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Today, in What gifts are you getting for your friends and family members?

My family asked for a pocket knife, guitar strings and picks, a pastry blender, shoe trees and shoe care items, and a hammock.

felixwhynot,
@felixwhynot@lemmy.world avatar

Pocket knives are a nice gift all around!

iamnotdunningkruger, in What is the most unusual spirit you have in your home bar?

A bottle of Canadian Club legit from 1963. We drank it neat while watching Mad Men.

legios, in Can anyone else feel sensations in their brain?
@legios@aussie.zone avatar

I’ve had migraines so yes. But also I had the ‘brain zap’ side-effects from antipsychotics too and that is very unnerving as it feels like an electric zap in your brain. It makes you wince and twitch.

0/10, wouldn’t recommend.

snausagesinablanket,
@snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world avatar

Ahh Paxil withdrawals. Made me ruin a date with a girl I had a crush on for 5 years and finally got the balls to ask her out only to have brain zaps so bad I had to go home in complete embarrassment.

legios,
@legios@aussie.zone avatar

Mine was seroquel. Did not work as planned - made me want to sleep 18 hours a day and suicidal. Ended up losing my job which didn’t improve my mood…

Once I stopped it and started lithium and it was like night and day.

Drusas, (edited ) in [EXPERIMENTAL] What are your hidden gem medications/drugs/substances and what makes them ideal for your usecase [**Bolded Substance Name (Brand/Street Name)** + New Paragraph folks]

Ondansetron

Nauseous? You won't be for long if you take ondansetron.

cheese_greater, (edited )

Where do you get it?

Drusas,

It's by prescription only, but is an inexpensive prescription.

Chetzemoka, (edited )

Heads up to anyone with cardiac issues, especially long QT syndrome or other meds that prolong the QT internal: Ondansetron is so notorious for QT prolongation and cardiac arrhythmia problems that we have to perform an EKG before we’re allowed to give you a second dose on our cardiac unit.

I have scary anecdotes that bias me against it lol

Drusas,

A relatively niche case, to be sure, but thank you for pointing it out.

Chetzemoka, (edited )

Yeah, long QT syndrome is estimated around 1/2000 people. Relatively rare. I fully confess that I’m just traumatized by my personal experiences with patients taking the drug lol

cheese_greater,

Thats why I’m doing this thread, its a labor of love and curiosity but I’m intrigued to hear everyone dish freely about such a mundanely “taboo” subject

rbesfe, in What do you want for Christmas?

Buy the switch if you need that Nintendo game fix, but I would consider a steam deck if not. Much newer hardware and more repairable.

k0mprssd,
  • the same nintendo games 🏴‍☠️
xkforce, in Former religious lemmings, what made you quit religion or stop being a believer?

Fundies. Seeing how ridiculus and backward their beliefs were made me wonder about my own beliefs and one by one they failed to withstand the scrutiny I put them through.

CurlyMoustache,
@CurlyMoustache@lemmy.world avatar

I have never been religious (it was never a subject that came up in my family). What I found strange was when I started studying and moved to a larger city, alot of former christians I got to know told med how they stopped believing.

These were “extreme christians” if you compare them to other christians where I live (Norway, we’re not a religious society at all). When they went out into the world, they found out that they’d been lied to. They’d been told everyone else wanted what they had, and they’d be converting heathens left to right.

One girl I got to know, told me she noticed people physically rejected her and felt sorry for her when she told them about her religion and that they also could partake. The people also asked her very troubling questions she could’t answer, and they seemed to know the religious texts better than her. After that she started to question what she’d been told since childhood

GrayBackgroundMusic, (edited ) in Former religious lemmings, what made you quit religion or stop being a believer?

I’ve gone from Sunday attending to more lax and agnostic. Does that count? If so, is because of how inconsistent the actual practical actions of churches I’ve been to. Started protestant, but enough were hypocrites (remind me of the pharisees) so I stopped going. Became catholic and loved it, but the way the church has continually terribly handled the sex abuse pedo cases has disgusted me. Priests should be held to a higher standard, not lower.

