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spirinolas, in What has been the best thing that has happened to you so far?

Had both my lungs collapsed. Forced me to quit pot which made my life take a 180 degree turn.

victorz,

Ah man, happy to hear that for you dude. Much love.

Identity3000, in How do you think social media platforms should work?

For anyone who’s willing to spend ~15 mins on this, I’d encourage you to play TechDirt’s simulator game Trust & Safety Tycoon.

While it’s hardly comprehensive, it’s a fun way of thinking about the balance between needing to remain profitable/solvent whilst also choosing what social values to promote.

It’s really easy to say “they should do [x]”, but sometimes that’s not what your investors want, or it has a toll in other ways.

Personally, I want to see more action on disinformation. In my mind, that is the single biggest vulnerability that can be exploited with almost no repurcussions, and the world is facing some important public decisions (e.g. elections). I don’t pretend to know the specific solution, but it’s an area that needs way more investment and recognition than it currently gets.

DandomRude,
@DandomRude@lemmy.world avatar

How can this be funded? A workforce is needed for all matters that cannot be automated.

Identity3000,

Funding/resourcing is obviously challenging, but I think there are things that can support it:

  1. State it publicly as a proud position. Other platforms are too eager to promote “free speech” at all costs, when in fact they are private companies that can impose whatever rules they want. Stating a firm position doesn’t cost anything at all, whilst also playing a role in attracting a certain kind of user and giving them confidence to report things that are dodgy.
  2. Leverage AI. LLMs and other types of AI tools can be used to detect bots, deepfakes and apply sentiment analysis on written posts. Obviously it’s not perfect and will require human oversight, but it can be an enormous help so staff can see things faster that they otherwise might miss.
  3. Punish offenders. Acknowledging complexities with how to enforce it consistently, there are still things you can do to remove the most egregious bad actors from the platform and signal to others.
  4. Price it in. If you know that you need humans to enforce the rules, then build it into your advertising fees (or other revenue streams) and sell it as a feature (e.g.: companies pay extra so they don’t have to worry about reputational damage when their product appears next to racists etc). The workforce you need isn’t that large compared to the revenue these platforms can potentially generate.

I don’t mean to suggest it’s easy or failsafe. But it’s what I would do.

bazingabot, in What is a nifty little feature modern gadgets have lost?

Replaceable batteries, real keyboard, headphone jack, notification light

Bytemeister, (edited )

Sounds like what you want is a netbook.

Entertainmeonly,

Real keyboards where overrated, swiping is so much quicker. My s22ultra now lights up around the intire edge so again better than a single light. I have had this phone for over a year now and never even noticed it no longer has a headphone jack until lookingfor one at this moment. I will agree with the replacement battery as I would have continued using my note 5 and then my note 9 if the battery hadn’t worn out.

Hamartiogonic,
@Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz avatar

Yeah swiping is nice if it exists in your language. Seems like a basic feature, but Apple doesn’t mind being 10 years behind everyone else. Still waiting for that awesome swiping feature to roll out. Probably not going to happen any time soon.

SnipingNinja,

But imagine notification light on the back, or just look at the nothing phone (though that’s a bit much, which is why we need options)

Entertainmeonly,

Ya, after reading a bit about the notification light and thinking back to older phones, I’ll agree. The edge lighting is neet but not continuous. It also does not change color depending on the type of notification. A back version is also a good idea.

corsicanguppy,

Real keyboards where overrated, swiping is so much quicker.

And, ignoring the comma-splice, I see where the accuracy fails.

deweydecibel,

I have had this phone for over a year now and never even noticed it no longer has a headphone jack until lookingfor one at this moment

Why do you believe your use case and your habits are a relevant argument against the necessity of the jack? People who want it actually use it, what difference does it make if you personally don’t need it?

jtk, in How to respond to gf saying "I'm fat"
@jtk@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Ham on. Ham on. Ham on whole wheat, all right.

So_zetta_slowpoke,

When you’re only havin’ seconds, I’m having 23rds

ani, (edited ) in How do you think social media platforms should work?

