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quindraco, in Banned for not breaking the rules, but disagreeing with a mod

This seems straightforward. You posted your opinion (which is inherently true - no one but you has access to your inner mind, so we must take it on faith you are honestly presenting your opinion to us) and the mod misrepresented this as fact so it could be labeled as misinfo.

But I doubt posting here will fix that. Mostly what you seem to have managed is to attract genocide supporters from Hexbear to troll you. As I understand it, the best way you can handle this on Lemmy is to simply find similar threads on a different instance to engage in discourse in.

frauddogg,
@frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml avatar

‘Genocide supporters’ you crackers have supported Israel’s commission of apartheid for 30+ YEARS but let someone pipe up that it’s wrong and they’re the genocide supporter. Please go fly yourself by your ankles; you don’t deserve your humanity.

Norgur,

Or ask the Instance Admins for help

ech,

There unfortunately is no system in Lemmy (atm) to do this smoothly. When I was on lemmy.world, I used their system they had set up separately and that worked well, but for most instances, the only process to do something like that is to DM an admin directly, which will of course have greatly varied results, and that’s if the admin isn’t supportive of the abusive mod in the first place.

Lath, in Banned for not breaking the rules, but disagreeing with a mod

Lemmy isn't a place for debates and arguments. If you don't follow the direction of the topic, don't bother inserting yourself into the conversation.
You need to be nice and supportive of whatever is posted, else you're going to have a bad time.

Read their code of conduct and you'll find that it's a moderator's discretion to ban anyone they believe is disruptive, regardless of the rules.
So unless a moderator goes on a deranged banning binge, you're automatically in the wrong.
If you can't accept that, i suggest you make your own instance, with blackjack and hookers.

Thorny_Insight,

I don’t see how making my own instance solves anything. I’m not posting from lemmy.ml account to begin with.

Lath,

From their point of view, only you think there's something to be solved.
A major point of federization is not having to deal with the undesirable rabble. To have your own little slice of the internet where everybody gets along.

You don't get along, so you don't belong. Instead, you are very welcome to find or make an instance where you do belong and can engage in conversations freely.

Lemmy's solution is to make the problem go away, which is why in its eyes, there is nothing to solve.

HubertManne,
@HubertManne@kbin.social avatar

I think the idea that this is a negative but to me it is not. If a domain or magazine is run poorly then folks then I don't want to go to it. I just want the individual ability to block at all levels working well and would love it both ways. I learned my lesson from mmo's. A completely horrible cesspit of a chat can become pretty decent with just a dozen or so blocks. People who block everyone on a whim. Well thats great as I doubt their discourse is going to be beneficial. folks that don't ban even though someones pushing the line will be rewareded with a richer experience.

Virkkunen,
@Virkkunen@kbin.social avatar

It helps if you want to go on your own banning spree for people not having the same opinion as you!

Thorny_Insight,

Yeah but then they’re banned and wrong

Norgur,

I'm gonna steal the term deranged banning binge

Evilphd666, in Banned for not breaking the rules, but disagreeing with a mod
@Evilphd666@hexbear.net avatar
thirtymilliondeadfish,
Evilphd666,
@Evilphd666@hexbear.net avatar

Glorius!

thirtymilliondeadfish,

I’d never seen it in such detail. The majesty of the poop, the subtle demarcation of the balls. The stylised X butthole? Tre magnifique

Civility,

😠

rufus, in Banned for not breaking the rules, but disagreeing with a mod

People of Lemmy,

I see more and more toxic behaviour here. I get that this war/conflict gets to us. And everyone has strong opinions and the debate is emotional. But it reminds me more of the toxic atmosphere that used to be part of Twitter.

I suppose the mods of political communities are having a bad day since the conflict escalated. And they are part of the debate, sometimes maybe making their decisions emotional, instead of neutral and based on reason alone. I -personally- think a 30-day is a lot, even if it is spreading misinformation. But I didn’t have a look at the facts here.

Judging by your comments in general, you seem quite an argumentative person. I usually don’t like people focusing on negativity and (for example) debunking a single argument out of a post and then concluding they’re right and someone else is entirely wrong. It leads to us having unproductive and stressful conversations, once we manoeuvre ourselves to opposing sides that lose the ability to communicate productively and grasp the bigger picture and the context that things are set in.

