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JSocial, in Anyone who recently had a "Yup, it was that kinda day" day. What happened?

I…sigh… Cruising sailboat.

shinigamiookamiryuu, in Is there a forum for people who are lonely and sad but specifically not incel sickos?

Do you mean platonically, romantically, or both?

AnOceanAppears, in Is there a forum for people who are lonely and sad but specifically not incel sickos?

I think bumblebee has a “find a friend” app to make those platonic connections.

victorz, in After a lifetime against, I'm considering joining social media. Any advice?

LinkedIn is pretty good, for finding work. I’ve gotten a lot of offers there. Ultimately never took any of them, ironically, but worth the time to set up a good profile.

If you’re thinking of joining Facebook… Don’t. It’s not worth it. Tell people you have something else and give them that info. Like your phone number or your email or your WhatsApp/telegram/whatever.

I hate how I have Facebook and am so dependent on it. I wish I could tell people I don’t have it.

init,

I’m seconding the “no Facebook” thing, and I’d add “no Meta-Owned anything”. Facebook is constantly showing me conspiracy flat earth shit with people honest to god arguing about it, and everyone in other posts strangely all comment the same thing or early similar things to the point that I’ve checked peoples accounts out to see if they are bots or not. Instagram isn’t much better, and a LOT of it is basically soft-core attention seeking influencers. Threads… Isn’t giving anything better than what Mastodon offers.

I swear. One of these days I will pull the plug.

victorz,

[Palpatine: Do it.]

I haven’t scrolled Facebook in over a decade I think. But nobody interesting posts on Facebook in my feed so I’m not too bothered. Instagram is good to me. Giving me only like comics and skits and stuff from people I follow, and things similar to what I enjoyed before like certain sports etc. I’d gladly jump Facebook if I could find my friends elsewhere. I wish Messenger wasn’t connected to a Facebook account. 😞

shinigamiookamiryuu, in Anyone who recently had a "Yup, it was that kinda day" day. What happened?

Neighbors showing their unneighborly side again. The people here have a saying, “a cat giving birth to her kittens in the oven doesn’t make them biscuits”, meaning you’re not viewed as one of the community members unless you and the generations before you were raised there. And they somehow think that’s a virtue.

intensely_human, in Which of the U.S. national parks in this image do you think is the most worth visiting? There are three exceptions.

Hot Springs in Arkansas.

I have no idea why the St. louis Arch is listed as a national park here. More like a national arc at best.

Styxia, in I am to celebrate new years eve alone. How can I celebrate solo?

A few years ago, I spent New Year’s Eve flying solo. Passed the time with a mix of baking, movies, cooking dinner, a long walk, doodling, and a bunch of Sudoku games. The night was dry, so I stepped out close to midnight, had a sip of whisky under city lights to see the New Year in. Then I popped an edible and fucked off to bed with a Netflix Lullaby. Best of luck too you!

Steak,

You waited until midnight to start drinking and get high? I’d be lit the whole fucking time it’s new years!

victorz, (edited )

Priorities. You want to be lit and forget the whole thing like a chump or do you want a sick story like the champ you replied to? Sounded like they had an awesome day and night and got a bunch of fun shit done.

Steak,

Fait

vivavideri, in Is there a forum for people who are lonely and sad but specifically not incel sickos?

I’m glad you’re not an incel sicko. I hope you find what you’re looking for<3

A_Random_Idiot, in I am to celebrate new years eve alone. How can I celebrate solo?

Drink heavily, masturbate furiously, and fall asleep in a puddle of your own shame by 9pm.

ColonialSpore,

This is what the Internet is for. Nice!

ohlaph,

9PM? Common now, what’s wrong with 9AM?

Notyou,

If you start drinking early enough then you can take a nap and be ready for the evening drinking.

heyfrancis,
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My grandpa told me not to listen to a random idiot in the internet.

smigao, in Anyone who recently had a "Yup, it was that kinda day" day. What happened?

