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WeLoveCastingSpellz, in Framework vs Macbook laptop?

Just go with framework, it is going to better in every single way, I would probably install linux on it if I were you. (you expressed your concerns about microaoft being an evil corporation)

Alivrah, in Lemmy, is there a treasured piece of content that you stop yourself from going back to "too often" so as to not dilute it?

Some books and mangas, but mostly the Ghibli movies. Specially because when I watch one of them, I immediately want to go on a full Ghibli marathon.

They’re beautiful.

kratoz29,
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They’re beautiful.

In which aspects are you finding them beautiful?

Don’t get me wrong I am not a hater whatsoever, but I started watching them with my girlfriend recently and I’m not feeling it completely, I only watched Spirited Away before and I have the same feeling.

We have watched so far (in this order):

  1. The Boy and The Heron
  2. Princess Mononoke (this one was my favorite)
  3. How’s Castle
  4. My Neighbor Totoro

The art design is top notch I can agree with that.

WatTyler, in What software do you wish that existed?

Bloodborne on PC

sploosh, in Income based social and mental illness.

I’ve noticed the only people with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome seem to be able to afford to live without working.

ULS, (edited )

Interesting… But my OP isn’t about not working, it’s about getting paid for working. (Not trying to sound like a dick)

Chronic Fatigued Syndrome info for anyone curious;

www.cdc.gov/me-cfs/index.html

acetanilide,

The only people you’re aware of*

invertedspear, in Framework vs Macbook laptop?

Having an iPhone won’t make Mac any easier, but it will be more integrated. Lots of nice convenience features like a shared note library and your text messages can be interacted with from the laptop.

Not sure what the cost difference is, but considering your other messages were talking about starting out on the path of cybersecurity, a more open platform that you can run Linux off of would probably trump the conveniences.

WoahWoah, (edited ) in If Trump loses in 2024, do you think he'd run in 2028?

Remember: narcissists are psychologically incapable of imagining themselves no longer existing. He thinks he’ll live forever because he literally can’t conceive of any other possibility.

JohnDClay, in Framework vs Macbook laptop?

Funny, I was just watching something about framework! It’s got some discussion of various framework reviews and the pros and cons of the machine.

www.youtube.com/live/KDIXNRgnDWQ/?t=21m49s

With framework being a new company, looks like they’re working out some bugs, but they’re doing it quickly and transparently. The laptop costs more per performance than other options, but since you can upgrade it down the line, you can save money in the long run.

Compared to a MacBook, it really depends on the applications you use. Video editing is likely going to be better on mac, but good luck trying to game on it. Mac has better battery life, but you’ll pay an arm and a leg to repair anything, sometimes being cheaper to buy a whole new machine than pay their exorbitant prices.

So it all depends on the use case, but I’d go with framework. I care that the company isn’t adversarial, and it would work for what I use a laptop for.

XEAL, in How do I stop a crush from developing further?

From my own experience: cut all contact with that person… which may not be viable in your situation.

throwawaysalami,

So it’s either quit dancing or develop romantic feelings for her? Q.E.D. I’m fucked.

scytale,

I mean, you can find a new dance instructor.

RootBeerGuy,
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Yeah, salami, can you just switch classes? Or another dance studio, same course or something?

throwawaysalami, (edited )

Yeah that’s actually not that bad of an idea. If things go south I’ll use this as a last resort. Change dance studios that is.

SnokenKeekaGuard, (edited )
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I had a crush on a girl when I was 14, still do, It’s been 10 years. Havent seen her or talked to her for 8. Can a hypnotist or someone help.

Its not a deep crush now, but I still think about her OFTEN and am not at all over it.

Edit: jeez i wonder what it’d be like to be on the recieving end of that lol.

SubArcticTundra,
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Yeah, I’ve found that learned anxiety that my brain has around crushes from my past is one thing time does not heal.

SnokenKeekaGuard,
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UPDATE: I JUST REACHED OUT AND SHE DOESNT EVEN REMEBER ME 😭😭. I FEEL dead inside

sanguinepar,
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Ouch. That sucks 😞

At least you know though. Maybe you can move on now. Hope so 🤞

SnokenKeekaGuard,
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Oh my brain will delulu itself into something I’m sure.

RanchOnPancakes, in How do I stop a crush from developing further?
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Shit your pants during dance class. All possibility is dead.

Krudler, (edited ) in What software do you wish that existed?

Mapping software that can give directions the way human navigator would.

When I’m driving in my own city, my mapping software should be intelligent enough to know that I am aware of most of the roads; it can track me.

I don’t need to hear

“Keep straight on Highway 101 West signs for Highway 101 West for 300m, then take exit 104 South signs for Highway 104 South, take exit 104A South signs for 104 South, merge onto Highway 104 South signs for 104 South. Go straight on Highway 104 South for 400m then take the left lane and turn left on route 40 Eastbound signs for route 40. Boodle-ding you are on the correct route. In 200m turn left onto route 40 Eastbound signs for route 40 Eastbound. Turn left onto route 40 Eastbound signs for route 40 Eastbound.”