Everyone should have to provide their real identities for all kinds of social media, which in turn would be directly tied to social credits and justice system; this would discourage a ton of bad behaviors on the internet, including but not limited to cyberbullying, racism, trolling, and so on, and would instead encourage good behaviors by gaining social credits. Social media platforms should also be hold responsible for any kind of bad content, and have to compasate all victims of harassment. Really, just some days ago a wonderful young woman of just 22yo died by suicide for being harassed so much online; she didn’t even have social media, but harassers were able to get pics of her and create a fake story that escalated a ton…

federatingIsTooHard,
@federatingIsTooHard@lemmy.world avatar

please no

ani,

I don’t care about “freedom” that’s actually used for harassing and killing innocent people. Saving people’s life, like the life of that young woman, should be priority in all cases. All kinds of social media that don’t comply should be banned. I’m really serious on this take. Go have your freedom in your island country all alone instead.

federatingIsTooHard,
@federatingIsTooHard@lemmy.world avatar

the result would be a total police state. I understand you don’t care about freedom. I do.

ani,

That’s not freedom, that’s unregulated communication mediums being exploited to harass and kill. Do you really rather innocent people dying? If I was a politician, I would be definitely fighting for better regulation of social media to save lives.

federatingIsTooHard,
@federatingIsTooHard@lemmy.world avatar

harassment is bad. anonymity is good.

captainlezbian,

Anonymity swings both ways here. It saves lives of people posting for advice on how to leave abusive partners, of people in unsupportive environments forming community and kinship, and of people who need help but are too ashamed to attach it to their name.

I’ve known people harassed to suicide, and I’ve known people whose online activities were exposed to abusers they can’t escape who were then driven to suicide for it. I support anonymity, but I’ve dealt with the dark side of it, including years long harassment campaigns

xigoi,
@xigoi@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Have you watched Black Mirror and thought that it’s supposed to be a utopian series?

ani,

Honestly, I haven’t watched it. What association are you making here?

xigoi,
@xigoi@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

There was an episode about people giving social credits to each other through an app which would affect their entire life, showing how such a technology could go horribly wrong.

JoBo, in The year is 2025. President-for-life Trump watches the Hunger Games on Netflix for the first time and decides he wants to see it in real life. Which tribute do you place your bets on?

Dunno why you’re getting downvoted. This is a fun question.

I don’t know how to answer it but I guess I would have to bet with my heart and say we skip straight to the last chapter: Trump is toppled and replaced by some only slightly lesser evil who is at least forced to make some (temporary) pro-social concessions to the wider populace.

Donebrach,
@Donebrach@lemmy.world avatar

This is some dated ass boring bullshit. Who the fuck cares about the hunger games anymore also why are we still talking about Trump?

“It’s the Star War, who does president for life Nixon choose as his Luke Skywalker??”

JoBo,

The fuck is wrong with you?

Donebrach,
@Donebrach@lemmy.world avatar

I was responding to your wondering about why this dumbass post was being downvoted by stating that The Hunger Games and talking about Trump is beyond exhausted and boring. I then supplied an equivalent question to OP’s but backdated the content about 40 years for comedic effect.

I suppose though the real and only proper response to you is:

“The fuck is wrong with you?”

beckerist, in I am concerned about my cars extended warranty. I've tried to call a bunch of places but they all laugh and hang up. How can I get someone to call me about ny cars extended warranty?

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  • Crackhappy,
    @Crackhappy@lemmy.world avatar

    I live on Drury Lane, UK. My bank account number is the same as my luggage, 12345, and my social is “Hi handsome, who brought you around here?”

    Lunar, in The year is 2025. President-for-life Trump watches the Hunger Games on Netflix for the first time and decides he wants to see it in real life. Which tribute do you place your bets on?

    Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez

    Donebrach,
    @Donebrach@lemmy.world avatar

    Hello, 2020 Fox News Viewer.

