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MartinXYZ, in Minmaxxing

What is this referring to? I’ve played New Vegas and don’t remember anything about bisexuals…

captain_aggravated,
@captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works avatar

(this is an outsider’s understanding; I have not played the game myself)

There are two perks you can get in the game: “Lady Killer”, which grants a charisma buff (or something like that) when talking to female characters, and also allows you to do +10% damage to female characters. “Black Widow” grants the same charisma (or whatever) when talking to male characters, and the same +10% damage to male characters. It’s possible to get both of these perks at the same time.

It is my understanding that the previous game, Fallout 3, prevented anything but heteronormative interactions ie to romance a female NPC the player had to choose a male character, etc. To quote hbomberguy, “It implies that Bethesda doesn’t think gay people exist.” By contrast, New Vegas allows any character to take either of the above perks, or both at the same time, allowing one to roleplay as a gay or bisexual character to an admittedly tiny degree.

EmoDuck,

Small addendum, it’s not quite a Charisma buff. Instead, you sometimes get special dialogue related to your perks which looks like this:

[Confirmed Bachelor] “Why yes, I also like to play ‘hide the snake’”

[Barter] “I’m not gay, but 20 caps is 20 caps”

“Sorry, not interested”

reeen,

And also, it’s confirmed bachelor and lady killer for men interacting with other men and with women, and cherchez la femme and black widow for female PCs against women and men (respectively)

IzzyScissor,

One of the companions has a super high science/medicine skill requirement or a quest before you can recruit him.

Unless you’re gay, in which case you just flirt with him and he agrees to join you. It’s pretty great.

SpooksMcDoots,

I’m pretty sure he will also take pity on you if you have low intelligence.

EmoDuck,

The two most attractive traits in a man, being gay or being incredibly dumb

Sagifurius,

I’m pretty sure I had a female character that slept with female characters in the casino gang missions

EmoDuck,

NPCs actually have sexualities. The only way to beat the game with sex% is to abuse a bug and change your gender mid game

vzq, in I'm reminded of this after the hoopla at the Northern Border died down

Why am I seeing a whole bunch of pictures of female Japanese adolescents dressed like Donald Duck?

Bonehead, (edited )

Because it's a common Japanese school uniform. Why you're seeing a bunch of them is another question, but they're not actually dressed like Donald Duck purposely.

vzq,

Is it related to WW2 era navy uniforms, like Donald Duck’s? Or is it some freak convergence?

verdare,

I believe so. They actually are called “sailor” uniforms.

nyahlathotep,
@nyahlathotep@sh.itjust.works avatar

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/School_uniforms_in_Japan

The sailor fuku (セーラー服, sērā fuku) (lit. ‘sailor outfit’) is a common style of uniform worn by female middle school students, traditionally by high school students, and occasionally, elementary school students. It was introduced as a school uniform in 1920 at Heian Jogakuin (平安女学院)[9] and 1921 by the principal of Fukuoka Jo Gakuin University (福岡女学院),[10] Elizabeth Lee. It was modeled after the uniform used by the British Royal Navy at the time, which Lee had experienced as an exchange student in the United Kingdom.

WolfhoundRO,

Thanks Royal Navy

FlyingSquid,
@FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

Biden was in the Royal Navy in 1920. He was in his 50s at the time.

ElPussyKangaroo, in aibohphobia

Are these kinds of phobias legit stuff people have? As phobias?

Correct me if I’m wrong, but aren’t phobias supposed to be irrationally terrifying fears?

Lev_Astov,
@Lev_Astov@lemmy.world avatar

We’re also using phobia to refer to irrational hatred now, apparently, so that could be more common.

ElPussyKangaroo,

This confused me even more. Homophobia and transphobia don’t make any sense unless the hatred comes from irrational fear.

leggettc18,

Some of them are a bit oversimplified. For example, the so-called “fear of long words” is actually specifically supposed to be referring to an anxiety about misspelling or mispronouncing long words, which is a slightly more sensible and relatable phenomenon. Then there apparently some that are just made up, like apparently the palindrome ones.