Additionally, I don’t wanna be associated with the people who are Christian on TV. All the right wing Republicans in the US govt are terrible people. Whatever they say they are, I don’t wanna be a part of that. It’s hard to reconcile “love your neighbor” and then legislate their live away or give crazy people unfettered access to guns.

On a more practical level, I like a lot of the charity work and compassion taught by Jesus. I’m OK with the spiritual aspects. I cannot get behind the church’s message (mostly protestant) about personal relationship with God. If God intervenes, then that means it’s his responsibility when he doesn’t intervene and a lot of terrible things are his fault. If he doesn’t intervene, then a lot of what the church says is wrong. It doesn’t add up.

makunamatata,

Your response caught my attention because I had a similar path, though only in Catholic Church, practicing religion in my 20’s, but moving away after mid 30’s.

At a practical level Jesus was right, showing compassion, living modestly…. but the interpretations of the churches - not only catholic - all the pomp and circumstance around mass, preaching, shrouding secrecy, asking the poor for money, etc. made me question churches in general.

After studying some philosophy, and learning meditation practices, I believe churches play an important role in society, including that prayer enables the masses to experience meditative states that have important health benefits. Religious teachings give something in which people can believe in, instead of facing uncertainties of life alone.

Also in many cases throughout history, churches anchored small communities together.

I believe people should experience church to decide on their own, but not being guilted to staying. Each person should be able to discern, choose their path, but there are always the crazy ones out there guilting and trying to impose their beliefs on to others. That is not right.

arlaerion,

One big problem with your last paragraph: Baptism and many other rite to join religions happen at a very young age. These children know no world without the belief almost everyone around them practices. It’s getting their norm how live is. Leaving gets hard, it means leaving your life behind.

SHamblingSHapes, (edited ) in Former religious lemmings, what made you quit religion or stop being a believer?

I was up for confirmation, when allegedly the Holy Spirit enters you and you start a more adult phase relationship with God. Post-ceremony, the prep class teacher asked all of us newly confirmed kids if we had felt the holy Spirit enter us. Every single kid but me said yes. It was obvious to me that they were being influenced by each other and the encouragement of the teacher and the specialness of the ceremony. Realizing I didn’t want to be carried away by the wave of group fuzzies was the start of my drifting from the church.

And then the firm end to it all was when I left home and got away from the network of religious friends and family I grew up around and really saw how the church treats gay people and women and children.

StruckOutInSlowPitch,

When I was doing my sunday school classes getting ready for confirmation, I remember thinking, what if I don’t want to be confirmed? What if I get up there and just say no? I didn’t do that cause my parents obviously pressured me into religion in the first place, but that’s definitely the first time I realized it just wasn’t for me. Took me until college to convince my family I wasnt going to church with them anymore.

Im not a religious bashing person, but you just have to be blind to so many contradictions and horrible events to stay sane and believe it’s all for a better reason and that there is a higher power orchestrating it all. Props to those people cause I just can’t do it.

MycoBro, (edited ) in What are your "poor person" money life hacks?

I save a ton with my garden and chickens. If you got just a little land. I live in a small town but in the middle of it, but I got my yard used to its maximum potential. You would be surprised what you can fit if you do it right. You can go vertical if you need too. Where you save a so much money isn’t that “oh well, now I don’t have to buy a squash! I saved 3 dollars “ but if you let it dictate your meals it’s what you eat and then you spend 0 dollars on supper. I ate a lot of squash and bok Choy and rice and home baked bread this late summer and it was great every meal. Probably saved nearly $20,000 on groceries those two months. Give or take. (Don’t try squash if you don’t have the room. They are delicious but will straight up take over a given area with huge beautiful leaves and huge wonderful yellow flowers all summer)

TAG,
@TAG@lemmy.world avatar

How much time do you spend looking after your garden? In my area, I would need to water the garden occasionally (if there is not much rain), figure out a pest mitigation solution (I don’t want to eat squashes half eaten by rodents, weed the plant bed, etc.

I know all this because my father took up gardening as a retirement hobby and quit after a few years because he did not want another full time job.

jkjustjoshing, (edited )

You would be spending $10,000/month on groceries without your garden??