    Lunar,

    What!? Lol

    lvxferre, in Can kindness be learned or cultivated, and to what extent is it an innate quality?
    @lvxferre@lemmy.ml avatar

    I believe that there is at least some learning/cultivation; I’ve seen plenty people becoming nicer over time, and some nice people becoming arseholes. However that is not enough to rule out a potential innate component.

    otter,

    I think there’s also a learned component of being kinder and more respectful to people. Even with the best of intentions, it takes time to learn how to do it effectively and learn how people might want to be treated.

    Afterwards the positive feedback can encourage more good actions

    LemmySoloHer, in Mayo, mustard or ketchup?
    @LemmySoloHer@lemmy.world avatar

    If you’re wondering who puts mayo on a hotdog, the answer is “probably one of your brothers,” according to Clint Barton.

    ghost_towels,

    Me, I do. With pickled jalapeño and cheese.

    kamen, in What is a nifty little feature modern gadgets have lost?

    I’m sad that popup front cameras didn’t catch on. I only remember 2 or 3 phones that had them. For me it’s the perfect compromise - this way you can make an end to end screen without the need for a notch, and since I very rarely use the front camera, I wouldn’t be too concerned about the durability of the popup mechanism. The only real downside I see is that it complicates waterproofing.

    Wolf_359,

    I think the camera will eventually be hidden behind the screen.

    I have no clue what technology will enable that but I bet it’s coming.

    tgxn,
    @tgxn@lemmy.tgxn.net avatar

    The tech is already here! BlackShark 5 Pro has it in pretty sure.

    Mosfar,

    The Samsung galaxy Z fold 4 or 5 (?) already have under display camera

    MrBusiness,

    Yup fold 4, I have one and don’t recommend it. Was looking for a phone to replace my LG thinq 8 Duo screen, but the fold is a downgrade for me.

    TheIllustrativeMan,

    That one is really, really bad though.

    The one on the Mix 4 on the other hand was pretty great, but the camera quality suffered.

    9point6,

    I mean the latest crop of phones aren’t that far off, we’ve got fingerprint sensors behind screens already and the front facing camera on my Pixel 7 is a pinhole at the top of the screen less than a centimetre across—which IMO just blends in.

    chitak166, (edited )

    The only real downside I see is that it complicates waterproofing.

    It’s also more movable parts.

    kerrigan778,

    So… Sooo breakable, and that massively complicates waterproofing it’s moving parts that wires have to connect to and move.

    ZeroTemp,

    RIP my One Plus 7 Pro. Best phone ever.

    Tedrow, in Mayo, mustard or ketchup?
    @Tedrow@lemmy.world avatar

    Mustard. Get that other shit out of here.

    WindyRebel,

    Never give up. Never surrender! MUSTARD!!!

    kerrigan778, in What is a nifty little feature modern gadgets have lost?

    I loved the notification light, I had mine programmed to have different colors correspond to different types of notifications and it would buzz at me in response to being picked up as well if I’d missed a call or text.

    arin,

    New phones have always on displays where you can configure them to show any info you want

    technomad,

    No. Not what I want.

    kerrigan778,

    They’re not all that configurable and it’s always a wall of useless text notifications and it’s hard on battery life, 100x less useful.

    hamsammy,

    I got an app called Always On Edge where you can do literally just that and you can also choose for the entire edge to flash or glow or keep the old virtual dot, change the colors and interactions based on which app it was, and more.

    Highly recommend it.

    kerrigan778,

    Ooh, thank you I will check that out. That sounds great.

    TheIllustrativeMan,

    I use AODnotify to effectively do the same thing. It animates a ring around either the display (when the screen is “off”), or the camera cutout when it’s on.

    MuhammadJesusGaySex, in Can kindness be learned or cultivated, and to what extent is it an innate quality?

    So, here is a story I like to share about learning kindness and empathy.

    A little background. I grew up in a poor city right outside Birmingham, Al. All the kids I grew up with including myself had racist, homophobic parents. In return all the kids I grew up with including me were also racist and homophobic. When you grow up where I did with a silent generation dad and greatest generation grandparents from rural Alabama. You aren’t taught “hate”. You’re taught the way it’s always been.

    I dropped out of school in the 9th grade. I got my GED and graduated college, but while I was working on all that I worked at Walmart when I was 16. I dated a girl that worked there and when we broke up I started dating a different girl that worked there a few days later.

