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niktemadur, in What's a quote that has stuck with you for your whole life?
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"Live on, survive, for the Earth gives forth wonders. It may swallow your heart, but the wonders keep on coming. You stand before them bareheaded, shriven. What is expected of you is attention."

Salman Rushdie, from The Ground Beneath Her Feet.

A more recent one, meditation-related, short and simple and I have no idea who said it, I just happened to catch it a couple of years ago on a website-that-shall-not-be-named:

"I am not my thoughts."

fckreddit,

I have BPD. I remember someone telling something similar on reddit. “I am not my diagnosis.”

bogus1,

Great quote for me from the OP. Thank you.
This prompts me to adjust it to fit my needs: "I am my thoughts, so I better craft my thoughts in a better way."

jvrava9, in What genres of music do Lemmites enjoy?
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Phonk, bass trap, edm, classical, drill, synthwave and hardstyle

ablackcatstail, in why does open source companies like canonical and opensuse don't host their own fediverse instances?
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I’ve often wondered this myself because they’ve got the inhouse engineering talent to do it. If I had to guess, I think they don’t see an immediate and a direct benefit. In the grand scheme of things, the is still small but it is making rather exponential games.

Also, maybe these companies are just in the planning stages and we just don’t know about it yet.

ChickenButt, in What's a quote that has stuck with you for your whole life?

Decide what you’re gonna do before you do it.

When I was like 8, a liftee at my local ski hill told me that as I dangled from the chairlift about 5 feet off the ground because I waffled getting on the lift.

LilBiFurious, in what band/song are you kinda ashamed you listening to as a kid?
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I used to think Static-X was the heaviest, most badass band out there. I loved all of their stuff and bumped it daily up through high school. It’s funny, because there was like a ten year gap where they were very un-cool to everyone after that, but now they seem to be having a kind of resurgence with a new front man. Saw them live a few months ago and the venue was packed with a 50/50 split of zoomers and old farts

ThisIsNecessary,

Lol thanks for the memories of listening to Static-X in art class on my headphones. I forgot about them. I also thought they were so cool.

mysoulishome,
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Static-X and Powerman 5000

rustyricotta, in Those who tried Linux and went back to Windows, what caused you to go back to Windows?

It’s been a couple years since I tried maining Linux (Ubuntu). The state of Linux gaming was definitely less than today. Back then, Apex Legends that I played with friends didn’t support Linux yet.

Probably the main reasons for me personally is that I was dual booting from a secondary SSD, so Windows was just always there to switch to if I ran into Linux hiccups I didn’t want to deal with. Also I remember the secondary SSD was only 256gb so I ran into some problems with that.

As for what’s preventing me from switching today

  • I’ve heard Linux VR isn’t quite there yet.
  • Switching over is just a big task I don’t want to deal with right now. It could be done, but I’m currently entrenched in Windows. I want to eventually.
state_electrician, in What's a quote that has stuck with you for your whole life?

In 20 years, the only ones to remember all the hard work and long hours are your children.

Gargantuanthud,

Oof, this one hit hard for me. I’ve been working a lot of hours lately and I need to start putting my actual life as a priority. Thanks for this.

buckykat, in Are we doing anything to prevent becoming Voat?

Voat was by and for the weird racists from the start.

corsicanguppy,

I think it was a good plan-b for about a week; but yeah, it went to absolute shite in such record time.

averagedrunk,

Was it? I don’t ask that to be a jackass. I remember being on there briefly before the racist and jailbait bans on Reddit and it didn’t come across as terribly racist to me at the beginning. But it sure as hell got really racist, creepy, and fat-hatey really damn quick.

There’s a possibility I just missed it. I’m pretty oblivious unless something is right in my face.

Adramis,

IIRC, Voat either was created in response to or got popular after the banning of /r/fatpeoplehate and some other shitty subs.

buckykat,

Voat was founded to be free speech maximalist relative to Reddit. Basically the only subreddits Reddit ever banned that weren’t bigots or pedophiles were r/shoplifting because corpos don’t like being stolen from and r/chapotraphouse to present an appearance of impartiality when banning r/thedonald.

When someone online bemoans a lack of free speech, you have to ask, “free speech to say what?” in much the same tone as you might ask, “states’ rights to do what?”

Belgdore,

To the best of my memory, it started out as a less moderated more free speech space. But that kind of place online tends to attract racists, bigots, and haters because most places online are very free except for those kinds of speech.

Laticauda, (edited ) in It's possible to bathe a newborn kitten with fleas?

The cat eating the kittens if you touch them thing is a myth. The only times a cat might eat their kitten/kittens is if they’re extremely stressed, malnourished, or if a kitten is ill or dies. And even in those cases it’s still rare and the cat is more likely to abandon the kittens rather than eat them. A cat may decide to move her kittens and try to hide them if she doesn’t like them being handled, but that’s about it. And lots of cats actually like when their kittens are handled by humans for various reasons, so it’s possible she won’t have any issue with it regardless.

I’m not sure where the myth came from, but my guess is that in rare cases some feral cats or new mothers get so stressed by humans handling their kittens too much that they eat the kittens because they feel like the environment isn’t safe enough for raising a litter and go nuclear, but I doubt this happens often even among cases of cats eating their young, and like I mentioned before the cat is far likelier to abandon the kittens rather than eat them unless she’s starving. A cat isn’t going to lose the ability to recognize their kitten just because they have human scents on them. They use more than just their sense of smell to recognize their kittens, and handling a kitten isn’t enough to completely remove the kitten’s smell. Cat’s noses are too sensitive for that. Not to mention if that was all it took to get a mother to reject their kitten, then it wouldn’t be so common for mother cats to adopt kittens that they didn’t give birth to, or even baby animals from a different species. Their mothering instinct post-pregnancy is too strong for something like scent to be a primary factor.

