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derf82, in What's your favorite restaurant chain?

Culver’s. Butter burgers, cheese curds, and custard all in one spot.

Black_Gulaman, in What movie did you rewatch most often?
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Jurassic park!

CeruleanRuin, in If people using Reddit are called Redditors, then what do we call people who use Lemmy?
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Fred.

kerr, in During travel, what can I prepare beforehand as meal, which can be eaten without access to fire or microwave?
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Not sure if it’s in your list, but the hot dog places were immensely popular and quite cheap when we were there a few years ago. Bæjarins Beztu was very tasty. Ate hot dogs with crispy onions and remoulade A LOT when we got home to recreate them. Even if you can’t take them with you during the day tours I’d recommend trying it out anyway.

nigelinux,

Yes hot dog! We’ve bookmarked it already but your firsthand experience has made me more eager to try!

Parsnip8904, in During travel, what can I prepare beforehand as meal, which can be eaten without access to fire or microwave?
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You can get prepackaged meals that you can eat after submerging the packet in hot water for a few minutes. Hot water is easily available in most place, even more so if you carry a flask.

Protein bars are filling and quite nice to eat. Dried fruits like apricots or dates are also a nice calorie rich option. Bread and jam/pb are the usual travel staples. Milk powder and cornflakes/cereal is also an option, but not one of my favourites.

You can also carry out forms of bread like pretzels, bagels or focaccia which will last for a few days or even more.

Don’t forget that experiencing local food is part of any travel experience :) you’re not going to travel to Iceland to just eat in the future. So it might be a good idea to explore local supermarkets for some local fruits, bread, snacks and so on. Hopefully some Icelandic person will chime in with more suggestions.

nigelinux,

I love bread! Though my wife, not so much. We do plan to go to supermarket, thanks for suggestions!

Parsnip8904,
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Hope you have a good trip :) I know the struggle! I’m a vegetarian and often it’s very hard for me to find dishes I can eat in many countries. I have shifted towards renting Airbnbs with kitchen and making rice or pasta with local veggies for most of my meals for this reason.

SmilingSkeleton, in Have you ever had Detroit-style pizza?

Lived on Detroit style all my life, and while it’ll always be central to my selection of favorites, NY thin crust does it best for me, with L&B’s Sicilian style taking a special nod.

relevant_ace, in What is the most unhelpful advice you have received?

“You just need to focus and you can do it.”

Ah yes, my ADHD ass will just magically find this focus thing you speak of instead of the long and brutal process of finding the right combination of meds and therapy. Problem solved. /s

SharkEatingBreakfast,

ADHD advice from non-ADHD-havers has always been infuriating.

It’s like yelling at a drowning person with no arms to “swim better!”

Yondoza,

Seems to be the case for most mental ailments. It’s hard for some people to grasp that other people experience life completely differently. It took me a long time and some very patient people to finally teach me that.

SharkEatingBreakfast,

I’m glad you were open to learning, though!

I have a very progressive siblings who is very pro-mental health and all that, but she never fails to mention how “those meds are so bad for you!” Yeah. I mean… I guess. The alternative is me being unable to care for myself. But whatever.

“Try exercising!”

Cool, I’d do that if my brain didn’t confine me to my bed for 18 hours without meds.

People just. don’t. get it. And they need to acknowledge that they don’t. It’s fine!! Just don’t try to act like we’re on the same level playing field. We’re not!

Tippon,

Cool, I’d do that if my brain didn’t confine me to my bed for 18 hours without meds.

Is that what that is? I’m in my 40s and trying to get diagnosed, and the possible ADHD has got worse over the last few years. I’ve gone through periods of weeks where I’m really struggling to get out of bed, and they coincide with each other.

SharkEatingBreakfast,

Depression is also a condition that can cause this. Get a full health screening before you go fully looking into a diagnosis, but definitely keep it in mind if, physically, things turn up normal.