    Fast forward a couple of weeks and this loud and flamboyant twink named Joe that was our age tells my ex and current girlfriends that I dated them both at the same time. Then proceeded to drive both of them to my house where both chicks came in my house and yelled at me for a bit. When I walked outside I saw Joe in the driver seat of one of the girls car.

    I figured that they probably met up at Walmart and I was going to beat the shit out of Joe. So, I jumped in my car and raced to Walmart. When they pulled up for Joe to get his car. I was sitting on the trunk of Joe’s car waiting. Fortunately, they left, and what follows is not great, but was necessary for me to learn a lesson.

    After they left I was so angry that I used my key to carve the F slur so big that it took up Joes entire trunk lid. Nothing came of it for a few days. Then my phone rang. I can remember it like yesterday. A grown man asked for my name. I said I was he. He said that his name was Ronnie. (If you’ve read my other stuff this isn’t the same Ronnie that killed people.)

    Anyway, Ronnie explained that he was Joe’s boyfriend. He told me that what I had done didn’t hurt Joe. He explained that he (Ronnie) was going to have to pay to have the trunk fixed. He appealed to my empathy, but he also treated me like a man. Could/should he have called the cops? Absolutely, but instead he decided to approach me like a man and explain the situation.

    After he was done. I told him that I’d have to make payments, but that I’d pay to fix Joes car. Ronnie said that was fine. He invited me over for dinner and said that we’d discuss the terms. I agreed.

    I don’t remember how much he said it would be, but I know that I paid him installments until it was paid for. During that time I got to know Ronnie really well. He had a monster truck and collected muscle cars. He had 2 Shih Tzus. He was much older than Joe and I. His previous partner had been someone important with State Farm insurance, but had died back in the 80s (this was mid 90s) and left Ronnie money and a house.

    All this happened when my dad and I weren’t getting along. I still remember the first time I called Ronnie and asked if I could stay the night. He said yes without hesitation. I got there and he told me the ground rules. He said that I was always allowed at his house, but personal items like toothbrush, razors, and stuff like that were off limits. He said DO NOT MESS WITH THEM.

    I was young not stupid. I had seen the real world. I knew that he was probably HIV positive. It wasn’t long before he and Joe broke up. Ronnie started calling on me. Ronnie lived in the country. I lived between the country and big city. He would call and say hey a couple of my friends are sick and I need to take them some food. Would you ride with me.

    Anyway, Ronnie was the first person that I had actually interacted with where I had been forced to face someone that I had been lead to believe was different to me. Ronnie gave me a safe place to be when I wasn’t getting along with my dad. I can remember my “friends” at the time making fun of me for hanging out with a gay dude. I didn’t care.

    Ronnie taught me more about being a man than my own father did. When he should have just called the cops he took the time to turn hatred into a teachable moment.

    If you’re wondering what happened to Ronnie. I hung out with him fairly regularly until I got on drugs really bad. After my family deserted me. I deserted my friends because I couldn’t live with them hating me for what I had become.

    After I got clean I started trying to pick up where I left off. I called all of the good friends I could think of. So, I called Ronnie. A man answered and I asked if Ronnie was there. He quickly asked who I was, and I explained that I was a friend. He said that he was Ronnie’s brother and Ronnie had passed away a few years earlier due to complications from HIV. He said that he got some kind of dementia.

    We talked about 2 hours. I told him about how Ronnie had taught me about empathy. He said Ronnie had done the same for him. Ronnie was one of the greatest men I’ve ever known.

    rosymind,

    Yeah, someone needs to make this into a movie STAT

    SheerDumbLuck,

    I’m sure Ronnie would be proud of the person you are today. Thanks for sharing.

    FireTower, in Who are your favorite overlooked historical figures?
    @FireTower@lemmy.world avatar

    The abolitionist Cassius Clay

    ShittyBeatlesFCPres,

    …wikipedia.org/…/Cassius_Marcellus_Clay_(politici…I had never heard of him but his Wikipedia page is a wild ride.

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