So. Please whoever is in the right or wrong, make Lemmy a nice place and not a clone of the toxicity and argumentativeness on Twitter. And don’t yell at people too much.

OP, please be aware you’re often a very argumentative person and a big part of your way of talking to people is opposing them.

Civility,

😤

Thorny_Insight,

please be aware you’re often a very argumentative person

I’m well aware of that. It’s the reason I’m on Lemmy on the first place. I love a good, long debate but I still try and be polite and listen to the counter-arguments and engage with what people are saying instead of attacking them as a person.

rufus,

Judging by the comments here, I’d say it isn’t working. (That doesn’t mean it’s necessarily your fault at this point.)

All I want to say is: You and the people outright attacking you here are setting the tone of the conversation. I don’t feel entitled to lecture anyone on how to spend their time on the internet. For me, this thread is too toxic and not my vision of what Lemmy should be like.

Unfortunately, the really toxic people have arrived here, targeting you and spreading hate. I don’t think this going to become a productive conversation after that. And I really don’t have good advice here. I’m going to flag the comments that are hatred and then I’m out. I’m going to focus on some more productive things somewhere else. I wish you the best. Hope Lemmy strives to become a space for diverse opinions, constructive debate and not hatred and small-mindedness.

Iraglassceiling,
@Iraglassceiling@hexbear.net avatar

B-but I just want to have a civil debate about why genocide is ok, why won’t anyone be nice to me? Wyahhhhh, such toxicity! People are so small minded if they can’t accept ethnic cleansing :(

PointAndClique,
@PointAndClique@hexbear.net avatar

There’s a user in this thread calling us the genocide deniers while Israel unceasingly and unrepentantly destroys Gaza and its people. Like. No self awareness. No historical awareness. Just ‘Oh I have a more nuanced view of the situation’. Nuance my fucking gooch.

rufus, (edited )

Dudes, Duderinas and people from all around… While I said something in the meta-debate here, I’m not engaging in the underlying argument. What are you trying to accomplish here? The people you are talking about are suffering horrible atrocities. All you can think about is hating on each other on the internet… (There has to be a better way to deal with the situation.)

Iraglassceiling,
@Iraglassceiling@hexbear.net avatar

Is pineapple good on pizza? <— a debate

Are human rights guaranteed to all humans? <— a fucking ghoulish question that you deserve to be mocked for “debating”

rufus,

I’ve asked what the mocking itself accomplishes.

Iraglassceiling,
@Iraglassceiling@hexbear.net avatar

Have you asked the same question about your disingenuous hand wringing? 🤔

rufus, (edited )

Sorry, can you please re-phrase that question?

Iraglassceiling,
@Iraglassceiling@hexbear.net avatar

I’ve asked what the pearl clutching itself accomplishes.

rufus,

You need to dumb it down a bit if you want me to understand. Give me a bit of context. Who is doing what?

Iraglassceiling,
@Iraglassceiling@hexbear.net avatar

You need to dumb it down a bit if you want me to understand

You can’t set me up like that, I’m tapping out. Someone else explain basic human decency to this person, plz.

rufus, (edited )

Yes please, don’t do brigading but I didn’t get you. And you kind of ‘answer’ questions with different questions.

shath,
@shath@hexbear.net avatar
rufus,
frauddogg,
@frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml avatar

Social sanction has been a part of human community dynamics since we first progressed past grunts and gestures; and you’re gonna ask a sealioning question like that.

frauddogg,
@frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml avatar

It’s only ever the whites going to bat for Israel’s commission of genocide, too-- why? Because what Israel’s doing is 1:1 with what the colonizer pilgrims did to America. So no, I am never going to support that; because given my way, my lineage NEVER would’ve been stolen by crackers in the first place. I’d rather still fuckin be Afrikan than have to be lumped in with these murderous settlers.

shath,
@shath@hexbear.net avatar

debate my asshole out of killing itself with this absurdly large dragon sex toy

velox_vulnus, (edited ) in Banned for not breaking the rules, but disagreeing with a mod

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  • Thorny_Insight,

    I don’t mind a disagreement. Not at all. Infact I enjoy a good debate as long as both parties are doing it in good faith. This thread isn’t about that.

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  • Thorny_Insight,

    Yeah I agree. While my suspicion currently leans majorly towards Hamas, I have at no point made any absolute claims about it.

    sharedburdens,

    My suspicion lies with the entity which has air supremacy and has been dropping shitloads of bombs already. It’s not surprising that people like you will contort into any position which suits your interests.

