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Ejh3k, in Is there a forum for people who are lonely and sad but specifically not incel sickos?

What podcasts do you listen to?

suction,

Me? Cumtown.

uriel238, (edited ) in Ancient wisdom often sounds like common sense now that it is commomly taught. What is some ancient wisdom that we no longer teach because it was wrong?
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What goes up comes back down.

Apply math and the object flies in a parabolic arc (not accounting for air friction and wind)

Launch it high enough and the arc start looking elliptical. Gravitational force looks less like a constant rather is tempered by distance². If the acceleration closes the ellipse without hitting the (circular at this scale) ground, your object is now a satellite in orbit.

Keep accelerating and eventually (a whole lot of acceleration) and special relativity factors affect the trajectory…and mass…and time dilates between the object and observers.

BeatTakeshi,
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Wasn’t that rather a reference to the normal / gaussian distribution, that describes many phenomena so well?

uriel238,
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I always thought the phrase was Aristotlean but it seems the internet asserts recent or unknown origins.

victorz, in After a lifetime against, I'm considering joining social media. Any advice?

LinkedIn is pretty good, for finding work. I’ve gotten a lot of offers there. Ultimately never took any of them, ironically, but worth the time to set up a good profile.

If you’re thinking of joining Facebook… Don’t. It’s not worth it. Tell people you have something else and give them that info. Like your phone number or your email or your WhatsApp/telegram/whatever.

I hate how I have Facebook and am so dependent on it. I wish I could tell people I don’t have it.

init,

I’m seconding the “no Facebook” thing, and I’d add “no Meta-Owned anything”. Facebook is constantly showing me conspiracy flat earth shit with people honest to god arguing about it, and everyone in other posts strangely all comment the same thing or early similar things to the point that I’ve checked peoples accounts out to see if they are bots or not. Instagram isn’t much better, and a LOT of it is basically soft-core attention seeking influencers. Threads… Isn’t giving anything better than what Mastodon offers.

I swear. One of these days I will pull the plug.

victorz,

[Palpatine: Do it.]

I haven’t scrolled Facebook in over a decade I think. But nobody interesting posts on Facebook in my feed so I’m not too bothered. Instagram is good to me. Giving me only like comics and skits and stuff from people I follow, and things similar to what I enjoyed before like certain sports etc. I’d gladly jump Facebook if I could find my friends elsewhere. I wish Messenger wasn’t connected to a Facebook account. 😞

drmoose, in Is there a forum for people who are lonely and sad but specifically not incel sickos?

I’ve had great experiences on Slowy (slowly.app) which is a modern pen-pal app. Every message takes days to arrive and you can either connect with people based on profiles or random matching and it’s one of few social networks that aren’t incel or hijacked by dating.

Calanthesrose,

I’m on Slowly, too! I have one penpal that I’ve been writing to for several years now!

ascallion,

There’s also postcrossing.com for physical post card swapping.

Gormadt,
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Oh that sounds like fun

I would love to get local post cards and trade them with someone else far away from where I’m at

gibdos,
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Thanks for that suggestion. Never heard of it, but it sounds like a neat concept. Gonna give it a try.

damnthefilibuster, in How to stop eating junk food?
  1. Stop buying it. Starve yourself of it by just not having it around.
  2. Keep a tall glass or bottle of warm water with you when you’re junking on content. Keep sipping it. Slowly. Over time you’ll finish the bottle and get up to pee. That’s there number 3 comes in.
  3. Recognize another harmful pattern here. Is your approach to watching content affecting your mood or causing you to spiral into junk food addiction? Maybe cut down on the YouTube videos. Or if you enjoy them a lot, combine them with some other activity you can do with your hands - drawing, writing, lifting weights, anything. Basically understand that your hands are idle while your brain is engaged and that’s causing you to reach for that packet of food.
  4. Recognize that junk food is an addiction. Deal with it as you would an alcohol or nicotine addiction. You can go cold turkey or taper down. But you have to commit. You have to hold yourself accountable. But do not let yourself get bogged down by failure. Addiction is difficult to deal with. Deal with it anyway.
Bakachu,

I find your third point interesting. I read something a while back that suggested some cigarette smokers got started or hooked because of a compulsive need to have hands and/or mouth preoccupied, particularly in stressful situations. I think it was called something like digital-oral fixation? Anyways, I wonder if that’s one of the reasons behind constant snacking. Maybe a stress response paired with a compulsive disorder…

IgnisAvem,
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It’s actually incredibly common. Think about all the people who bite on the end of their pen or always have a drink (like a water bottle or coffee) to hand

taiyang, in What's your favorite instrument that really gets through to you?