MycoBro,

Was joking about the number. Jesus. Of course not. Wtf

techt,

It’s strange because it… isn’t really a joke, just wrong information? It’s not a high enough value to be obvious hyperbole (“I saved like a million on groceries”), so it looks like a typo that you didn’t realize you made and are now aggressively defending like you meant it as a joke. Not saying that’s the case, but that’s sure what it looks like.

Could you estimate how much it actually might have saved you? I think that’d be very good for the discussion.

snausagesinablanket,
@snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world avatar

If you got just a little land

Let me go ahead and get a mortgage so I can raise chickens to save money.

| Probably saved nearly $20,000 on groceries those two months.

10k a month in groceries?

Farmer’s markets sell veggies cheap as fuck.

MycoBro,

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  • Blue_Morpho,

    You think I meant 20k?

    “Probably saved nearly $20,000 on groceries those two months. Give or take”

    I can’t tell if you are trolling

    31337,

    Farmer’s markets are very expensive in my area. Like, almost double the price of my local grocery stores. I sometimes wonder if people just buy their goods from the grocery store and sell them at the market.

    hal_5700X, in What's the best gaming console and why?
    @hal_5700X@lemmy.world avatar

    PlayStation 2 due to it’s game library.

    RustyShackleford, in What would be some of your top choices of things to see if you were the size of an ant?

    My top would easily be my erect penis, to see all 5” at that size would be great.

    Froyn,

    Someone hasn't watched Gen V

    Shakezuula,

    Someone didn’t read the instructions. You’re the size of an ant so it’s gonna be an ant’s penis now!

    chatokun, in Is there an artist whose work you love but was a shitty person?

    Like many mentioned, lots of examples. First one to come to mind for me was Exurb1a. Sarcastic and witty videos about science, philosophy, futurism, etc. I remember one video had a joke about tossing an ex out a window I found uncomfortable, but he also used a bunch of self derogatory humor etc, and his style did include exaggerated characters etc.

    Then some convincing evidence came out that he was an abuser and iirc also raped someone. I don’t have the link now and as usual don’t believe stuff a random anonymous person says on the internet, but it was disappointing to say the least.

    Today, in [EXPERIMENTAL] What are your hidden gem medications/drugs/substances and what makes them ideal for your usecase [**Bolded Substance Name (Brand/Street Name)** + New Paragraph folks]

    CBG For migraines Works as well as my prescriptions work less side effects. Many people use it as a preventative.

    Chetzemoka, (edited ) in [EXPERIMENTAL] What are your hidden gem medications/drugs/substances and what makes them ideal for your usecase [**Bolded Substance Name (Brand/Street Name)** + New Paragraph folks]

    Apigenin (herbal supplement)

    Insomnia, anxiety

    Derived from chamomile flowers (and other plant sources), I’ve found this to be more successful in treating my chronic insomnia than any of the pharmaceutical options. (And believe me, I’ve tried them all.)

    cheese_greater,

    Was curious about this since Andrew Huberman mentioned it

    Chetzemoka,

    It’s really safe even in absolutely large doses. (There are studies performed using doses in the multiple GRAM range.) I highly recommend trying it. Personally I take 400mg/night, which is twice the dosage you’ll see advertised. I only mention because I think the standard advertised range is probably too low for people like me.

    cheese_greater, (edited )

    Thanks! Is it expensive? How much do you get?

    Chetzemoka,

    Oh man, you are really challenging my senior citizen brain here. I think I know how to bold things haha

    I like Nootropics Depot as a source company. They sell it for $20 for a 30 count bottle of 200mg capsules.

    cheese_greater,

    Is that the dose, 1/night before bed?

    Chetzemoka,

    Yep, that’s the usual recommended dose - 200mg like an hour before bedtime

    cheese_greater,

    Would you recommend it for other seniors particularly? My grandmother might like something like this? She liked Calm Magnesium Sleep except for the GI effect of magnesium citrate and I wonder it this might be easier on the system to the extent she’d be into it

    Chetzemoka,

    I actually WOULD recommend this for seniors. It does not have any anticholinergic side effects like a lot of pharmaceutical sedatives do, and it doesn’t interact with the most common blood pressure or cardiac meds that older folks often take.

    I have the same problem with magnesium supplements. Mag glycinate has less of that laxative effect than mag citrate, so she could try that as well.

