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ChamrsDeluxe, in My boyfriend doesn't want to marry me because I'm an immigrant + UPDATE

What an absolute buffoon. Dense motherfucker.

venorathebarbarian, in My ex husband and his new wife made my daughter a back brace out of wood and steel and forced her to wear it.

OMG that poor child… Omfg. I can’t even fathom what they went through.

I’m so glad the girl got help! She must have been in so much pain. Man that was so rough to read.

I hope they’re both much happier now and that baby is safe too.

STUPIDVIPGUY, in OPs dad is furious that his mom slept with other people in an open marriage dad wanted.

Lol I think I remember this story. Hilarious to watch bigots and misogynists just ruining their own lives with their own stupidity.

SomeoneElse,

I don’t think I’ve ever read of a positive outcome when one married partner suggests they open the relationship out of the blue. The lack of foresight is astounding!

ramsgrl909, in I’m considering leaving my wife because of her weight

Communication!

SnowMeowXP, in My wife and her best friend accused me of having an affair, then got angry when I didn't have one
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Are there no updates as to whether the “friend” was able to speak at the funeral?

Fluba, in OOP's boyfriend won't stop telling her that she smells bad

Here I was thinking the boyfriend might be allergic to her perfume/body wash (it’s happened to me). Nope, he’s a dick.

Potato_in_my_anus, in My ex husband and his new wife made my daughter a back brace out of wood and steel and forced her to wear it.

Wow just wow… I can’t understand how people can be so incompetent at parenting. The girl at least has her mother but the baby of the couple who was taking by CPS will be suffering the consequences.

Rooty, in OOP's 9 year old sister was sent to boarding school but never came back. OOP suspects foul play and thinks parents and grandma are involved

Yeah, these long posts with frequent updates are 100% fiction. Please don’t bring this serverspace wasting crap on Lemmy.

zaph,

One of my favorite things about the internet is that if I don’t like something I can go look at something else.

Aatube,
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There was only one update though, I’m not sure what your suspicion is.

Drusas, in Sat down on my friend's MacBook and broke it, offered to pay her the money for it but now she wants more because "she was upgrading anyway" so it's this or she will sue me in small claims court.

Sorry for being topic adjacent, but.... Is this the point of this community/magazine? To recycle old reddit content? Because I subscribed with the assumption that it would be about the best posts here in the fediverse, new content.

Little8Lost,

i dont really have a problem with that, i mean on reddit we had posts from every other platform like 4Chan, Twitter & co too
Difference here is that reddit is the source and will be for the first few weeks the main one because it has content

1chemistdown,
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Exactly! People need to put Reddit to bed over here. Let’s make it about here. Morn yes, but come up with new stuff. Or at least copy the model but make it fedi specific.

Aurenkin,

A day may come when the community of Reddit fails, when they forsake their subs, and break all bonds of modship. But it is not this day.

An hour of greed, and shattered promises, as the age of Reddit come crashing down, but it is not this day.

This day we repost!

By all that you hold dear on this good Fediverse, I bid you post, lemmites of the world!

utopianfiat,

The point of this community is to be the fediverse version of BestOfRedditorUpdates. If you want to contribute content from the Fediverse you are free to do so, but until that point I’m content to read content from wherever it’s gathered.

If you don’t want to read it, nobody is forcing you to be here.

ImHonestlyNotSure,

We arent gonna get more peolple if there isnt any content to retain people with. If you want fediverse updates, then please post some. Right now, there arent any instances that generate updates in the first place. So this is whats gonna happen until we get more instances made that generate stories.

Drusas,

I have been very active on the fediverse, but I can't do so on every single community.

Auzzeren,
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Probably for now tbh - as Lemmy gets more posts/content, I imagine it will swing over to best Lemmy updates. There’s a few communities/magazines re-created over here but not a ton of content to share just yet!

Duchess, in Parental cooking strike
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seems like the best of both worlds honestly. preteens and teens need to be able to try out making their own choices and this was a healthy way to do it. options are available for them but the parent that does the cooking isn’t stress out over who is/isn’t eating

Leax, in OOP learns a hard lesson about herself

Wow. Sounds like she dodged a lot of bullets and can start getting a better life and friends.

WhatASave, in OOP's boyfriend won't stop telling her that she smells bad

Why does this sound so fake?

sociablefish,

It’s from r/relationshipadvice, r/aita would be just as trash

Duchess, in My gf was raped and became pregnant. I broke up with her because she wanted to keep the baby + Updates
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her mother is an absolute psychopath, i’m glad that her boyfriend stuck with her during a very difficult time.

rcmaehl, in Working within Lemmy’s limits
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Mod of c/BestOfLemmyUpdates here. The post character limit should be updated to 50k-100k once servers update to 0.18.

Also would you like me to point people from that community here? This community seems a lot more popular, although reddit focused.

Barack_Ollama,

Oh yay!! I’m glad they’ve already made the update to the codebase. I wasn’t expecting it to be that fast lol.

You’re welcome to point people here if you want! Though, that one could be for Lemmy updates only & they could be cross-posted to this one too! Whatever you’d like to do :)

We actually don’t want to focus on Reddit lol, it probably comes across that way because we’re mostly Reddit refugees who loved best of Redditor updates :). I’m going to be posting from AskAManager & others too, but will probably wait for the character limit update.

jaybirrd, in My wife and her best friend accused me of having an affair, then got angry when I didn't have one

There needs to be better awareness and support structure for postpartum depression and postpartum psychosis. It is truly horrifying and when you’re a parent, you often don’t realize it’s happening until things are really bad. The mother has really scary intrusive thoughts (sometimes intensely violent) and often does not feel safe to open up and get help. There are many tragic stories out there where things spiraled completely out of control and ended up in infanticide or suicide, sometimes both.

Mothers and their partners/spouses preparing to have children need to learn how to identify it and have a plan for what to do if it happens. It’s more common than you might think, and support is needed when it happens.

saferbirth.org/…/urgent-maternal-warning-signs-2/…

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