I already share my banking details with people who hate me. Namely, the corporations, who I am told are people, that clearly hate me because they keep charging me more money to pay for the same services year after year.
If the people I usually give this information to actually liked me, they wouldn’t be marking up the prices in the first place.
Walmart doesn’t just charge $4 for milk because it’s the market price or something. They do that because they fucking hate you and want all of your money.
You’re gonna have that talk anyway, so why don’t do it on your own terms. There’s still options to pursue your romantic aspirations with people, also are you really sure you’re not already sharing the child, given that you perceive the relationship as unromantic?
Yes, we are sharing… we just live together… with our son. The difference is, I can be with him whenever I want.
That talk has already been talked. We live together, that’s it. She doesn’t want me seeing anyone, so I don’t. I don’t wanna stir things up, it just leads to quarels, and I really don’t have the nerves for more of that… there has been enough of that, I’m trying to live in piece with my son.
I was just looking through the comments, and I came across this thread. I just wanted to say I’m sorry for what you’re going through. I hope you find peace and happiness.
I am at piece and happy. I get to live with my son without having to share him. That brings me more joy than a divorce and being free of her ever would.
I did actually try and divorce her. He was miserable… so was I. I asked her to get back together again. She knew the reason, but agreed anyway… maybe because she knew it was better that way, for the kid.
Share it with someone you don’t like, but like, not in an obvious you’re-giving-them-permission kind of way. Then report the fraud if they actually use it, then just see what happens.
You can give them as obviously as you like. Even hand them the physical card is fine. It’s still fraud if they use it without your explicit permission.
Edit: I misread that you said ‘obviously giving them permission’ part so I think I’m just reinforcing your point.
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