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sbv,

no no its aliens that flew across the galaxy and have nothing better to do than harass the locals

sbv,

I’m with hitmyspot. Nobody has ever told me to hit my kids.

The transition from the holiday season back to the normal drudgery is so depressing. Is there any way to make Jan / Feb less depressing?

like, it’s still dark at 5pm, there are barely any sports on, still bitterly cold and austere and it hurts to go outside, but you’re not even looking forward to christmas or the new year. the new year is here, and it’s largely the same as last year. except you’re getting older.

sbv,

I look forward to this part of the year because it’s when winter sports begin. I don’t know if you’re somewhere you can take advantage of the weather and ski/curl/skate. If you are, do it. It’s a blast.

sbv,

Thanks but the type of people I’m into don’t go out into the world.

sbv,

Everyone here is saying “I didn’t see it” while some of us needed to stare for a couple of seconds to see the actual image.

sbv,

I’m really lazy, so I use the jar method (they article calls it cash stuffing or the envelope method). But I use multiple accounts and automated transfers.

Basically: I have one account for personal spending, one for bills, one for insurance, one for groceries, one for vacation money, etc. I get paid regularly, so I have automated transfers move money into the appropriate accounts.

When it comes time to make an expense in the given category (e.g. insurance), I pay it out of the appropriate account.

The benefits

  1. I don’t need to think about it after it’s set.
  2. If I overspend in a category, it doesn’t reduce cash available in other categories.
  3. It’s easy to tell if my budget is wrong: ie, if an account is building up cash, or doesn’t have enough money, it’s time to revisit the budget.

The first item is the most important to me. I’m not consistent enough to manage a spreadsheet.

sbv,

that’s good shit

sbv,

This is an evergreen comment, but I don’t get it in this context.

sbv,

Alternatively, the first three panels could be answering 734 emails, 6383 slack messages, and avoiding two required trainings.

sbv,

this is also hobby software development

sbv,

Lego gets a special dispensation. It lasts (unlike some of the knockoffs) and it’s a nice creative toy for kids. And adults.

sbv,

Just don’t gift anything and enjoy a peaceful evening? Why does one need a special day to gift anyway?

We haven’t made it that far yet. I imagine/hope we will eventually.

sbv,

It’s a grotesque waste.

sbv,

At the other end of the spectrum: My wife and I made a minimal gifts pact. We each got each other minor crap we needed for around the house. It was perfect. No waste. No extravagance. Just stuff we were going to get anyway.

sbv,

Okay, was it a shared gift, or do you each have your own dishwasher now? If it’s two, do they match?

sbv,

When my kids play with slinkies, they’re destroyed within a day.

To clarify: the slinkie is destroyed. The children remain unchanged.

sbv,

there were several dollar store trinkets that already broke,

My kids got two or three items each that promptly broke. Into the garbage they go.

I hate the dollar store so much. It’s a waste of money and an environmental train wreck.

sbv,

A true couples gift

sbv,

And we finally get around to getting the crap we keep forgetting to pick up! Note pads!

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