Many flea treatments can be unsafe for newborn kittens because of how sensitive they are, so don’t cover them in any mixtures you read about online without consulting a vet first. Don’t use soap on them either, and submerging them in water isn’t a good idea. I think the usual method for kittens that young is just using a very fine flea comb and dampening their fur with warm (but not too hot) water, then picking off the individual fleas by sight, since they’re small enough for that method to be effective. Even if their fur is dark, the flea comb and a good light source can still allow you to see and pick them off effectively, and the water will cause them to gather in the drier spots, making them easier to find. Then you let them dry in a warm place to make sure they don’t get too cold after. Kittens can be very sensitive to changes in temperature which is part of why bathing them outright isn’t a good idea, and why keeping them warm after dampening their fur is important. Also you’ll want to treat the mom at the same time, so she doesn’t just give the fleas to the kittens again, and clean all their bedding and whatever their bedding is kept in (if they’re in a box for example).

I highly recommend calling a local vet to ask over the phone about what methods to use to de-flea both the mother and the kittens, at the very least. Even better if you’re willing to get them an appointment, the sooner the better since fleas can be dangerous for young kittens, even if you don’t think they have many on them. The mother can probably be medically treated, but the kittens can’t. Whatever source you’re getting this “I read” info from isn’t reliable, and while I try my best to do my research, I’m not a vet, I’m just a random person on the internet. so I would recommend consulting a professional first and foremost if you want to be absolutely sure that what you do is safe and won’t hurt the kittens. Even if you don’t want to pay for an appointment, most vets are willing to answer questions and give advice over the phone. Source: I worked at a pet hospital and often consulted the vets about questions asked over the phone.

Xirup,
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My sources were generally searching the internet and wandering through various sites, but it’s like searching for elbow pain and ending up thinking I have cancer, so I asked here.

I will probably call some vets that I have nearby, but don’t worry, I am not going to do anything by myself and much less without consulting a professional before, I don’t want to hurt the kittens either, my intention to ask here is because I noticed their fleas now that in my country it is night and I can’t ask in any vet because they are closed, and I wanted to know if I could do something in the meantime for the kittens.

Thanks for the answer!

Laticauda,

It’s worth checking if you have any 24/7 vets in the general area if you’re worried and want to contact someone sooner rather than later (these places usually take emergencies but they’re usually willing to answer questions over the phone as well in my experience), but if there isn’t one then the kittens should be fine for the night if they seem healthy still aside from the fleas. The main thing you have to worry about with fleas is anemia iirc, which can be deadly for kittens if left untreated. If they aren’t abnormally lethargic and don’t have pale gums then they’re likely not in immediate danger, just make sure to stay on top of it and get them treated (using professional advice) as soon as you’re able. Good luck!

techgearwhips, in Those who tried Linux and went back to Windows, what caused you to go back to Windows?

Shit never works and I basically have to become a programmer and expert in CLI to get shit to work… until it breaks again. So after having to Google everything on how to do supposedly simple shit, I always end up going back to Windows and GUI’s because I don’t have time to become a developer.

medgremlin, in It's possible to bathe a newborn kitten with fleas?

There’s some conflicting stuff on the things I was reading, but it seems like the safest option would be flea treating the mother and using a flea comb on the babies. However, I would highly recommend contacting a veterinarian and getting their advice first if you can.

Xirup,
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Thanks for researching, in fact I don’t know why I didn’t think of using a flea comb before, that should be easy enough.

And for the mother, I will try to give her a flea treatment.

SayJess, in What's a quote that has stuck with you for your whole life?
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Sometimes the good you do, doesn’t do you any good.

JoeClu, in What's a quote that has stuck with you for your whole life?
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“I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.” - Mark Twain

Pulptastic,

“you’re born naked and you die naked” -Drew Carry Show

SexualPolytope, (edited ) in What's a quote that has stuck with you for your whole life?
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Not really a quote, but a poem that I read in school. It’s called মৃত্যুঞ্জয় (The Death-defier). A rough translation is available here.

A couple of lines have stuck with me ever since.

‘‘যখন উদ্যত ছিল তোমার অশনি

তোমারে আমার চেয়ে বড়ো বলে নিয়েছিনু গণি

তোমার আঘাত-সাথে নেমে এলে তুমি

যেথা মোর আপনার ভূমি।’’

It translates roughly to

“When your thunder was ready to strike, I considered you mightier than me. But with your blows you came down. Here, with me, where I stand.”

It has taught me not to fear hardships, since nothing is ultimate. Everything looks scary from afar. But if we have the grit and determination to face it, all will crumble in front of our might. Even death has nothing on us, since out deeds and achievements will live on. This poem has given me inspiration in dark times. It has reminded me that all hope is not lost, no matter how grim everything might seem.

Maerman, (edited ) in You know any cool, lesser-known or even made up phrases?

Ooh, another one I just remembered, translated from Afrikaans: ‘Piggie war’.

Used to refer to a conflict where there are no winners, like pigs fighting in mud, where all participants just end up dirty, humiliated and bruised. Like replying to a troll online.

Today,

Is that kinda like “two monkeys fucking a football?”

Maerman,

Never heard that one, but it could be similar. I’m stealing that, by the way.

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