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sandpiper, in What series did you rewatch most often?

I am a grown ass adult and Phineas and Ferb is always on my my house.

Stillhart,

This is one of those shows that parents and kids can all enjoy for different reasons, so it’s on a lot at my house as well.

sandpiper,

So many visual gags and high level jokes! It always surprises me when I catch a new one.

Skates, in Those who tried Linux and went back to Windows, what caused you to go back to Windows?

First time I ever seriously used Linux was for work, back when I was a developer. You’d have to pay me to use it again. I like gaming, but I don’t like wasting my time troubleshooting games. Nor do I enjoy debugging random crashes/black screens in random drivers. Sure, it’s fun, but if I’m gonna work for it, someone somewhere better be signing my overtime slip. Cause I get a few hours free per day, and I’d rather not deal with sigsegv anymore if I can help it.

Not to mention sound. My job as dev included using ALSA for some use cases. I don’t know if you ever had the misfortune to need to do that or how it went for you, but if I ever need to touch that shit again I will scalp Torvalds with a goddamn headphone jack.

I installed windows 11 when I bought my last PC. I figured I’d give it a shot, see if it’s as bad as all my dev friends say it is. You know how many drivers I’ve had to fix to make my games work? Zero. You know how many hours I spent debugging weird issues? Also zero.

There’s a reason windows has a price tag. And part of that reason is that it works better than free stuff. I’m a believer in FOSS, but if you’re a craftsman and you can’t hammer a nail without needing to adjust your hammer every few swings, you should find a hammer that’s not made out of silly putty and dreams.

dragnet,

Odd that you’ve had so much trouble with Linux. My experience generally had been that it requires more time on initial config, then it just keeps working unless you change something.

crystal,

The issues with games usually arise because people try to run games made for Windows on Linux. Just like you can’t run Linux games on Windows (unless you use WSL, which is just straight up running Linux), you can’t easily run most Windows games on Linux.

MrSlicer,

Years ago I had the opposite issue. The printer driver would rarely work. When I switched to ubuntu for unrelated reasons the printer worked everytime. I suspect that this is very unusual and 99.999% of the time your scenario is more likely. Just wanted to share =).

wcSyndrome, in What series did you rewatch most often?

Guilty pleasure one for me is burn notice. It’s so over the top but so much style and coolness

NSA_Server_04, in What series did you rewatch most often?

Gravity falls, SG-1 and Stargate Atlantis.

BallsInTheShredder, in Are you replacing Reddit with Lenny?

Yep, they killed boost, I quit.

On the bright side I like it here and don’t feel ashamed of myself for supporting assholes every time I log in

lolreconlol,

You can patch boost… still working.

BallsInTheShredder,

Iirc that requires Android 10 correct? When I initially read of the patch I had an old phone that wasn’t capable of android 10 but have recently upgraded. Do you happen to have the link with patch instructions?

lolreconlol,
curiousgoo, in What is the least SEO-fucked search engine?

I am not sure whether DDG or SearX results are optimised by someone, but it is different from what I would see on Google for a given topic.

ChrisFhey,
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Duckduckgo uses search results from Bing, combined with other search engines and their own bot if Wikipedia is to be believed.

No Google search results are used.

Dirk,
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This explains why their results are so much worse than Google’s.

brecht,

Palpable 2015 energy in this take right here.

Alto,
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5 years ago sure. Not sure I really agree nowadays.
Granted, that has as much to do with Google getting much worse as it does DDG getting better.

livus,
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For some things. For other things they're better. Google has really jumped the shark in the past two years.

I mostly just use it for when I want corporate style results, like shopping.

CrabAndBroom,

DDG seems to get most of their results from Bing, but they do tweak it a bit themselves. From the link:

Most of our search result pages feature one or more Instant Answers. To deliver Instant Answers on specific topics, DuckDuckGo leverages many sources, including specialized sources like Sportradar and crowd-sourced sites like Wikipedia. We also maintain our own crawler (DuckDuckBot) and many indexes to support our results. Of course, we have more traditional links and images in our search results too, which we largely source from Bing. Our focus is synthesizing all these sources to create a superior search experience.

notmyredditusername, in What is the most unhelpful advice you have received?

“sleep when the baby sleeps”

Yeah because there’s absolutely nothing that needs to be done once I finally get my daughter down. No washing and sterilising, for prep for us or for her, general chores around the house which you can never do effectively one handed. And fuck me if I wanted to try and relax and have an actual evening after they’re down too.

“Sleeping like a baby” had also never seemed like such a juxtaposition!

axolittl,

I feel like the phrase “sleeping like a baby” was not created by someone who was a primary caretaker for a baby.

notmyredditusername,

Exactly, unless they actually meant it to mean “for no more than 30 minutes then wake up crying inconsolably because I’ve shit myself.”

Then they hit the nail on the head and people have just misconstrued it!