ElPussyKangaroo,

I see…

Isn’t the existence of the names just easy bait for impressionable people to go around thinking they have that?

TheHolyChecksum,

Nah not really. There’s a bunch of names that were given just for the sake of inventing a names and getting attention. From Wikipedia: >>> Many -phobia lists circulate on the Internet, with words collected from indiscriminate sources, often copying each other. Also, a number of psychiatric websites exist that at the first glance cover a huge number of phobias, but in fact use a standard text to fit any phobia and reuse it for all unusual phobias by merely changing the name. Sometimes it leads to bizarre results, such as suggestions to cure “prostitute phobia”.[2] Such practice is known as content spamming and is used to attract search engines.

An article published in 1897 in American Journal of Psychology noted “the absurd tendency to give Greek names to objects feared (which, as Arndt says, would give us such terms as klopsophobia – fear of thieves, triakaidekaphobia – fear of the number 13…)”.[3]

ElPussyKangaroo,

Interesting. So basically a race to invent as many dumbass names to put against your name, huh?

RIP_Cheems, (edited )
@RIP_Cheems@lemmy.world avatar

Anatidaephobia is the phobia of being watched by a duck. The phobia even specifies that the fear is not that the duck will attack, but that it will simply spy on you and it hides from you. Funny enough there is a game by the same name that literally surrounds around hiding from ducks.

Endorkend, in I'm reminded of this after the hoopla at the Northern Border died down
@Endorkend@kbin.social avatar

"The party of personal responsibility" has never found an issue they couldn't blame on someone else.

It's all projection, all the time.

Yamainwitch,

Yah cause Biden is PERSONALLY responsible, NoT mY PrEzDeNt /SARCASM🤮🤢

Blapoo, in I'm reminded of this after the hoopla at the Northern Border died down

Hoopla?

Albbi,

A hullabaloo perhaps?

RizzRustbolt,

A bit of argle-bargle.

HerbalGamer,
@HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works avatar

A kerfuffle, even.

Octopus1348, in Connoisseur

I downvoted my own comment.

LEDZeppelin, in I'm reminded of this after the hoopla at the Northern Border died down

Remember “Thanks Obama!”?

BeigeAgenda,
@BeigeAgenda@lemmy.ca avatar

It could be merged into “Thanks O’Biden!”

AngryHumanoid,

Oh man that’s gold…

RizzRustbolt,

O’Brien. Everyone’s favorite punching bag.

WolfhoundRO,

Thanks Obamium!

Psaldorn, in aibohphobia
@Psaldorn@lemmy.world avatar

Hate to be a spoilsport but this is just for fun, not a real thing.

DragonTypeWyvern,

If there’s a name for it, it’s real, or something

JoShmoe,

There goes my day

stebo02,
@stebo02@sopuli.xyz avatar

try telling that to someone who’s aibohphobic… (jeez that was close)

letsgo,

Ideally it should be one of those irregular language thingies: someone who suffers from aibohphobia must be cibohphobic.

ironeagl, in Don't belive big telecom

“This sign won’t stop me because I can’t read!”

Auzy, in Connoisseur

I upvote because I’m on beehaw… and fairly sure I can’t downvote

scrubbles, (edited ) in In Germany we say "Arbeitnehmerrechte" and I think that's beautiful
@scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech avatar

I saw this earlier and I’m glad it was removed almost immediately.

Working retail/service in the US is a joke because people have become so entitled that they don’t even think of service workers as humans anymore. When I used to work retail at a certain big blue box electronics store I was screamed at, yelled at, belittled, called names, and in a couple very extreme cases had items thrown at me and one person took a swing at me.