Singing, although I guess it’s kind of cheating since it can be emotionally charged (I get goose bumps from certain songs).

Instrumental… Cello or bass guitar, depending on mood. Give me a good bass line and it’ll get me going.

Caboose12000,

instrumental music can also be emotionally charged, no?

taiyang,

Certainly, but if you hear a crying person, for instance, many (though, not all) people will instinctively feel for that person. Instrumental music can invoke similar feelings, either through associatation or because certain sounds hit those same chords, so to speak (I’m thinking the difference between major and minor chords, or when something is off key).

Vocals, like acting, can have that more direct line to your empathy. At least, that’s my thinking. A really good song can give me goosebumps too, though.

MajorMajormajormajor, in Is there a forum for people who are lonely and sad but specifically not incel sickos?

The easiest way to make friends (and this is no easy task if you’re an adult) is to revolve it around hobbies. Find people who share the same interests and conversation is easier if there is something to talk about. This can be online or in person. For example, there are weekly DnD games that happen at local game stores, or book reading clubs, or take a woodworking class at a local college, or find a forum that is all about one niche subject you’re into. If you don’t have hobbies then you have to find something to try, and just try everything you can to see what you are into.

As a once socially inept kid who was bullied mercilessly, social skills are something that takes practice. For me, changing schools, taking up a sport, and getting a job where I had to socialize with people is where I learned to socialize. There were a lot of very awkward conversations, but eventually you figure out what works and what doesn’t.

z00s,

Came here to say this. Friendship will develop naturally if you have a hobby in common. Takes the weirdness away, gives you something to talk about.

Meetup.com is very useful

ace_garp, in Ancient wisdom often sounds like common sense now that it is commomly taught. What is some ancient wisdom that we no longer teach because it was wrong?
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That a vomitorium is a room where Romans would go to vomit up their food and drink so they could gorge themselves some more.

Not saying that this act never occurred, mind you.

A vomitorium is a architectural feature that allows large numbers of people to disperse from a tunnel under the seats of a stadium.

Feathercrown,

This isn’t ancient wisdom. In fact, your debunking uses wisdom that’s more ancient. It is true though.

greedytacothief, in what are your fun, low stakes new year resolutions?

Stop referring to myself as old…

Kolanaki,
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“Man, I sure am ancient.

HipsterTenZero,
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Decrepit, withered, timeworn, we got synonyms for days

Abird1620,

Artifact!

Brickhead92,

For weeks and months even

owatnext,

I prefer relic, thank you very much.

SoupBrick, in I am to celebrate new years eve alone. How can I celebrate solo?
tabularasa,

Yes, this.

Wiz,

That’s suicide by pickles

voidMainVoid, in I am to celebrate new years eve alone. How can I celebrate solo?

It’s traditional to play lots of video games. Trust me on this one.

ohlaph,

Two years ago, I played Terraria, last year was Valheim, and this year I’m still deciding. I might play Valheim again. I’m working on a base that is absolutely huge.

What will you be playing?

burliman, in What's your favorite instrument that really gets through to you?

Spanish guitar.

cheese_greater,

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  • hips_and_nips,

    The sitar originates from the Indian subcontinent my dude, not Iberia.

    ozmotear, in Which of the U.S. national parks in this image do you think is the most worth visiting? There are three exceptions.

    Shenandoah and the Great Smokey mountains.

    Drive the blue ridge parkway. it’s about 4 days with plenty of great sights off the side of the road.

    jcrabapple,
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    This! It’s beautiful in late summer, early fall. Lots of great easy and moderate hiking. Hit up Front Royal, VA for some food and booze.

    QuarterSwede,
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    Definitely this. Great areas.

    Metacortechs, in What's your favorite instrument that really gets through to you?

    Rhodes Piano, hands down.

    ohlaph,

    I’m a piano kind of guy myself.

    uriel238, (edited ) in Ancient wisdom often sounds like common sense now that it is commomly taught. What is some ancient wisdom that we no longer teach because it was wrong?
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    Lightning never strikes the same place twice. In fact it favors repeated strikes at the same arcing point.

    In the middle ages churches would ring the steeple bells during a thunderstorm in an effort to soothe God. (it was assumed the Christian God was directly responsible for lightning.) This resulted in such an epidemic of lightning deaths among parish priests that ringing church bells in thunderstorms remains a criminal act in some regions of Europe.

    Modern cathedrals and statues are fitted with replaceable lightning rods, in an admission God is content to let the mechanics of static electricity guide His thunderbolts.

    f4f4f4f4f4f4f4f4,

    I always suspected that the “no mixing wool and linen” verses in the Bible were due to miniature lightning striking (heh) the fear of God into the ancients.

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