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Thassodar, (edited ) in What's a sci-fi or fantasy book or series that you want to see adapted as a movie/television series?

Piers Anthony’s Incarnations of Immortality series of books. The first book alone, where a guy who was about to unalive himself accidentally kills death instead as he walks in the door to take his soul, would make an awesome series. Each book takes on a different aspect of Immortality (Death, War, Time, Nature, etc.) and how they overcome Satan by not being used for ultimate evil.

That last sentence may seem religion-forward but the author, Piers Anthony, is not a religious writer by any means. Another series of his, Bio of a Space Tyrant, could be an ultra gritty R rated Sci-fi epic with the right director.

IonAddis,
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It’s unlikely Hollywood will ever touch Piers Anthony with a ten foot pole after some of the stuff he’s self-published in his later years. Like Marion Zimmer Bradley, the SFF world has decided it’s wisest to quietly forget him.

Thassodar,

I need to look into this, I was heavily invested in the Adept and Xanth series, and finding book 2 of Bio of a Space Tyrant, physically, is near impossible. I had no idea he was wrapped in any kind of controversy, but to be fair I haven’t kept up with him in over a decade.

clay_pidgin,

Firefly is a stand-alone novel of his with a character who was enthusiastic about her sexual abuse as a five year old. It is more fucked up than it sounds.

pound_heap, in What's a sci-fi or fantasy book or series that you want to see adapted as a movie/television series?

“Chasm City” by Alastair Reynolds. It’s a standalone novel in a much bigger Revelation Space series. But the plot of this book is quite independent of the series, you don’t need to know the lore to understand it. I think it is very well suited for a movie or a short series.

The setting is hard SciFi, very detailed, but not too crazy.

clay_pidgin,

Reynolds is an excellent writer. Great worldbuilding.

Hobart_the_GoKart, in Where do you get affordable scented candles?

I don’t know what your definition of expensive is, but I suggest www.pureintegrity.com

I think their candles are worth it. Also, if you’re local, you can return the wooden tops for a discount on your next purchase.

Bearigator,

We are very much not local, but I see they have some stuff 20% out so we might check it out! Thank you!

tyrant, in Where do you get affordable scented candles?

Not candles but have you thought about a diffuser with aromatherapy oils?

Bearigator, (edited )

I’ve experienced that at a friend’s house and I don’t prefer it over just using our existing wax burner, if we are going to do something flameless. They were very pleasant smelling though!

ptz, in Where do you get affordable scented candles?
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I get most of mine from the grocery store. When they’re on sale, they’re usually almost half off, so I buy several and stock up.

Bearigator,

This is the route that we go too actually, I just hate having to wait for sales haha

netburnr, in Where do you get affordable scented candles?
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Typically a hole on the middle means your candle isn’t used long enough. Are you using them less than 2 hours?

Bearigator, (edited )

Honestly, we normally burn them for ~6-7 hours at a time when we light them. We both work from home and I’ll usually light it up the first time I get up from the computer. It doesn’t happen with nicer candles, but some of the cheaper 1 wick ones we get from Walmart or Aldi will tunnel like that even with the long burns.

Witchfire, (edited ) in Those of you with lesser-known types of jobs...what do you do?
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My main job is pretty commonplace but I moonlight as a fire performer. I got into it kinda by chance but it has consumed my life. I actually have to carry insurance and do have certifications to do fire. In fact, I’m licensed to write letters of recommendation for new performers. I also have to pull permits for it in my city.

I also do burlesque and sideshow, but there isn’t really a formal process other than deciding you want to try hammering a 5" nail into your head. Sideshow is best described as putting things where they DON’T belong. Being a social outcast and knowing people helps.

Would I do it again? Yes, it’s a fulfilling art form. But unfortunately the industry is superficial garbage, and the conditions of your birth will greatly affect the ratio between effort put in and success.

rob299, in When searching for Lemmy communities do you sort by new, old or top hour etc

I feel sorting top 6 hours would make more sense for me if I were sorting posts/coments within a community itself, because I would want the newest posts, but at that point I just defualt to new anyways.

But when searching for communities, personally i’m not for sorting it by hours or days because I want to make sure a community has an ok track record of being active, but at the same time i’m not wanting to keep a monopoly so that’s why I don’t go out of my way to sort the communities by top year or something like that because then we’d have another Google. I strive to strike a balence.

Uranium_Green, (edited ) in Gifts for young kids who are really into airplanes?