DinosaurSr,

Here’s some more unhelpful advice: Hang in there, it gets easier! (for real though)

funnyletter,

Also, like, adult humans don’t do so good if they only get to sleep for an hour or two at a time. I don’t have kids but I have a puppy and my mental health improved 10x when he stopped waking up every night because he needed to pee. Just going from two 4-hour blocks of sleep to one 8-hour block.

Then he hit puppy adolescence and had a massive sleep regression and I was getting an hour or two of sleep at a time between SCREAMING PUPPY INTERLUDES and promptly lost my fucking mind. I gave up on crating him because I needed the sleep.

iegod, in Those who tried Linux and went back to Windows, what caused you to go back to Windows?

Games and Photoshop. Linux is nice, but if you’re a serious gamer its not even in the solution space.

turbochamp,

This is so wrong. 99% of my 450 game library on Steam works perfectly. Great performance with proton.

Use gimp

GenderNeutralBro,

Gaming is the only reason I dual-boot back to Windows. Out of curiosity, what’s your distro and hardware config? I’ve had no luck with Proton or Lutris on Suse or Ubuntu. I don’t think I’ve ever been able to play a game all the way through without issues. Not sure if it’s my distro choices, Nvidia drivers, or the specific games I try to play. Even Steam Deck certified games do not work properly for me.

turbochamp,

Hardware is 5950x, 64gb ram and a 4090. Although before I had a 3070 Ti.

I’m on Arch, but what problems are you having with proton or Lutris? Which Nvidia drivers do you have installed (dkms?) and what kernel?

With the state of proton, I almost never have to check the force compatibility tool and select a version, it’ll work out of the box. There have been a few exceptions of course.

GenderNeutralBro,

With Lutris, I got stuck on an error about architecture. I tried changing WINEARCH to WIN32, but it didn’t work. Tried making a new systemwide default prefix in win32, didn’t work. Went down a bit of a rabbit hole on Google but I was not able to get the game to even install, let alone run.

With proton, games install and typically run, but not without issues. For example, when Return to Monkey Island launched, it was Windows-only, so I tried it in Proton. It worked for a day, then mouse input just stopped working entirely. Half an hour of trouleshooting later I decided it would be easier to just boot into Windows. That’s the general experience I’ve had with Proton, even for Steam Deck certified games. And then sometimes games run but with unacceptable performance, like Stray.

Until recently I was stuck on the 510 drivers because the newer ones broke CUDA in the Ubuntu repositories. That was recently updated to I think 525, but I haven’t tried any games since updating. But I also had similar problems on Suse with drivers from Nvidia, and the old Ubuntu LTS (18.04 was it?).

If Lutris is going to be so finicky about Wine versions and prefixes, I wish it would just bundle its own instead of using the system wine. I use Wine for other things and can’t easily nuke my whole config.

I’ve basically given up on playing non-native games on Linux. It seems like this is a “me” problem but I can’t imagine what’s so unique about my Steam install. I try to keep as close to stock Ubuntu LTS as possible precisely to avoid these issues, but here I am.

xtapa,

Gaming on OpenSUSE Tumbleweed without any problem so far. First with Nvidia, now with amd.

GenderNeutralBro,

Seriously? My Nvidia drivers broke every time I got a kernel update on Tumbleweed. Eventually I pinned the kernel to an old version. Gah.

Maybe my PC is just haunted.

CurseBunny,
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Not here to disagree, just here to advocate for Krita over Gimp. I found it much more pleasant to use for digital art

turbochamp,

Oh haven’t heard of it, I’ll check it out!

iegod,

I’d be interested to know the breakdown of AAA titles in that library!

Gimp is appropriately titled as it is a joke compared to Photoshop. If this is the closest suggestion to a suitable replacement it will guarantee windows/osx always has a place in my work environment.

turbochamp,

For AAA titles (not gonna list every one), here’s a few:

Hogwarts Legacy, Dead Space remake, Resident Evil 2/3/4/7 remakes, God of War, Returnal, The Last of Us Part 1, Uncharted 4, all the Assassin’s Creeds, Atomic Heart, the Batman games, Bioshock games, Dark Souls 1/2/3, Death Stranding, Elden Ring, Days Gone, Dying Light 1/2, all the Far Crys, Final Fantasy 7 remake, FF8-15, Ghostrunner, GTA5, Hi-Fi Rush, Spider-Man/Miles Morales, Tomb Raider games, Sekiro, Sonic Frontiers, Star Wars (all) and Jedi Fallen/Survivor, The Division 1/2, The Witcher 1/2/3, Yakuza (all), plus more

iegod,

Oh hey that’s pretty solid. What’s the state on Rocket League?

turbochamp,

Do you have it through Epic or Steam? I was unfortunate and got it after it was delisted from Steam.