This is just another example of that. People here in the US are so detached from reality and laser focused on their routine that they literally cannot comprehend that workers may want to spend a holiday with their family too. Or worse than that, they think workers don’t deserve to be at home with their families on a holiday, because they deserve service more than you deserve to see your family. God forbid they microwave a meal that one day.

It’s pure entitlement and it’s disgusting. Surprisingly I found that the lower income/societal class the person is the more entitled they would act towards me as a service worker.

Che_Donkey,
@Che_Donkey@lemmy.ml avatar

Living in a place where stores are shut sundays, ther isnt any service for my restaurant (beer/wine, or problems with keg equipment) and it’s actually quite refreshing.

If I run out, I run out. If there is no keg beer because the cooling unit stopped working then there isn’t any. No ribs on sunday night because we were busier than normal…on saturday. People understand.

it’s amazing.

*ps, if they dont, then thats their problem, not mine.

Kecessa,

Man, around here restaurants are also closed on Sunday AND Monday…

Che_Donkey,
@Che_Donkey@lemmy.ml avatar

Most here open Sunday for bunch/late lunch, close in the evening, then close Mon & Tue. This is why (during off season) we close wed & thur.

mindbleach,

It’s simpler than that, and worse.

You are beneath them.

In their worldview, there is The Hierarchy,™ and everybody’s role is to do as they’re told by people above them. There is no other force in their moral universe. Nothing else decides what is real.

People stuck in this mindset are vicious when they have so few opportunities to be the boot instead of the face. It’s identifying with the aggressor.

antrosapien,

The chain of screaming

porcariasagrada, (edited )

when education isn’t liberating, the dream of the oppressed is to become the oppressor.

t. Paulo Freire

voidf1sh,

That last sentence is the exact opposite of my experience having worked a decade in various retail positions. Aside from the people who were on drugs, I never had any big issues with lower income people, all the arrogance and assholery and entitlement almost always came from the douchebag in the Audi with the flashy gold watch, not from Peggy who came down to the store in the family’s broken down Olds to grab a pint of milk and half a gallon of gas… Lower income people tend to know what’s up, and be the most attached to reality. Money is what allows you to dissociate from the struggles of everyday people

Saledovil,

This seems like there’s more going on than what either you or Scrubbles are seeing.

Thrashy, (edited )
@Thrashy@lemmy.world avatar

There’s a world of difference in disposition between new money and old money, in my experience, and flashy-car-and-expensive-jewelry rich is decidedly new money. Families with generational wealth tend to be more discreet about it, and often have a “noblesse obligee” mentally about how they engage with the world. New money’s much more likely to pull the “don’t you know who I am?!” card.

Similarly, there’s a split between working class folks who know the score and recognize that they’re all in it together with the guy behind the counter, and the sort of temporarily-embarrassed millionaires who have themselves convinced they’re better than they are.

EldritchFeminity,

I think it’s part of what I’ve seen called the “temporarily embarrassed millionaire” effect. There’s a certain group of poor folk who have been convinced that, any day now, they’re going to come into wealth (through some nebulous means and no real action of their own), and so act like they are already part of the wealthy class. Even going so far as voting for benefits for the wealthy and against their own interests, including voting for the destruction of the very social programs that support them.

Just an assumption on my part, but I think you would find a correlation between political affiliation and treatment of service industry staff when it comes to lower income people.

MNByChoice,

A good number of people assume retail workers choose to be there and are getting overtime.

Clearly untrue for most.

Maeve,

Poo rolls down hill. It’s sad, I think that is the only way certain people can feel some sense of experiment. Working on ourselves and our own perceived inadequacies is hard, dirty work.

scrubbles,
@scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech avatar

That’s my personal belief as to why. As long as they can think they’re better than someone else they don’t have to actually work on themselves.

CazzoBuco,

You lost me entirely on the last point. That’s pure propaganda, mate.

