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Mr_Blott, in Was stalking your EX boyfriend normalized during the last decade?
slazer2au, in Was stalking your EX boyfriend normalized during the last decade?

It wasn’t normalised it was made much easier with social media and a considerable amount of memes are self humour

Pandantic,
@Pandantic@midwest.social avatar

Not self humor. This girl was a meme, as in her photo was taken and then text out on top of it to portray a crazy ex-/girlfriend. The real person is not actually like that.

slazer2au,

Self humour from people posting the meme not from her herself.

Pandantic,
@Pandantic@midwest.social avatar

And I doubt very much that people were posting those memes in reference to themselves. I posted them, but because they were funny, not because I related to them. In fact, imo they are so over the top that I doubt any person that would relate to them would think they were funny.

AnxiousDater101, (edited )

Do men create them out of humor and then the women use them as like battle cards? So if your caught looking or laughing at them your automatically in trouble? I’m getting the hint that they make women mad

nokturne213,

Are you 12 or an incel?

AnxiousDater101,

Is an incel someone you want to trap in a cell?

shinigamiookamiryuu,

No, that’s a computer brand.

Pandantic,
@Pandantic@midwest.social avatar

Yes, and no…

Slowy, (edited )
@Slowy@lemmy.world avatar

Why are you so focused on men vs. women? That kind of subtle (and often not so subtle) sexism that you frequently post isn’t really appreciated, or funny, it’s just shitty and boring. Just treat us like people…

Pandantic,
@Pandantic@midwest.social avatar

I posted them because it was funny to imagine and make fun of someone who is so blatantly obsessed with someone as to do and think the things in the memes. Also, part of the humor is that the things she “says” and “does” are usually not so forwardly put - as in they are usually thought by the obsessed person or are done in secret.

As for making women angry, well I’ve never experienced that or gotten that impression.

conciselyverbose,

lol now I want to know what meme he's so mad about.

Mr_Blott,
conciselyverbose,

That's dumb as hell.

Mr_Blott,

And that’s what people will say about your memes in ten years; get used to it

conciselyverbose,

All memes are dumb. They're supposed to be.

I'm talking about being offended by that.

Mr_Blott,

Ah sorry man, I thought you meant the meme was stupid

I think OP is trolling though

XTL,
Rhynoplaz, (edited ) in Was stalking your EX boyfriend normalized during the last decade?

I can’t figure out if you are an idiot, not funny, or a little bit of both.

weeeeum, in what is a parental advice you wish you could give to your father/mother before they had you?

Physical punishment is traumatic, unhelpful and builds resentment.

NightAuthor, in what is a parental advice you wish you could give to your father/mother before they had you?

You have ADHD and your kids probably will too.

cheese_greater, in What made up movie title would make it hard to sell it to the public?

Heil Honey, I’m Home

VindictiveJudge,
@VindictiveJudge@lemmy.world avatar

If we’re going with real titles, hardly anyone saw The Shawshank Redemption in theaters because nobody knew what the hell a Shawshank was.

cheese_greater, (edited )

Is it like a shank carved from a chainsaw?

AgentGrimstone, in Why are there so many apps that could be websites?

We had a project once that ran completely fine as a website except for the ability to scan bar codes. That one thing forced us to create an app and the rest of the app was just showing the website.

bradbeattie,

serratus.github.io/quaggaJS/ and whatnot exist. Any reason why such an approach couldn’t be taken?

stackPeek, (edited )
@stackPeek@lemmy.world avatar

Can’t you use camera on browser? I actually seen a project that does some complex things using camera [1] and it ran in browser. I’m confident scanning bar codes is possible.

[1] qiblafinder.withgoogle.com/intl/en/desktop

Syenite,

There are JS barcode libraries out there, some better than others, some free, others paid. A few years back at a corporate job I built just the thing - a web app designed to replace a 3rd party mobile app. The back-end was Laravel + various AWS services, with a responsive front-end made with Tailwind.

The requirements were to make it mimic most of the mobile app’s functionality. There was also location tracking via browser APIs (to track the cargo at all times) and a barcode scanner. I used a paid library for that, and it was quite expensive, but very reliable. So it can definitely be done as a web app.

AnxiousDater101, (edited ) in What makes something a Luxury?

Scarcity, something in demand and not shared with others.

Dehydrated,

In other words, a monopoly created by greedy corporations

AnxiousDater101,

Yes, but also your time and privacy.

Lemvi, in What makes something a Luxury?

All wares whose demand increases disproportionally with an increasing income.

Bread for example is not a luxury. If you were to earn twice as much, you wouldn’t buy much more bread than you already do. The same isn’t true for jewelry for example.

kava, in Why are there so many apps that could be websites?

Because the majority of internet connections these days are from a mobile device. And if you want to reach the average person, you have to be where they are looking.

I think it’s really a shame that mobile OS’s are so locked down that the only real way for people to download things is through some centralized app store.

Honytawk,

Are average persons regularly scrolling through their app store looking for new apps then?