    FuckyWucky, (edited ) in Banned for not breaking the rules, but disagreeing with a mod

    because it is at best a crank conspiracy theory.

    [and yes you should do it]

    and yes bombing hospitals does make sense, Israel has done it in the past. In fact, the same hospital was ‘warning’ bombed just 2 days ago

    twitter.com/AVHospital/…/1713543149774160099

    avh.org/…/gaza-hospital-hit-by-israeli-rockets-ur…

    October 15th:

    Yesterday, at 7:00 PM, Al Ahli Arab Hospital in Gaza, which is our partner in the Diagnostic Cancer Treatment Center, was hit by two Israeli rockets. Fortunately, the extent of the damage was limited.

    Today, the hospital has received orders from Israeli authorities to evacuate the facility, including patients, staff, and 3,000 Gazan people who have sought shelter within the hospital’s premises.

    We call the international community and all humanitarian organizations to take action to prevent the evacuation orders for Al Ahli Arab Hospital and the other 22 hospital, as this action poses a significant risk to the lives of numerous patients.

    here is a 2014 article regarding Israel bombing hospitals

    amnesty.org/…/israelgaza-attacks-medical-faciliti…

    The third floor of the Al-Aqsa hospital in Deir al-Balah was struck by Israeli shelling, killing four people and wounding dozens, according to the Gaza Ministry of Health spokesperson.

    “Today’s attack on the Al-Aqsa hospital is the latest in a series of attacks on and near medical facilities in Gaza, which have been struggling to cope with thousands of injured people since the Israeli offensive began on 8 July,” said Philip Luther, Director of the Middle East and North Africa Programme at Amnesty International.

    davel, in Banned for not breaking the rules, but disagreeing with a mod
    @davel@lemmy.ml avatar

    Keep trying, debate pervert. Maybe you can escalate this up to the fediverse Supreme Court.

    Empire Files: Emergency Broadcast - Israel’s Hospital Massacre & the Gaza Genocide

    Thorny_Insight, (edited )

    Why is it that 100% 95% of the people coming after me are either from Lemmygrad or Hexbear?

    Dirt_Owl,
    @Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net avatar

    The imperialist will never understand comradery

    comrade_pibb,
    @comrade_pibb@hexbear.net avatar

    “why is it that whenever I post a take that’s completely divorced from material reality it’s always the materialists who tell me my take is bad?”

    Truly one of the mysteries of all time

    willya,
    @willya@lemmyf.uk avatar

    You must have read the instance wrong of who you’re replying to. What’s with all of this I don’t believe anything being said anywhere crap… why even go on the internet and talk to anybody? You might as well be role playing in a chat some where.

    Thorny_Insight,

    Yeah my apologies, the pronouns confused me. I rarely see anyone else put then next to their names except for people on those instances.

    What’s with all of this I don’t believe anything being said anywhere crap

    What do you mean?

    willya,
    @willya@lemmyf.uk avatar

    With the major news going on right now there’s tons of people that don’t believe anything being said. Even if there’s photos and videos showing what they’re saying they don’t believe. It’s mind boggling.

    Thorny_Insight,

    Yeah I agree, but I don’t feel like that’s what I’m doing? My stance on the subject at hand is based on the evidence that’s available.

    willya,
    @willya@lemmyf.uk avatar

    What evidence do you need of anything sitting at a keyboard and not doing anything about anything though? I just don’t understand any of the arguments going on between people that aren’t going to do anything about anything other than typing on a damn keyboard.

    Maaj,
    @Maaj@hexbear.net avatar

    …they’re from Lemmy.ml.

    Thorny_Insight,

    Oh, you’re right. The pronouns confused me.

    Well you’re from Hexbear as is the other person commenting here so my point still stands.

    Maaj,
    @Maaj@hexbear.net avatar

    I haven’t given an opinion on your stuff. I just told you what instance davel was from. So…your point doesn’t really have legs yet.

    Thorny_Insight,

    Up untill Davel, every single user I got a reply from relating to stuff I said on that thread was either a Hexbear or Lemmygrad user and every user since Davel has been aswell.

    Maaj,
    @Maaj@hexbear.net avatar

    What you said was that they were “coming after you”

    I’m just making the point of stating that my conversation with you has not been “aggressive” nor has it mentioned the topic at hand. And I’m from hexbear.

