asklemmy

This magazine is from a federated server and may be incomplete. Browse more on the original instance.

OrkneyKomodo, in What should I look for when I’m choosing an instance?
@OrkneyKomodo@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

I went on the “recommended instances” section here: github.com/maltfield/awesome-lemmy-instances

kersploosh,
@kersploosh@sh.itjust.works avatar

Funny to see VLemmy on that list considering it abruptly ceased to exist a few days ago.

OrkneyKomodo,
@OrkneyKomodo@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

I think a few things on the are a bit out of date. I missed VLemmy going dark.

can,

This is why paying attention to administration views and local laws of an instance are important.

Having a no defederation free for all was not a good idea.

foggy, (edited ) in Why is youtube recommending conservative "talking points" to me?

It sees you like standup comedy (POTENTIALLY ANTI-WOKE) and gaming (POTENTIALLY INCEL) and in your 30s (LIKELY HAS SOME DISPOSABLE INCOME)

So it’s pipelining you to the annals of YouTube that check those boxes, have very good viewer retention and have good user engagement.

The ones with good user engagement are the ones that raise your blood pressure. They make you angry. So, politics, or dirty cops, interrogations, murder stories, stuff like that.

You can resist them all you want, but stuff that makes people angry and chatty and commenty and re-watchy is like cocaine to the algorithm. It makes them money, so they spam it everywhere it even remotely makes sense to try to get you stuck in their quicksand.

DarkMatter_contract,

Could be they are using k-nearest neighbors, and op bracket fit into those content.

ScrimbloBimblo,

This is the real answer. It’s easy to forget that for most people who are famous for their unusual political views, most of their overall content has nothing to do with that. There’s something about politics that can turn even the most open-minded of individuals into raging idealogues.

It’s hilarious to me that Joe Rogan is now known for his like 3 conservative views when I mostly remember him as the guy who hosted Fear Factor, did every drug known to man, interviewed scientists in every field out there, and did that really popular interview with Bernie Sanders a couple years ago.

The point is that every hobby and niche interest has someone who gets way too hung up on one particular issue and devotes way too much time to talking about it, dragging the whole community down with them.

razieltakato, in How often do you brush your teeth?

Twice a day. One when I get up and one before going to bed. I floss occasionally.

can, (edited ) in What should I look for when I’m choosing an instance?

The transparency in funding and discussion of donations, the country or state it is hosted in (local laws), does its moderation policy align with your values?

If it’s a small instance fewer communities may be federated already so you may need to be the one to manually search for them for the first time (thus adding them to your instance’s “all” feed). Larger instances will already have many communities discovered and a fuller all feed. Though with lemmyverse.net and some determination you can build up the federated communities list up entirely yourself (and give everyone registered there an expanded “all”).

incogtino,

I did a lot of that building up because there wasn’t much content that interested me coming through.

In hindsight it may have meant I should have chosen a different instance but now it’s done I’m pretty happy and as you mentioned, it expanded the content for other users on the instance

The moderation policy can be important, on lemmy.zip they’re somewhat anti-defederation so I spent a half hour banning all the big communities from the problematic instances

can,

You should use one of those tools to back up that work to a backup acct somewhere.

fr33man,
@fr33man@lemmy.zip avatar

I am on Lemmy.zip and the admins are very transparent on the funding as they have set up an Open Collective page, and they are also very receptive to user suggestions and feedback.

sunbunman, in Liftoff. Lemmy app. Do you like the way it works now?

Definitely my favourite one so far! Though I will still be experimenting with newer ones when they come out.

A couple features I’d like to see implemented:

  • Setting a base instance/account and having links open through that instance. I understand this will put increased pressure on the base instance but from a user perspective this is a massive qol update.
  • Finding a way to upload videos or converting small videos to gifs before uploading without having to go into a third party source or implementing third party connectivity for this purpose. This is probably out of scope for what the app is trying to achieve, but would be a great addition for content creation on Lemmy in general.
agamemnonymous, in People who work in food service or customer service: What’s the dumbest thing a customer ever insisted was “the law” or “illegal”?
@agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works avatar

Lots of people buy Emotional Support Animal vests online and think that means they can bring them into restaurants. Nope, FDA is very clear about it: trained service animals only. ESAs actually have almost no special privileges over regular pets. Basically the only exceptions they get are against pet policies/fees on leases.

Kettellkorn,

People who do that I find so annoying and honestly pathetic. It’s like they think they’re better than everyone else and can do whatever they want.

Trae,

I watched a guy get kicked out of the Costco food court area because he kept saying his dog was an “licensed” ESA. The Costco manager busted out a little card with the relevant federal laws for a service animal and listed all the rules the dog was breaking by lunging at people, not staying under the table, and barking it’s head off at a real service animal that was just sitting calmly under it’s owners table like nothing was going on around it.