Woke up with a gout flare up / a split lip / and the flu

intensely_human, in Is there a forum for people who are lonely and sad but specifically not incel sickos?

Gee maybe try developing some empathy for the “incel sickos” as a first step on the path to reconnecting with humanity?

If you don’t want to change your view on “incel sickos”, then I recommend just joining a men’s group.

Lemonparty, in I am to celebrate new years eve alone. How can I celebrate solo?

Get yourself a sixer, kick your feet up and do whatever the fuck you want!

Gormadt, in Anyone who recently had a "Yup, it was that kinda day" day. What happened?
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5 minutes into my shift the other day I took a hydraulic shower because some dingleberry didn’t report an accident where they broke a hydraulic hose on their forklift

They just parked it, grabbed a different forklift, then finished their shift

Then I came in to do my forklift inspections and got blasted with hydraulic fluid from the severed hose the moment I started my testing

So I had to fill out a shit ton of additional paperwork and scrub all the fluid off of me with the soap we had available (foaming hand soap)

I’m just happy that I had extra clothes in my car because if I didn’t that would have really ruined my day

All in all, a really shitty way to start a Friday

slurpeesoforion,

Did they do their pre-shift safety inspection?

Gormadt,
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I’m the guy who does all of our forklift inspections at my facility for all 60ish of our forklifts every day‡ (the bosses think it more efficient having 1 person check them all rather than everyone checking their lifts)

What the person had done after tearing the hose was clean up the forklift with paper towels and jam the hose back onto the connector by hand (saw the camera footage because I have access to those (for some reason‡‡)) which is why I missed seeing the busted line on my visual inspection

There were a series of very “fun” pre-shift meetings the following day that’s for sure, and dingleberry got a 3 day suspension for not reporting the accident that tore the hose

‡ I also recently got the position because the other guy walked off due to a disagreement with manglement. This incident was the first Friday of having the position after the other guy left. They gave me fuck all for training (basically only the paperwork side on the day they left). But needless to say I’ve got a better checklist for those inspections now.

‡‡ I’ve talked with IT about it (among so many other info sec concerns) over the years and they’ve assured me (and my bosses) that they’ve revoked access. Yet it has never gone away. They’re great.

Akasazh,
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manglement

Good one, I’m stealing that.

lazylion_ca,

Better one guy who knows what to look for than 60 guys who just shrug and check the boxes.

Gormadt,
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Straight up though the previous guy basically shrugged and ticked boxes for a hell of a long time

Literally the first week I was doing the job I had to get oil for 15 forklifts due to them being so low on oil that it didn’t even touch the dip sticks

I’ve also pulled so much crap out of the engine bays on those things it’s crazy, and a lot of it was full of cottonwood fluff so it’s been in there for almost a year

ericbomb,

So the “disagreement” with management was they wanted him to do something in exchange for his paycheck?

Gormadt,
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Funnily enough: no. They were unaware how much he was letting things go, they are aware now but they weren’t aware at the time.

The disagreement was because they were changing his start time from 5am to 9:30am.

0x4E4F,
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They have a good worker now… hope they don’t forget that allong the line.

TheSlad, in I am to celebrate new years eve alone. How can I celebrate solo?

Eat a healthy homemade dinner, go to bed early, sleep well, and wake up the next day feeling great and ready to take on the new year.

dingus, in Is there a forum for people who are lonely and sad but specifically not incel sickos?

I feel you, man. I had never been able to make connections in my entire life and so I always sought it out online.

A decade or so ago I was hitting up forums to interact with others. Now, I use Discord. A word of warning…Discord is primarily filled with young teens, which can feel a bit awkward and creepy if you’re an adult. And I just don’t relate to problems that teens do anymore like school and the like.

I specifically search for communities like 18+, 21+, 25+, etc. servers so I can relate to everyone more and feel more comfortable. There are some websites out there that provide listings of public Discord servers. So I generally google around until I find ones that look interesting and try them out. You might have to join quite a few until there is one that suits you, but I’d recommend it.

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