    Thorny_Insight,

    I just mean that usually when I say something controversial, the people arguing against that are from all over the place, but in this case the opposition seems to be coming from these two instances almost exclusively. Even in this thread, that’s been posted on lemmy.ml there’s still a disproportionate amount of Hexbear users replying. I can’t say for certain, but it sure feels like they’re looking for me rather than just stumbling across this post.

    Maaj,
    @Maaj@hexbear.net avatar

    …You may want to look into which instances are federated with yours and the instances you post on before the paranoia fully sets in, lol.

    PointAndClique,
    @PointAndClique@hexbear.net avatar

    Lol I browse All, I see a thread with lots of comments, I drop in. Nobody’s looking for you, get over yourself. Take the L. Sit out your 30 days and ply your debate pervert shit somewhere else in the meantime, the Internet is a huge place.

    Thorny_Insight,

    That still doesn’t explain the disproportionate amount of replies from Hexbear and Lemmygrad users. You should see my inbox.

    Flyberius,
    @Flyberius@hexbear.net avatar

    We care about this sort of stuff. More than non-bear/grad users judging by the replies you are recieving.

    We like to stick up for each other. It’s a shame your community doesn’t have that.

    Thorny_Insight,

    I’m not sure what that community would even be. I’m not interested about being surrounded by bunch of yes-men. I want my community to call me out on my bullsht because I’m going to do the same for them.

    Flyberius,
    @Flyberius@hexbear.net avatar

    Well you’re being called out now.

    Thorny_Insight,

    Well not really. Mostly people are just being mean and/or saying I’m wrong but no one is trying to change my mind. When I made the first post that got me banned I had just woken up and had only skimmed thru the news, but the more time passes and I look into it the more comfortable I feel with my original conclusion. At the moment it seems almost certain that it indeed was a malfuncioning Hamas rocket shot from Gaza strip and there’s plenty video evidence to back that up.

    Flyberius,
    @Flyberius@hexbear.net avatar

    How big do you think Hamas rockets are? I assure you they aren’t capable of flattening a hospital.

    And that video could be anywhere.

    frauddogg,
    @frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml avatar

    Proof you haven’t even done the first iota of investigation into the federations you talk the MOST shit about; as if you did, you’d see half the time we’re locking horns with each other over who’s got the materially correct line. No investigation, no right to speech.

    Iraglassceiling,
    @Iraglassceiling@hexbear.net avatar

    It’s because you’re so speshul. I actually have your picture on my wall.

    Thorny_Insight,

    I appreciate that.

    PointAndClique,
    @PointAndClique@hexbear.net avatar

    We’re active in political threads since we’re both explicitly leftist instances (grad is ML, Hexbear is leftist of different stripes). Hexbear doesn’t have down votes so if we see something we disagree with, we say something. There’s not really a ‘downvote and move on’ mentality, so you’re likely to get multiple users replying to a post.

    Ram_The_Manparts,
    @Ram_The_Manparts@hexbear.net avatar

    Do you not understand how federation works?

    sharedburdens,

    Oh no not pronouns, those things you use every day already

    Flyberius, in Is it possible to see exactly which users liked, and disliked a post?
    @Flyberius@hexbear.net avatar

    My understanding is it is completely anonymous.

    Siddhartha-Aurelius, in Is it possible to see exactly which users liked, and disliked a post?

    The following was copied from https://ani.social/comment/273371

    Yes this is something that Kbin users can do (by selecting More > Activity on a post) and I believe Lemmy users can do this too but not with the native inrerface

    I’m on kbin and confirm that I can see who votes and if they upvoted or downvoted for posts and comments. It’s really fun to use and see people upvote their own comment.

    Kalcifer,

    and see people upvote their own comment.

    Upvoting one’s own comment is default behaviour on Lemmy. When a user makes a post, or comment on Lemmy, it gets automatically upvoted by that user.

    Siddhartha-Aurelius,

    On kbin the votes start at 0 for both up and downvotes. If I don’t manually vote on my comment it will show me 0 votes after posting. I have no idea how it appears on other instances.

    Chozo,

    On Kbin, your comment has 0 upvotes and 0 downvotes (at the time of writing this), but when I view your comment from the original instance, it shows a score of 1.

    So I guess lemmy.ml defaults comments at 1 point.