Even if your dog is truly a licensed and trained service animal, but you’ve allowed it to continously break all the rules it’s supposed to follow in a private business. They can still kick you out if your dog doesn’t behave like it’s supposed to be behaving. That’s why it’s a big no no to interact with working animals with their vests on and for owners to let their working animals to break the rules repeatedly by misbehaving and never correcting them.

dr_catman, in Who is the third faction in the leaked Google memo about AI?

huggingface is full of models not created by a large corporation. Maybe they mean those?

Obi,
@Obi@sopuli.xyz avatar

Can I, as a dumb end-user, use models from there?

dr_catman,

Yes! …well, with a caveat.

Huggingface models (even the ones published to the platform by Google or fb) are available for anyone to use, but they’re not quite intended to be chatbots; they’re more like pretrained machine learning models for data science pipelines.

Still, if you know python or are willing to learn, you can use huggingface however you want. You’re totally allowed to download a model, open it in python, and ask questions to it. Or feed it a long text and ask for summaries etc.

Obi,
@Obi@sopuli.xyz avatar

Yeah no I guess I’m more looking for the open-source end-products I could use similarly to chatGPT or midjourney etc. I did learn a bit of python a while back but I’m no coder.

philoko,
@philoko@lemmy.ml avatar

Yeah, Oobabooga let’s you easily download models from HuggingFace and has a chat interface.

Nemo, in People who work in food service or customer service: What’s the dumbest thing a customer ever insisted was “the law” or “illegal”?

No, I don’t have to accept a digital photo of your license as ID. No, your birth certificate is not proof of identity; it doesn’t have your picture.

But the absolute worst one: Not only is this a beat-up photocopy of a foreign ID card with no photo; it also clearly states that you are 19 and even if I accepted this document as valid identification, which I can’t, I still could not legally serve you alcohol.

danwardvs,

What I take from this is that birth certificates should have photographs.

rivalary,

They are good for life. If they had a photo, the image would become outdated and therefore they’d likely need an expiration date. I don’t want to periodically pay to renew something else.

danwardvs,

Oh I don’t think it should be updated. People can look at the baby picture and make a decision if it looks like you or not.

Mrgrey06,

Exactly. But before they can issue it the photograph needs to be submitted electronically and allow a 3 week processing time prior to birth, with a passport style photo…

jocanib,

The foreigner in question almost certainly did not know the age was 21. This happened to me in the US. Sitting with my mum and sister in the hotel bar, having a quiet beer. Then I get asked for my ID and it all gets very confusing. “But I’m 18, what’s the problem?”

son_named_bort,

Old enough to kill but not for drinking.

grabyourmotherskeys,

Takes the drink away and hands you a gun and car keys.

MooToYou,

I often think living in the UK is boring, then I remember this kind of thing and feel a whole lot better about the situation

damnYouSun,

What an earth would be the point in going to uni if you can’t drink?

eskimofry,

boring

Boring is good. I too would like to live in a boring village, Just loaf around and watch leaves fall or something.

Version,

Wait, you can‘t drink in the US even with permission from your parents?

wholemilk,

in some places it’s legal to drink while underage if it’s in your own house and with a parent’s permission

yukichigai,
@yukichigai@lemmy.world avatar

Very few states allow it, and none of them in public. It’s only ever allowed in a private residence (usually the residence of your parent/guardian) while under the direct supervision of your parent/guardian. Even then it can become a crime if somehow the law gets involved and they feel like pressing charges.

yukichigai,
@yukichigai@lemmy.world avatar

During my very brief stint as a security guard at a casino I ran into that last part way more than I ever would have expected. It is astounding how many people do not understand that the laws from their home country do not apply in the country they are visiting.

Ubettawerk,

Lmao I work for a bank and people try to pass off so many random documents as valid ID. In fact, it’s becoming harder to even depend on physical IDs considering how good and ubiquitous fakes are getting

KoboldCoterie, in People who work in food service or customer service: What’s the dumbest thing a customer ever insisted was “the law” or “illegal”?
@KoboldCoterie@pawb.social avatar

I used to work in CS for a cell phone provider. The most memorable call I had from that experience was a woman who spent over an hour yelling at me because her daughter had ordered a $1200 phone upgrade without permission. She was absolutely sure that it was illegal for us to charge her for that, because her daughter was not authorized to use her card, and because her daughter was under 18.

She didn’t want to return the phone, because she didn’t want her daughter to hate her. She just didn’t want us to charge her for it.

Kalkaline,
@Kalkaline@lemmy.one avatar

I see where the daughter got her intelligence from.

itsnotlupus,

That sounds like an improbable attempt to leverage the notion that minors can’t enter into a legally binding contract into a loophole to get anything for free by simply having your kid order it.