    The only two caveats I would add are: she should definitely tell her doctors she’s taking it, as with any OTC supplement. And if she’s specifically on a drug called warfarin (Coumadin), she should be very cautious. (Even Tylenol can cause warfarin to build up in the body. Warfarin sucks, so we don’t use it as much anymore, but it’s not unheard of.)

    Hope that helps! (I’m a cardiac nurse. I work with older folks a lot.)

    cheese_greater, (edited )

    Thanks, I’m in talks with the right expert hehe :)

    More specifically, is it genuinely helpful for quality of sleep, all other things being constructive towards that end in turn?

    Chetzemoka,

    Hahaha, I love working with older folks. They’re my favorite patients.

    cheese_greater, (edited )

    Re:Apigenin -> sleep quality?

    Chetzemoka,

    Literally the only thing that gives me refreshing sleep. (See also: mitochondrial dysfunction that I mentioned in my other comment about CQ10.) Apigenin seems to improve what’s called “sleep architecture” in a way that none of the pharmaceuticals I’ve ever tried do.

    cheese_greater,

    Shit, I may have to try it first. Im getting other sleep stuff done but every bit helps

    Chetzemoka,

    Here, I found a good article for you:

    uspharmacist.com/…/assisting-seniors-with-insomni…

    cheese_greater,

    I gotta sleep soon aha but I’ll leave you with a last question for tonight: what do you think mediates Apigenin’s efficacy for sleep? Like what is the mechanism behind its efficacy, what systems does it modulate?

    Thanks and no rush, I’ll listen to that article tomorrow :)

    Chetzemoka,

    So, it’s interesting, because it’s well-known to have effects on the same GABA receptors as benzodiazepines (like Xanax), but none of the addictive, physical dependence problems, and apigenin doesn’t respond consistently to the drug we use to reverse benzos (called flumazenil).

    So… we’re not entirely sure? It could still be the GABA effects that help with sleep. But there’s also a host of antiinflammatory neurological effects that probably better explain its efficacy against Alzheimer’s, for example.

    Now, if you really want to put yourself to sleep, feel free to crawl through this alphabet soup of a research article lol:

    www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6472148/

    cheese_greater, (edited )

    Thanks and I will check those out. Does the flumazenil displace GABA_B ligands/receptors as well or only _A?

    Thats all for tonight, night

    Chetzemoka,

    Oh you’re getting in the weeds now hahaha. Looks like it’s primarily GABA_A

    www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5326685/

    I just had to look that shit up haha. I’ve never thought to check into it beyond just “you’re not breathing, so I’m about to make you very angry by reversing your high, sorry bro” lol

    cheese_greater,

    It seems as if _B ligands are both way less ubiquitous and also variably less-reinforcing than traditional alcohol-type sedatives like benzos/barbs/sleeps, although I say that very conjecturally (is that a word? Aha). And less likely to be overdone to the point the therapeutic window is being dangerously exceeded or a polypharmacy situation that leads to medical emergency like that

    From my own experience with baclofen which I used to wean off drinking and help with the induced anxiety, I didn’t really find it super pleasent or enjoyable and there were enough annoying sides like tearing up and a crappy fuzziness that was super offputting. Alcohol and sedatives (especially sleeping pills), totes different story (I find them as a class GABA_A way more dangerous and mindlessly compulsive.

    Chetzemoka,

    Huh, now that’s super interesting.

    Ok you and I both have to go to sleep, but now you’ve got me wondering about the eternal debate amongst our medical residents about benzos vs. barbiturates for acute alcohol withdrawal. I’ll have to read up on this some more

    cheese_greater,

    Yeah, ask about baclofen, its famously advocated by a French dr who struggled to find a proper treatment for his alcoholism until he arrived on baclofen. End of My Addiction is the title.

    I used it as an adjuvant treatment along with naltrexone and careful timing in terms of the actual drinking that was required to make the naltrexone effective in addressing the neurochemical basis for much of the compulsion from alcohol.

    voxthefox, in What is the most unusual spirit you have in your home bar?

    Probably the earl Grey infused gin I’ve had in a decanter for 4 years now. It’s pretty goof, but hard to mix with

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