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shalafi,

Wiztree is so much faster than WinDirStat it’s silly. Never looked back. Maybe things have changed?

shalafi,

THAT is a fine idea! Totally forgot!

And let’s not forget to check that organ donor box. See how it works in your country.

shalafi,

I carry plastic retail bags when hiking and kayaking.

If you flatten them out, fold them over a few times, roll them tight and wrap with a rubber band, you get a really tiny, portable bag.

shalafi,

My take on the most recent conservative LGBT propaganda:

old.lemmy.world/comment/5119958

Relevant bit:

And those people are grooming your kids into changing into something else, just like they did to themselves! Think of the children! LOL, it’s some Invasion of the Body Snatchers kinda paranoia.

One thing I hadn’t talked about was the “forcing” of LGBT issues.

When we were seniors ('89), saw a high-school buddy in a 50/50 gay/straight bar. About shit himself when he saw me.

“Please don’t tell anyone Shalafi. 😬”

“I don’t give a shit Sheldon. Let me get some of whatever you’re hitting in that bag!”

Same bar watching my gf dance. Dude pulls up a stool and offers me a drink.

“That’s cool and all, but you should know I’m not gay.”

That man knocked over his barstool jumping backwards. From a 5’8", 120lb., 18-yo twerp.

“Oh shit! I’m SO sorry. I didn’t mean…!”

“We’re all cool! It’s good! I’ll still take that drink though.”

All that to say, if any young folk think gays have it bad now? Let’s hop in the Delorean and take a ride back to the late 80’s. They were deep in the closet. Closeted as in, being out front with your homosexuality meant an ass beating. Hell, no one would even acknowledge Freddie Mercury, Liberace or Elton John as gay. There were “confirmed bachelors” or “light in the loafers”. Delivered meaningfully, “gay” was a deadly insult.

Back on topic; Gays kept that shit on the down-low. And that’s how GenX grew up, even more so our parents, less so the Millennials. They see LGBT folks celebrating themselves, rainbow flags in stores, whatever, as having other people’s lifestyles, “shoved down their throat” or “forced on them”.

Weird take, but I can understand it. Moved to the Deep South and all the religious shit feels like they’re cramming their bullshit into my life. And they’re trying to using legislation! And to circle back, these people think gay rights, or even existence, is being thrust on them via legislation.

tl;dr: I get it. It sucks. Society is quickly growing out of it, but it’s a nice wedge issue for conservatives.

shalafi,

Because it’s not “real” work. You gotta get paid up front and put a limit on changes. You’re either good, or you’re not. Let the market sort it out, but don’t work for free.

shalafi,

I didn’t have a ready answer to this post, but yeah, already banned:

  • Chic Fil-A
  • Hobby Lobby
  • Papa Johns

Add:

  • Jimmy John’s
shalafi,

Yep, America all right. Couple of things:

  • In some states it’s illegal to leave children of a certain age unsupervised. I think it’s 11 and below here? People do it anyway and no one’s looking to prosecute, but it’s a thing.
  • I can’t speak for every municipality in America, but the elementary schools around here do not allow kids to walk or bike to school. Either that, or every single parent, no exceptions, disallows it, because I’ve never seen a child that young coming into or leaving the school on their own. FFS, when I used to pick up my stepson, same car every day, the teacher had to put their hand on the roof and look me in the eye through a rolled-down window. That was literally the rule.

So like I said, “some of the younger ones aren’t mature enough or raised independently enough”. It sucks, but it’s true.

I have an 8 and 10-yo. They love my house because I allow them freedom. We went to a huge camping place to get married this weekend, local outfitter sort of thing. I gave them some instructions and warnings, cut them loose. Their helicopter mom would shit her pants if she knew they walked all over the woods alone.

(And of course we got the usual comment below crying about capitalism. I’m not sure if these people expect that no one works for a living, or they don’t do it on a coordinated schedule, or what.)

shalafi,

And I walked or biked to my elementary school every day in the 70’s. Many kids are raised very differently now, hence my comment.

I’m working to make my small children independent, their mother, my-ex wife, is working to keep them dependent.

shalafi, (edited )

I’ll get some angry comments about the IRL version.

(Turn on the sound. Those poor guys have no idea what to do.)

shalafi,

As a hot pepper fanatic, I love this trivia:

Birds don’t have receptors for capsaicin, the chemical that makes peppers hot. They could chow a bag of Moruga Scorpions with zero effect.

Evolution’s idea being, birds will swallow the seeds whole, poop them all around. Mammals will chew them up and destroy the seeds, so they evolved a defense specifically against us.

shalafi,

who admired his geopolitical strategy

That’s very much what I’m asking! I’m well aware of his sins, but was his influence 100% from making the rich richer?

shalafi,

See this comment? It’s a pretty good breakdown.

old.lemmy.world/comment/5707971

shalafi,

remember him for setting up talks with China, and detente with the Soviets. The founder of realpolitik and symbol of Western imperialism over the last half of the 20th century

Now we’re getting to my question!

shalafi,

You ARE lucky! And probably a solid performer. But young people need this info. You have to ask for the money. Why would anyone give you money for showing up to work?

shalafi,

How I got my last one. One-eyed, starved, raggedy assed cat just sitting there, asking for help.

shalafi,

I FEEL that. I thought another man was my father until 8th grade.

“Who’s this Steve guy you’re talking about?”

Everyone looked at me like I just grew a second head.

shalafi,

That’s amazing! I’m 52 and from a small family and this stuff has always confused me.

shalafi,

'71 here! We SO loved all the Robotech/Macros stuff back in the day. We’d never seen anything like it!

But yeah, I block about every anime group I find because it’s either hyper-sexualized little girls or furry fucking.

So for me, it has nothing to do with it being Japanese in origin. Hell, we were the original weeaboos. And for that matter, my wife is half Japanese.

As for the rest of GenX? Obviously I can’t speak for all of us, but I’m not sure I’ve heard anyone say, “I don’t like that Japanese/Russian/communist art/entertainment.” That would be weird.

shalafi,

It struck me as odd as well. Those words don’t go together, like, at all. :)

And besides, GenX never give two shits about the Axis powers. The Cold War was our war. And while I didn’t hate the Russians back then, I sure as hell do now.

shalafi, (edited )

I had to explain this to a coworker 10-years ago and she thought I was fucking with her.

“Go Google ‘furry’, but do it on your own PC. Can’t swear what you might see.”

“OH MY GOD! YOU WEREN’T JOKING!!!”

shalafi,

Y’all. Been a reader for almost 50-years and just started Discworld last spring. Chewed up all 41 (?) books in just a couple of months.

Go. For. It.

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