KoboldCoterie,
@KoboldCoterie@pawb.social avatar

This one simple trick will get you any product for free! Retailers hate it!

DarkDarkHouse,
@DarkDarkHouse@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Indeed, retailers do hate this one.

Pietson,

If the kid can't enter into the contract surely the phone wouldn't belong to them though?

morganth, in What butterfly effect have you personally witnessed?

I was in line to buy tickets to a concert. The tickets didn’t cost much, but I was poor, so as I was in line I was wavering back and forth between the cheapest tickets and the second cheapest. When I got to the front I was on the side of the cheapest.

Another person who bought the cheapest was an incredibly cute girl who I met there and ended up dating for several months, and that relationship, after it ended, gave me the confidence to make a move on another girl who I had long been attracted to, and our relationship made me choose the particular job that I chose because it let me move near where she lived.

So if I had been a couple of spaces further back in line, I probably wouldn’t have lived in that state for two years. True story.

Nemo, in What should I look for when I’m choosing an instance?

Do you plan to create communities? If so, choose the instance where the communities best fit the theme of that instance.

Railison, in Posting: Hit and runs

Sometimes it’s better to reply in comments to address specific questions, other times better to post an ETA. Sometimes, I just wanted to provoke discussion, or I’m about to do something that’ll leave me away for a couple of hours.

nekat_emanresu,

On principle, i’m replying to your comment as its first :P Edit: i came in here to do this, but i woulda responded either way lol

Im more talking after an hour, not a single comment or update from OP.

There definitely are good reasons to take time responding or not comment for ages etc of course. Some comments of course don’t need a response.

SHamblingSHapes, in Posting: Hit and runs

Sometimes the top level comments are boring takes not worth replying to. Like this comment. Whatcha going to do? Argue that no, there’s always some comment worth replying to? Agree with me? Boring.

nekat_emanresu,

I’m gonna reply, that’s what I’m gonna do. What are you gonna do about it? I’ve added almost nothing to respond to.

kersploosh, (edited ) in What should I look for when I’m choosing an instance?
@kersploosh@sh.itjust.works avatar

Look at posts and comments from the instance admin. Does this person seem to know anything about running a server or managing software? Do you like the admin’s tone and attitude? Does it seem like the instance will be around for the long-term, or is it someone’s hobby that they may abandon on a whim?

Look at the instance’s ban list. Do you agree with the choices? Maybe you want your All feed to include exploding-heads and lemmygrad, or maybe you don’t.

Does the instance seem to have a community theme that you want to be associated with? Some emphasize LGBTQ+ communities, or NSFW content, or particular political views.

lemmychatwitpeeps,

How annoying. I thought the point of being federated was that i had 1 account for everywhere. Now the douchebag running my instance is going to ban certain communities (defederate) on my behalf? The fuck. Do i need an account on every server if i want to see everything? It’s removed. Give me a ban button and open everything up.

kersploosh,
@kersploosh@sh.itjust.works avatar

IMO the point of a distributed network isn’t convenience or unbridled free speech, but freedom of choice. Not only are there hundreds of instances to choose from, but anyone can run their own instance however they like, including you. If you host your own then you alone hold the ban button.

Candelestine, in Posting: Hit and runs

Has never bothered me and I do it myself sometimes. I don’t make generic “thank you” type comments usually, I just upvote people instead. So I won’t reply unless I actually have something worth saying. Usually I will have something to say, but not always.

Also depends how many replies. If I ask a question and one person provides the answer, I’ll say something. If I start a thread and it takes off though, I’ll just observe. And I think most people are that way, just because a popular thread can be a little overwhelming.

edit for cleanup

nekat_emanresu,

Interesting to hear your side of it. I’ve just responded to a few posts in a row that responded zero times, but ran off to post elsewhere. People worked hard in them so its worth an opinion or two.

I know it can be a bit awkward too, to respond after so much is said from so many people.

Candelestine,

I can get a little miffed if I don’t get even 1 upvote, but so long as I get that I’m alright. Even if I had to write a lot.

nekat_emanresu,

Getting zero upvotes after writing a ton of text is a bit… not fun.

I got invested in a thread from a guy being eaten alive by mosquitoes and posted a joke, but then realised i didn’t read it well and he seemed serious, so i replied properly. He ended up with a ton of replies and didn’t say a word lol. Not saying there can’t be valid reasons like going to bed or ducking out to the shops in a fit of rage to get equipment for the mosquitocaplyse. Seeing it happen more than in one post is the part that’s really getting me curious now.

  • All
  • Subscribed
  • Moderated
  • Favorites
  • asklemmy@lemmy.ml
  • localhost
  • All magazines
  • Loading…
    Loading the web debug toolbar…
    Attempt #