

    Ajen,

    What are you doing to stop the ruling class from oppressing the rest of us? Seems like you’re just posting on Lemmy, same as me.

    tenitchyfingers,

    Oppression follows ALL those lines. Oppression and privilege are intersections. That’s why a woman can be black but also be rich and live a better life than a dude who’s poor.

    Drivebyhaiku,

    Maybe Kyriarchy works better for you? It describes a multi layered and interactive web of stacked series of oppressive factors that encompasses race, class, gender, sexual orientation, ablism issues etc.

    Though under the definitions of patriarchy men are still oppressed. Young men and the poor are held in sway and looked at as disposable pawns and labor by the patriarchs - powerful men in the lead positions, like male heads of the family, but in this instance the ‘family’ is government, military, businesses and corperations, guilds, unions and bosses. The the buy in for those men at the bottom is that even a lowly man gets to feel like they are better at least than women. The act of being a woman is an automatic sort of failure state. Hence why men behaving in a feminine fashion are a threat. It subverts the hierarchy when someone willing chooses to behave as “lesser” of their own volition and seem happier for it.

    Ajen,

    The the buy in for those men at the bottom is that even a lowly man gets to feel like they are better at least than women.

    This hasn’t been my experience, most authorities in my life have been women (teachers, bosses, etc). Even upper leadership in the company I currently work for has slightly more women than men. Obviously not everyone has the same experience, but I don’t think the picture you tried to paint is a universal truth.

    AngryBear,

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  • VirulentAura,
    AngryBear,

    Read the whole thing just for you. I think you need to read the whole thing yourself. But I’ll boil it down for you, it’s 1 psychologist opinion that you could word (leaves that even optional) to differentiate between sex and gender. However also points out, most psychologists, don’t see it that way.

    Aka it’s her opinion, great. I disagree. Too bad.

    lapingvino,

    I have a XX/XY friend. You tell me their sex/gender.

    AngryBear,

    Thats literally impossible. What’s happening here is the mistake often made of confusing genotypes with gender.

    NikkiDimes,

    Spoken like someone who doesn’t know any psychiatrists or psychologists…

    AngryBear,

    I know plenty, nobody agrees with such views and in several hearings in the USA it’s been properly handled and answered. No need for me to do that. This isn’t debate club.

    NikkiDimes,

    What hearings are you referring to?

    surewhynotlem,

    No, there still is. Trans men suffer from all of the same patriarchal oppression that cis men suffer from. The loneliness, the isolation, the expectation that they have no emotion. If you somehow watch trans people TikTok, The men’s biggest complaint is that they now have no friends.

    So yes, the patriarchy exists even if gender is a construct. Because one of those constructed genders oppresses the others, and themselves.

    Toneswirly,

    “Patriarchy.” You use the word but you dont know what it means. We’re not talking about heads of households, we’re talking about the halls of power; which are controlled by cis men. Gender Equality advocates are not making claims that “men don’t exist,” just that gender its a highly varied spectrum. My guess is you already know this, and willfully ignore nuance so you can push a counter ideological stance. That makes you a lame-o. Sorry.

    AngryBear,

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  • Ultraviolet,

    “It’s worse somewhere else so the problem doesn’t exist” has always been a shit argument and you know it.

    AngryBear,

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  • girlfreddy,
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    Neither do I guess. 👋

    FlyingSquid,
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    So as long as it isn’t as bad as Saudi Arabia there are no problems?

    Bardfinn,

    I’m not reading all that

    Toneswirly,

    How come

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