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Lafari, (edited ) to asklemmy in What's it called when a title has "or" in it followed by a different title?

Thank god for TV Tropes. The “subtitle” meaning “closed captions” or “sub-name” thing still bugs me. Am I the only one bugged by one name being used for multiple things confusingly? Like how “chips” is often used to mean either potato crisps (packet chips) or potato fries (hot chips). Why not just use different names, you know?

Lafari, to asklemmy in Why is Australia the only "core anglosphere" country where voting is mandatory?

In order words, why is voting mandatory in Australia, but not UK, US, Canada or New Zealand?

Lafari, to asklemmy in Why do people on YouTube say "Lol they liked their own comment"? How do they know, and also I thought YouTube discredited self-likes?

Likes are anonymous on YouTube.

Lafari, to asklemmy in Why aren't modern 3D platformers as good as the PS2 era of 3D platformers?

This seems like an appeal to nostalgia to me… they’re old games, and therefore I must simply be blinded by nostalgia rather than the possibility that those older games might have actually been better in certain measurable ways…?🤔

Lafari, to asklemmy in Why do people not understand that you can agree with one thing someone said or did while disagreeing with the majority of what they stand for?

Here’s the thing, I never watch his content. And I can’t even remember why I happened to watch that clip, I saw it somewhere randomly. But it stood out to me because I’ve never heard another person really acknowledge the problem with telling people they’re fine and dismissing any problems they might be experiencing, which denies their own experience and can make them feel invalidated. It seems to be very common to do that in society and to subvert that idea seems relatively uncommon. I’m sure other people have explained why it’s problematic but I just haven’t seen any others. So my go-to for explaining that concept is more or less what Jordan Peterson said.

Lafari, to asklemmy in Should I wait for the "Snyder cut" (director's cut) of Rebel Moon?

I guess I’m wondering if people think it’s worth a watch in its current form

Lafari, (edited ) to asklemmy in Why do people not understand that you can agree with one thing someone said or did while disagreeing with the majority of what they stand for?

What’s with all the downvotes with no explanation?

Lafari, to asklemmy in Why aren't modern 3D platformers as good as the PS2 era of 3D platformers?

Everyone knows the 3D platformer genre died out and people stopped putting effort into them as much, so it would be more like if someone had a favourite genre of music that went out of fashion and was hard to find anymore.

Lafari, to asklemmy in Should I wait for the "Snyder cut" (director's cut) of Rebel Moon?

I realise it’s a dumb question

Lafari, (edited ) to asklemmy in Why do people not understand that you can agree with one thing someone said or did while disagreeing with the majority of what they stand for?

Well I completely agree with you there 😂

Lafari, to asklemmy in Why aren't modern 3D platformers as good as the PS2 era of 3D platformers?

It’s not that. I’m going to have to edit my post now because I was already considering writing that disclaimer. It’s not a nostalgia thing. There are literally no 3rd person shooter 3D platformers outside of PS2 and those are the kinds of 3D platformers I enjoy most… give me an example to prove me wrong

Lafari, (edited ) to asklemmy in Why do people not understand that you can agree with one thing someone said or did while disagreeing with the majority of what they stand for?

Yeah I understand, and that does probably happen a lot. But we also seem to live in an age where we assume the worst of people… so even though it’s possible to partly agree with someone while genuinely condemning other aspects of that person, people are somehow certain that others are using that as a gateway to awful shit, as you say. (Not talking about you, of course.)

Lafari, (edited ) to asklemmy in Xenophobia is to racism what homophobia is to ... ?

I appreciate what you’re saying, certainly someone could claim to be just afraid of homosexuality while using that as a cover for actually hating it or being prejudiced against it or homosexual people. But I think bigotry, meaning “obstinate or unreasonable attachment to a belief, opinion, or faction, in particular prejudice against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group”, doesn’t exactly fit the hypothetical I described of a person who’s just afraid of the concept without harboring any hateful feelings or displaying any discriminatory behaviors toward it. Shouldn’t we help that person come to terms with their fear and be understanding, while certainly helping them to tackle that fear (without accusing them of doing something wrong, presuming that they weren’t hypothetically)?

Lafari, to asklemmy in Xenophobia is to racism what homophobia is to ... ?

I see what you mean. I guess it’s hard though because currently they can already say that (they aren’t afraid of gay people and therefore aren’t “homophobic” if interpeting the word literally, but they just hate them), whereas if there was a word that meant hatred of gay people, they would have to admit they are that thing instead, which would then be viewed worse by society in a similar way to racism or misogyny etc. If a word existed for it, they would have no recourse but to admit that even if they aren’t technically homophobic (though they are by the common understanding and usage of the word), they are still word that means hateful/discriminatory toward gay people. And if there’s no distinction, I don’t know what we can say to people who aren’t hateful but just afraid of the idea of homosexuality. What do they tell their therapist? “I have a fear of homosexuality and/or gay people but I don’t hate it/them”? That’s a mouthful and a simple word could suffice couldn’t it?

Lafari, to lemmyshitpost in Reblog if youre american

THIS!! Why didn’t anyone else tell him? I’m glad you did. He might not die of fantasy now.

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