But it does work, I’d use Heroic Launcher for it.

crystal,

No Valorant on Linux :(

turbochamp,

Last time I checked Valorant worked with wine/proton-ge

WastedJobe,

Define “serious gamer”. I play almost everything on Linux with little to no downsides, especially in Dota2 and CSGO or single player games.

CurseBunny,
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Yeah, Proton has made leaps and bounds the past few years with the sheer amount of time and money Valve is funneling into it. Now you can often expect newly released games to run just fine on Linux through steam, the big remaining hangup being anti-cheat software.

xavier666,

I would guess a “serious gamer” is one who wants to play all the latest AAA multiplayer games. Just not possible for Linux to work for 100% on Day 1 with the ridiculous kernel-level anti-cheats.

For me, even though I play mainly on Linux, the issue is with random niche mods or hardware; Tobi eye-tracking, headtracking, VR.

atheos, in In which game did you spend the most hours?
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Quake II consumed about a decade of my life. Alright, 15+ years.

001100010010, in What is the most unhelpful advice you have received?
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“Just be happy” to a depressed person

Oh wow, jeez, thanks, why didn’t I think of that earlier!

axolittl,

Ah yes, the good ol’ “Just get over it” technique that is supposed to work for any mental health condition.

TugOfWarCrimes,

The problem is that a version of this advice can be very helpful. As someone who has suffered from ongoing mental health issues and also work in an industry where I regularly support people with mental health issues, one piece of advice I often give is to identify what traumas are you unnecessarily holding on to, which are contributing to your depression/anxiety etc.

When you can let go of some of the more mundane stresses in your life, you have more energy to tackle the real issues you’re facing. Of course this is much easier said than done and has to be used as part of a more wholeistic approach, but sometimes the advice to just learn to let it go is very good advice.

Unfortunately, many people don’t understand that intricacy and so just repeat the surface level comment which is far from helpful. And this in turn also leads to a push back in the other direction where people who could genuinely benefit from letting go of some of their stress refuse to do so because they have spent so long being told that’s all there is to it.

axolittl,

That’s fascinating. Do you have suggestions for any resources that talk about how to do this in a healthy way?

TugOfWarCrimes,

There’s heaps of psychology research into therapeutic approaches and all that stuff out there if you’re willing to essentially do a degree on the topic, but personally I like to keep things as simple as possible so anyone can start applying it straight away.

I usually start with the picture story book The Huge Bag of Worries by Virginia Ironside (there’s a read along of it on youtube) to frame the conversation. It helps to set up the idea that the “worries” are real and are having an effect on the individual. Also that many people struggle to know how to deal with them and end up giving bad advice, often because they are carrying their own bag of worries. I also at this point remind them that we are unlikely to get rid off all the problems, eg I can’t cure your depression or rebuild your brain to make it neuro-typical, but we can make it so they are the only things in your bag making it a lot easier to carry.

Then I’ll talk about a Catastrophe Scale. This is where we take a worry and rank it on a scale out of 10 of how bad is it really. 1 is a minor problem that will go away on it’s own, and 10 is an extreme issue that will have a permanent impact on your life. Like in the book, many problems stop being an issue once you realize they are only a 1 or 2 on the scale. This is the “just get over it” point. Other’s need some attention but can easily be solved or passed on to someone else in your support network to handle, but once you’ve spent that small amount of energy, it’s gone. This is the where we see the value of another piece of despised advice, “stop worrying and just do it” or “have you tried going for a walk outside today”. Once again, often spouted advice by people who think of it as the only thing needed without understanding how it fits into a complete treatment plan.

Finally that just leaves the real problems, the ones that are less easy to deal with. But without having to carry the weight of the whole bag of worries, we now have a capacity to take those worries to therapy or a doctor to medicate etc, and just generally do the more difficult and complex work that’s needed.

axolittl,

Thanks!

archomrade,

Similar to this: telling someone with ADHD “stop letting yourself get distracted”

Skull,

Or to someone with anxiety:

“Just don’t be anxious!”

🫠…

funnyletter,

“But it’s not actually scary!”

Yes, I know, that’s why it’s a disorder and not just being a reasonable person who’s afraid of frightening things!

weejockpoopongmcplop, in What series did you rewatch most often?

I could watch nothing but Black Adder, Arrested Development and Eastbound and Down and be pretty happy about it.

livus,
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Surprised you're the only one who has said Arrested Development! Most of that is so rewatchable.

Juggs, in What series did you rewatch most often?

I don’t.

Once I’ve seen a series, I don’t tend to watch it again unless it’s an old episode on TV, there’s nothing else on, and I really want to watch something. And even then, it’ll just be that episode - I won’t go and rewatch the series.

It baffles me how many people bang on about rewatching series.

yak, in What series did you rewatch most often?
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Twin Peaks.

Boiglenoight, in What series did you rewatch most often?

Forensic Files. My wife likes to fall asleep to it. I know most of the episodes by heart.

Vaginal_blood_fart, in What series did you rewatch most often?

Robotech, peep show, Fawlty towers

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