TurboDiesel, (edited )
@TurboDiesel@lemmy.world avatar

Nope. I worked retail for years at the same yellow-and-blue themed electronics store and they’re spot-on. The absolute worst are the ones carrying tacky designer bags. Think the giant LV logo ones. They were almost universally nightmares to deal with that had $1000 deposit requirements for cell phones.

CazzoBuco,

You’ve dealt primarily with low/middle income customers and you don’t think that sways your “findings?”

TurboDiesel, (edited )
@TurboDiesel@lemmy.world avatar

I dealt with quite a range of incomes. I pull their credit reports to qualify them for service. I knew exactly what their financials looked like.

Glytch,

Yeah, I’ve had the opposite experience in my 20+ years of customer service work. Most of the times I’ve been screamed at by an entitled customer, they’ve been upper-middle class.

Maeve,

Self loathing doesn’t respect socioeconomic class.

scrubbles, (edited )
@scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech avatar

Sorry man, but no, granted that’s my personal anecdotal experience.

That doesn’t mean there weren’t people who were complete assholes at all levels, but generally speaking the most entitled people were the ones who didn’t deserve to be. I guess I could clarify that people who wanted to act like they were happy with life were the worst, most entitled people I came across. The people who either did actually hold status or didn’t care if they did were more tolerable.

I won’t pretend to be an expert and understand. The only things I’ve thought over the years were either 1) They needed to feel more important than someone, and service workers are a good scapegoat there or the more unfortunate one 2) There are just more points of contention. Someone doing well won’t react as badly to their laptop being fried compared to someone who isn’t doing well - they have different impacts on the people. That one is more important, but I don’t think that excuses the pure abuse that was hurled at me either.

CazzoBuco, (edited )

Similar question to what I posed the other person; do you really think you’ve serviced an equal number of low income and high income customers to back up your conclusions?

A bit difficult to make that claim when I imagine you didn’t know each customers background, noted it down, and accounted for how proportinal your compared groups were.

bearwithastick, (edited )

Where I live our stores are closed on Sundays except those located in larger railstations and gas stations.

And right in the time where people should be with their families, in Advent, stores are allowed to open up on the four Advent Sundays and everyone goes fucking wild.

Now, the retail store lobby or whatever it is called here is rallying for stores to be allowed to open up 8 Sundays a year, because ‘people want the convenience to be able to shop on a Sunday’. You know what? No. Fuck those people. Get your groceries on a Saturday or during the week and chill the fuck out on a Sunday.

It’s insane to me how people apparently just can’t go one day without getting something from a store.

I think it’s beautiful to have one day in the week where (most) people just don’t have to work at all. I really don’t like how the hypercapitalism of the US just swaps over to Europe more and more.

EmptySlime,

One time I was dealing with a really bad migraine while I was running register at Walmart. I was barely functioning and could barely stand up straight. This lady comes through my line starting out all compassionate until she suggests that she lead me in a prayer that Jesus might heal me. I try to politely decline because I’d rather not hold up the line forming behind her. Well, also because I’m atheist but I had been in customer service for years at that point and knew better than to bring that tidbit up.

This lady starts into the most hate fueled tirade I’ve ever heard. Talking about how I’m a heathen, my migraine was a punishment directly from God, I deserve every second of my suffering, and calling me everything but a child of God. All because I tried to politely decline a performative prayer from her because there were now 3 people in line behind her. Like 20 minutes later I got taken out in an ambulance because I fainted from the pain trying to stand up after using the bathroom on my break.

Another guy tried to get me to discount his entire order because he supposedly knew the guy that owned the contacting company that built the store. Try to tell him that I don’t have the ability to do that and he’d have to talk to a manager. He gets right up in my face and starts yelling about how no one else ever had a problem with it and how with one phone call he could make it so I would never be able to work at Walmart again. Along with several threats to my person. If I never set foot behind a cash register again it’ll be too soon.