Popups on your websites for the app are by definition redirections to places the user isn’t looking.

kava,

i was curious so i did some research

A study by Google and Ipsos found that while app stores are a popular destination for finding new apps, they are not the only method. About 40% of smartphone users browse for apps in app stores, and one in four app users discovers an app through a search engine. This suggests that a significant portion of smartphone users are indeed using search engines, rather than just app stores, to find apps and information​​

source

Additionally, data from Amplitude Labs reveals that app usage grew by 36% from January 2020 to December 2021, while website usage grew by 57% in the same period. By December 2021, the user base was almost evenly split between apps and websites, with 54% of users on apps and 46% on websites​​

source

while me or you might go to a search engine and type in “weather today”, i think there really is a large chunk of the userbase (somewhere near half) who would rather go into the app store and type in “weather”

i think it might be an age thing with older people, but honestly, maybe even younger generations like alpha / z. they grew up in a different OS environment. we grew up on PCs, they grow up on mobile OS

cows_are_underrated,

F-droid exists, but sadly most people and devs don’t use it.

kava, (edited ) in What makes something a Luxury?

something that is objectively unnecessary but gives comfort or at least the illusion of comfort

i think of it like the laws of diminishing returns

think of a shitbox $3,000 used car. assuming the engine is more or less running, you get like 80% of the benefits of a car

it gets you from point A -> B - the primary purpose of a car

then you spend another $10,000 for a $13,000 5~6 year old Toyota or something. now you have A/C, that gives you an extra few % benefits. You get a carplay so you have a nice little screen for a GPS, another few %. you get a key that unlocks your car, etc.

so you went from 80% to lets say 90%. but that base 80%, getting you from point A -> B hasn’t changed.

that extra $10,000 bought you 10% extra

then let’s say you spend another $100,000 for a $113,000 car

you get all the benefits of the previous cars, but you maybe can speed up a little faster. you have heated seats. you have a sport mode or something.

that extra $100,000 bought you another like 7% so now you’re at 97%

Luxury is that last 20%. The closer you wanna get to 100%, the more expensive each % costs. This is a status symbol

intensely_human,

the illusion of comfort

lmao

kava,

you’re gonna tell me that a $5,000 bottle of wine is 200x better than a $25 bottle of wine? They’ve done many random taste tests and even the wine experts can’t always tell the difference.

the difference is the luxury. the garcon coming out and telling you about some fancy wine grown with special grapes in france. he pours it for you and your date. etc

illusion of comfort. the illusion is what is important.

sometimes there are differences. for example when you pay for an expensive supercar, it’s going to drive incredibly well. the money goes somewhere. but i think a large chunk is what i said, an illusion

AnxiousDater101, (edited )

No offense but i get an artist vibe off you. You got me thinking about the media, Artist, narcotics and crypto links. You can top it off with surveillance and psychological manipulation from the media.

papalonian,

The hell you talkin bout boy

Octopus1348,
@Octopus1348@lemy.lol avatar

What is bro yapping about

virku,

I agree with your example, but I disagree that the luxury cutoff is at 80%. For me it is at 90% in your example. A car that only mostly runs is a liability and may even end up costing more per year than the 90% one because of repairs. At least it is like that here in Norway.

kava, in what is a parental advice you wish you could give to your father/mother before they had you?

work smarter not harder

my dad was an immigrant (technically so was I but I was brought here at a young age) and didn’t speak the language. so he did manual labor jobs for a long time until he felt confident enough to try his luck at his own business. now he works much less and makes much more.

leave the manual labor for the people who can’t do anything else. if you have skills, put them to use

JeffreyOrange,

Who can’t do anything else? That’s pretty demeaning and rude

kava, (edited )

everybody can’t be a doctor or lawyer. you need someone to clean toilets, dig holes, and carry cement.

some people don’t have the capacity or the willingness to do anything else. i work in the underground construction industry. there are a lot of illegals working digging holes and they’re perfectly happy with it. they can’t speak english, they can’t work a computer, and they don’t want to learn.

nothing wrong with it. other people, however, move up quickly. there was a girl we hired fresh off the boat. couldn’t speak english and started off essentially digging holes for $1000 a week. she was sharp minded, however, and quickly started helping with the administrative tasks on the job sites. we gave her a raise and a promotion to crew supervisor. we gave her a laptop, she learned english quickly and eventually became a foreman and by the time she left us about 2 years later, she was making nearly 3x her original salary. she updated a lot of the systems we had and created daily reports for our clients. something we weren’t doing - she just thought of it and it was a big benefit to us.

she ended up leaving to join someone else starting up their own company. she was able to get a big picture vision of the operation. some people cannot see past their job role

we have people that have been digging holes for us for the better part of a decade. they get paid their wage, they pay their bills, and when they get home they drink their beers and are happy.

it’s just the way it is. nothing wrong with it. i think it’s rude and demeaning to try and imply these people need to somehow get a better position or move forwards.

all i’m saying is if you’re in a position where you can do more, do more. you’ll get paid better and work less. and you’ll find it’s like an upward spiral. the more you do, the more things you’ll be given the opportunity to do. then you can leverage that into better opportunities

kava, in If you got COVID and lost the ability to taste things, did it ever come back? Otherwise, did you experience any other long term consequences from the pandemic in general?

i didn’t lose my taste, but my brother did. he ended up getting it back after a few days.

long term effects of the pandemic? working from home is normalized and i love it

rob_t_firefly, in what is a parental advice you wish you could give to your father/mother before they had you?
@rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world avatar

If you guys ever have kids, and one of them, when he’s eight years old, accidentally sets fire to the living room rug… go easy on him.

lseif,

Marty… what a nice name.

esc27, in What made up movie title would make it hard to sell it to the public?

Closed due to roach infestation

Aqarius,

Very creative, I like it.

lingh0e,

Joe’s Apartment?

vividspecter,

Today: Hit Movie

Tomorrow: Closed for roach infestation treatment

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