… When what is needed in a realistic sense is the following:

“In 300m take the exit to 104 Southbound then after 400 m, turn left at the first set of lights onto route 40”

____,

That would be a meaningful improvement. I moved - basically sight unseen - a year ago to a new town. Day one I needed every bit of turn by turn. Now, if I’m headed to any of the four or five places I bother to go, I just set up the map as a CYA and a simple “yep, make that turn you’re planning on” would be sufficient.

Then there’s a 90 minute trip i make every two weeks, that I know fairly well but not like I’d know a daily drive. The first hour is “Jump on 74 west, take exit for 57 south, and go a ways”. That part I have down cold obv.

After I get onto hwy 36 tho, damned if I can remember where the (poorly marked) left turn onto CR 1300 is.

Better still would be an adaptive mode. Leave me tf alone with my CCR playlist until I’m within a couple miles of that poorly marked turn. THEN help me out with a gentle reminder.

The hour or so of instructions prior to that point are wasted and would be pretty easy for AI to figure out I don’t need help on that part.

GlendatheGayWitch,

That’s kind of what the old Google Maps did 20 years ago. Now Google Maps will yell you to exit a highway in order to stay on that highway.

Krudler,

Sadly, that description was motivated by a direct experience I had a few days ago with Google maps.

But I’ve definitely had that other experience as well, where the next leg of the trip is to go straight for 20 minutes, and Google Maps chimes-in every 30 seconds to remind me to stay straight.

The most recent meaningful upgrade I have seen in the software is that instead of deciding to either play each piece of audio through the phone speaker or the Bluetooth, quite at random, it will now play things through the Bluetooth. Livin’ in 2024.

Usernameblankface, in Anyone else do "last chance socks"?
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I do this, but because I don’t like throwing out clean clothes. It takes a few rounds of accidentally washing the worn out item before I’ll throw it away while it’s clean.

thisismyhaendel,

Haha, I wish I were this way, I feel weird not washing clothes one more time before throwing them off, as almost a goodbye ritual

Usernameblankface,
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Your way is fine, too. I think I’m being unreasonable by insisting they should be dirty at the moment they’re thrown out.

southsamurai, in Anyone else do "last chance socks"?
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I mean, I don’t throw them away immediately, I wash them and put them in the rag bag. There’s always something needs a disposable bit of fabric to handle. Socks are great for dusting, as an example. Pull it over your hand, wipe things down, and Bob’s your uncle.

Anticorp,

How did you know that I have an Uncle Bob?

jqubed,
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We all have an uncle Bob

Anticorp,

Is… is it the same guy?

jqubed,
@jqubed@lemmy.world avatar

Shhhh

PrincessLeiasCat,

OP pls we need to know……

southsamurai,
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I’m psychotic

Cracks_InTheWalls, (edited ) in Other than Lemmy, what are you doing tonight?
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Potentially taking drugs and watching a triple feature of Godzilla Minus One, a film by one of the theatre owners, and a mystery movie.

JIMMERZ,

Long time Godzilla fan. Minus One is a work of art imo.

jeffw, in How do I stop a crush from developing further?
@jeffw@lemmy.world avatar

Find someone else

macattack,

Simple yet effective. I think that there is something missing romantically in your life and those feelings won’t go away because you bury them

jeffw, (edited )
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It’s not burying them per se, it’s how sex drives work.

Aremel, (edited ) in How do I stop a crush from developing further?

Full speed ahead, tell her how you feel. It can only end in two ways:

  1. Your dream becomes a premonition and you live happily ever after.
  2. She tells you she doesn’t feel the same way and it ends there, awkwardly or not.

Speaking from experience. I had a crush on this one girl and I just couldn’t get her out of my mind. I decided to do something about it and asked her out. She said no and that was the end of it.

Don’t be afraid to be awkward.

Edit: If this truly is an impossible situation (you or the instructor are already in committed relationships) then I agree with everyone else telling you to find another instructor.

OR

Still do what I said but try to reconcile your feelings for her, with her. Also speaking from experience here. If she is a dance instructor, she is probably no stranger to having her pupils develop feelings for her.

throwawaysalami,

If she is a dance instructor, she is probably no stranger to having her pupils develop feelings for her.

But this just makes it worse. Cause you’re probably right. Which would make me feel even more like a schmuck. Yeah I think I’m just gonna go find a new instructor.

SubArcticTundra, (edited )
@SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml avatar

Agreed. Coming out to a crush has never helped me personally as it was pretty evident they weren’t showing as much interest in me as I had in them. For me, crushes have always happened when my exposure to the person was one-sided/parasocial (as seems to have been the case in your lesson). I have found that the most effective way to prevent this is to get to know people that excite you on a personal level before a crush can develop. This usually means enthusiastically trying to interact with them moment I notice them and abandoning them if it does not work out — instead of watching them for a while and then deciding whether to approach.

sanguinepar,
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Maybe you could get a new instructor, but tell the current one why, and say you just feel it’s right to move on.

Then, if there’s any reciprocating feelings you might find out. And if not, at least you’re already moving on.

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