EldritchFeminity,

Despite never really having any problem customers in my 14 or so years of working in food service, I’m right there with you. Between the stress of dealing with people day in and day out, working every holiday with no overtime or holiday pay, and being expected to do the work of 2 people and not take any vacation time because “the company can’t afford to hire more people,” I will never work retail/service again. People talk about dreaming that they’re back in high school, I dream that I’m back working there. Even 3 years after I left the industry.

Omega_Haxors, (edited ) in In Germany we say "Arbeitnehmerrechte" and I think that's beautiful

White liberals when the cashier is “rude” to them.

Tony Stark: They rant about it for 3 hours straight

scrubbles,
@scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech avatar

Lol the amount of angry conservative farmers who yelled at me far outweighs anyone else dude. Some of the most miserable people on the planet from what I can tell.

Get out of here with your obvious baiting.

Omega_Haxors, (edited )

[whispering] Conservatives are liberals too [even quieter] in fact, they’re even more liberal than the democrats

rgb3x3,

Are you high?

Omega_Haxors,

It’s times like this I realize that americans becoming a majority of the userbase is the sole reason why websites go to shit.

lichtmetzger,

Na, that’s mostly due to corporate enshittification.

slackassassin,

[Speaking at a normal volume] It doesn’t matter. You sound like an asshole in any case. And racist to boot. [Continuing at the same volume] Words become used in different ways over time and always will. Get over yourself.

Omega_Haxors,

Shut up, cracker.

slackassassin,

Hell ya dude.

ch00f, in aibohphobia

Fear of robotic dogs.

Imgonnatrythis,

That’s just normal

WhiskyTangoFoxtrot,

Forget the shooty dog thing!

bandario, in Always wondered how they feel
@bandario@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Acting is emotional prostitution at best, and actual prostitution at worst. If you aren’t comfortable with that, then don’t get in a relationship with an actor. No point burning your relationship down later because you suddenly don’t like the context of that prostitution.

funkless_eck,

what the fuck are you talking about? How on earth is something like playing Pozzo in Waiting for Godot, or James Sr in Long Days Journey “emotional prostitution”?

bandario,
@bandario@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Is an actor paid for their labour? No. They are paid to emote, so that it can be commodified and sold for profit. Human emotion for sale. It’s prostitution.

funkless_eck, (edited )

It is definitely labor. And the only unpaid work I’ve done in 20 years is for showreel, I definitely don’t do unpaid theatre and haven’t since I graduated drama school.

Learning lines (which is unpaid work before rehearsals even begin), blocking (and depending on role: combat, intimacy as is being discussed, music/song, choreography, props and costume tracks) are all pretty hard work. Not to mention 5 weeks of 10 hour days 6 days a week as a standard rehearsal process (all of which is usually done standing and moving, so generally harder physical work, longer hours and fewer days off than an office job).

To say nothing of “hell week” (tech and dress).

For us semi-pros, I’m often doing my day job around roles as well.

bandario,
@bandario@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Prostitution is a very hard job.

funkless_eck,

By that token all labor is prostitution of a sort, and thus the term loses all meaning, so its pointless calling it that.

bandario,
@bandario@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

all labor is prostitution

Pleased to meet you, comrade.

funkless_eck,

I disagree. Growing your own food is labor. Volunteering is labor. Organizing is labor. Caring for your family is labor.

Perditija,

so, doing something for yourself or people you care about is labour, doing something in exchange for money is prostitution

funkless_eck, (edited )

I mean are you using prostitution to mean “pro-stituere” (“ready” “to be sold”) in which case even the most ardent captialist would agree. Or are you making an insinuation that exchanging the brane of labor-time-effort for the brane of exchange-account-value-store is somehow immoral? Because even the most barter-focussed kibbutz or shetl will eventually need to trade some kind of future (e.g. fishermen need boats before they can provide fish, farmers need to survive the winter to sow seeds in spring)

tubaruco, in What Israel does to black Jews

we need more memes with sources

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