On theme though not literally an aeroplane; the parachuter toys, like little army men that have a parachute on them that you throw out of windows/down the stairs, they were always an absolutely favourite of mine.

Make sure to get the type with netting that connects the parachute to the person as opposed to strings as it can never tangle

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Scubus,

This was the first thing i thought of. They also come as fireworks that will launch the little guy into the sky and pretty much always get him stuck in a tree. 9/10 would recommend

alienanimals, in Am i the a**hole for telling my coworkers no?

Start asking them to do your work and then get upset when they don’t do it. It’s the only way they’ll learn.

Aceticon, (edited ) in Am i the a**hole for telling my coworkers no?

No, you’re not an asshole, the other person is the asshole by de facto demanding you to do their work (when people get all pissy if you say “no” for something they “asked” you for, they weren’t really asking).

If you want to preemptivelly remove or reduce the risk of others accusing you in some way of “meaness” (such “asking” and the “meaness” accusation on refusal being quite a common strategy of people who were far too spoiled as kids and never really grew up - they do it because the “oh, look at poor little me” worked when they were kids to reverse adults’ “no” responses), provide some kind of “yes” under conditions and a time frame entirelly defined by you, something like “I would love to help you but I’m really busy at the moment with higher priority work. If I get the time I’ll come around and help you with that”. From this point either go down the line of “never having the time” (i.e. you don’t do it and have no intention of doing it, and if confronted just provide vague “I couldn’t get around to doing it” or just “I forgot and now it’s too late” reasons that can’t really be disproven by the other person) and they’ll eventually give up on asking you that (being pissy about people being too busy with more important work doesn’t really work as well as being pissy about an outright “no”), or you go down the line of “helping others help themselves” (i.e. you do some of the work as long as they’re right there also doing the work with you or take them to the right person to ask for help if there is one and wait with them while they ask and next time around when they come to you, ask them “have you asked person X already”).

Personally the way I solved my own “not wanting to be seen as not nice” way back when I started working was a mix of prioritization (i.e. “I’ll help you when I have the time”, and I genuinelly meant it but in practice I rarelly had the time) and helping people help themselves (i.e. “I’ll explain you how you do it while you do it yourself” and afterwards for subsequent requests just asked “have you tried already what I taught you last time?” and not help until they did which usually resulted in them solving the problem themselves) though this was in software development and people came to me to solve the kind of problems that had to do figuring something out, diagnosing a problem or implementing a certain kind of functionality, so I could do the whole “teach them whilst they do it themselves” thing.

sagrotan, (edited ) in Would it make sense to have #CashAwarenessMonth
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It’s so very interesting, I recently walked into the bank that kicked me out 15 years ago. They actually knew who I was (small town bank where I grew up), they crawled so far into my ass to get me & my company back that day, I could taste their hair styling product. Very satisfying just to say" remember, you kicked me out because of a few bucks over my limit? Yes? Good! Today you learned something. Bye" Pure Bliss. Those assholes. Edit: Germany here.

Ragrets, in Which books have the worst video adaptation?

Are you referring to the Golden Compass movie or series? The movie was trash, but I thought the TV series they’ve been doing has been pretty good.

For me Ender’s game was a massive disappointment. I also didn’t like the hobbit trilogy. Huge fan of LOTR, but the hobbit movies just didn’t do it for me.

lud,

The first Hobbit movie was decent in my opinion and if I recall correctly they followed the books closely enough. The rest were sub-optimal

Nalivai, in Which internet meme, if somehow erased from ever emerging, might have the biggest impact?

Fucking wojacks. Disappearance of this cancer will bring significant benefit to me specifically because I wouldn’t have to endure those ugly drawings. Fucking trollface was better than this hell.

ShitOnABrick,
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Wojacks soyjacks chuds chuddle and chad memes can be really funny

also humor is subjective what you may dislike someone else may like

Nalivai,

I am willing to sacrifice all five funny memes you are talking about, if it means I will not have to look at all the “I depicted you as this ugly undesirable wojak saying stupid things therefore I won” bullshit ever again.

TheMechanic,

Rage comics were better and were actually a modern form of Commedia dell’arte or Masked Theatre, in such that it used stock characters and so plot could be both meaningful but simple. Wojacks lack implied character and context, so story or character depth requires explanation which doesn’t usually work as well with that form

intensely_human, in Am i the a**hole for telling my coworkers no?

INFO: did you tell them no in a polite way or were you shitty about it?

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