    EDIT: Immediately refreshed the original instance, and I'm also at 1 point within 3 seconds of posting. So yeah, that seems to just be the default score. And upvoting my own comment didn't change the score on lemmy.ml. But also, I upvoted your comment, and you're still at 1 point on lemmy.ml. So I dunno if that's a sync issue, or if "unscored" and "1 upvote" both equal "1" on the original instance.

    Siddhartha-Aurelius,

    I upvoted my previous comment and it now shows 2 upvotes for me. When I go to the original instance it only shows 1 upvote.

    Chozo,

    I see 2 upvotes and 0 downvotes to your earlier comment on Kbin, but still only +1 on the original instance.

    h3ndrik,

    Mind kbin shows upvotes from other instance and doesn’t show downvotes from other instances. Just the ones from kbin itself.

    chiisana, in Had to reinstall Lemmy - did I break federation?

    Has it been more than a couple of days? I think the webfinger certificates are kept for 24 hours or something like that, so any changes in the certificate associated with your old user (used for signing updates) will take some time to expire and then update.

    novakeith,

    Ooh, did not know this

    Max_P, in Had to reinstall Lemmy - did I break federation?
    @Max_P@lemmy.max-p.me avatar

    So, it'll still take a little while before it settles down, but I've seen other people in the admin chat do the same thing and it eventually recovered.

    As for the subscriptions, part of the problem is the remote instance thinks you're already subscribed. I think if you unsubscribe and resubscribe it may go through, but you may also just need to use a new account name.

    CosmicSploogeDrizzle, in Had to reinstall Lemmy - did I break federation?
    @CosmicSploogeDrizzle@lemmy.world avatar

    I can see this from lemmy.world. it was showing 1 upvote when I saw it and I upvoted it to 2 as of this post.

    novakeith,

    Thanks. Odd though that my original post (via the KNova@links.dartboard.social account) did not federate out. I’m not too worried about it as long as this second account works, but I would really like to know why it broke

    bjoern_tantau, in Remote Moderator actions still do not seem to work after upgrading to 0.18.5
    @bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de avatar

    I found an easy workaround. Just be a. mod for a community without any traffic.

    xusontha, in Can someone help explain this Rule 1 ban?

    .ml got some goofy somewhat tankie mods, I know multiple people who got banned from .ml for bogus reasons lol

    simply_surprise, in Any issues between lemmy.ml and lemmy.world? I can't access (zero search results and direct link returns blank page) a community on the latter with an account on the former
    @simply_surprise@lemmygrad.ml avatar

    Any chance it’s an nsfw community, and your account isn’t set to see that? Some of ours are NSFW by default, to blur the pictures in the general feed, and I’ve had this issue.

    bec,
    @bec@lemmy.ml avatar

    It isn’t, I even made a post in it a couple weeks ago. It’s PC Master Race community

    lemmy.ml/c/pcmasterrace@lemmy.world

    If I log out I see recent posts and comments, so others can access it without problems

    CaptainBasculin,

    I have this happen to me too and I too use lemmy.ml, the API returns 404 couldnt find community with my credentials, did lemmy.ml block the community?

    bec,
    @bec@lemmy.ml avatar

    That’s what happens to me as well! I did a websearch for “lemmy defederation status” or something like that, and no defederation has happened between the two, in neither direction!

    bec,
    @bec@lemmy.ml avatar

    Follow up: lemmy.ml modlog says they removed pc master race community (which I just learn it’s not defederation), meaning we need a different account to access it

    hitagi,

    I’m guessing the community was banned and purged by lemmy.ml.

    edit: Their modlog says that they removed this community.

    bec,
    @bec@lemmy.ml avatar

    No idea why I didn’t think about checking lemmy.ml modlog, so thanks! Problem solved! Now I realize I had misunderstood defederation haha thanks again, guess I’ll make a second account on .world

    hitagi,

    You’re welcome. I think there should be a better way to communicate a removed or banned community. Maybe like a “removed/banned community for X reason” sign instead of the “community_not_found” error page.

    bec,
    @bec@lemmy.ml avatar

    That would be a quick and easy fix, hopefully at some point we’ll have it!

    simply_surprise,
    @simply_surprise@lemmygrad.ml avatar

    Very curious!

    bec,
    @bec@lemmy.ml avatar

    Worst case scenario I’ll make a second account, thanks for the help!

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