Also keep in mind that depression & anxiety can be comorbid with ADHD, which can often lead to frustrating misdiagnosis and being put onto medications that may not work quote right (if you choose to go that route). Hell, I’ve been told that “[you] don’t have ADHD – it’s trauma! PTSD!” As if the constant invalidatation of my condition wasn’t one of the reasons in part that led to my mistreatment and development of PTSD.

I hope that you are able to get answers soon and have things improve!

NotYourSocialWorker,

Agreed, also people need to know how literal having “poor mental health” is. The margin you have for extra load or bad things happening is so much smaller. Similar to how an unexpected bill will be shoulder shrug for someone with good economy and a disaster for someone with bad economy.

NotYourSocialWorker,

Oh yes, such as “just form good habits”…
Sorry, I’m incapable of making habits.

Or “think how good it will feel when you’re done”.
Sorry, best I can do is feel enough anxiety over not having done the thing that it will outweigh the anxiety I feel regarding doing the thing".

It’s such a joy sometimes…

JungleJim,

The double-edged anxiety for any given responsibility thing is an ADHD thing? Ah heck.

NotYourSocialWorker,

Yepp, or at least a subgroup of it and/or autism.

And if you’re really “lucky” it turns into PDA, “pathological demand avoidance” or as I prefer to call it “pervasive drive for autonomy”. Worst case you enter fight or flight mode due to any demands on you. My feeling is that it’s a understandable reaction to the feelings of anxiety demands have pushed on you over the years.

xor,

A couple of years ago I went to my GP in a very bad mental state due to what I now am fairly sure is undiagnosed ADHD.

My GP prescribed me a walk. Never been willing to try to talk to that doctor again.

hsl, in Lemmy Theme Refuses to Change
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Please check the sidebar for suggestions on where you can find support. Removing this post per rule #3.

ExecutorAxon, in Is it worth to read Star Wars novels?

The Darth Bane books are some of my favourite reads ever!

Tetra, in What goes good with American Cheese?
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Burgers are just about the only good use for it IMO

livus,
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This but only on fast food. If I'm making a burger myself, I'm going to put good cheddar cheese on it. Or maybe blue cheese.

TheRealKuni,

Obviously you do you, but man I make a mean smash burger at home with deli-style American and an exceptionally simple seasoning of 4 parts salt, 1 part pepper.

Don’t get me wrong, bleu cheese on a burger is a solid choice. But I don’t really like cheddar on burgers nearly as much. Doesn’t melt the right way.

livus,
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Good to know. We don't have deli-style American in my country as far as I know, so I don't know what that tastes like. It's all just individually wrapped slices, Laughing Cow etc, mostly for kids lunches.

I kind of know what you mean about the melt quality though. I'm a kiwi so I always have a ton of cheddar available, but for a really good burger it's nice to have something softer like brie or blue.

QubaXR, in What is the most unhelpful advice you have received?
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Don’t ever quit.

Screw that. Quitting is healthy, quitting is good. Nothing worse than digging yourself deeper and deeper based on sunk cost fallacy.

axolittl,

“Don’t be a quitter” is like saying “Fuck your boundaries. Stay in toxic situations no matter how bad they get.”

JoeClu,
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If I’m sick of something, I don’t quit, I change direction.

CoderKat,

“Don’t be a quitter” is something that makes sense if you’re in the middle of a board game or the likes. It definitely shouldn’t be applied to big things like jobs or relationships.

pineapplelover,

They told me to not quit. So I’m still a crack addict.

limestoned,

Absolutely! Strategic quitting is an option that people don’t use enough. Definitely improved my quality of life!

kafa,

as everything this has contexts in which is valuable and contests in which it’s not

don’t quit because you’re demoralised. don’t quit because you’re tired. don’t quit because it’s hard.

if your first natural response to adversities is flying instead of fighting, it’s telling you to fight, because you are likely the only person losing when flying.

it’s not about never change your mind. never critically think what’s the situation and if it’s still worth it.

or check up with yourself and see if that’s still what you want.

after all leaving a situation you don’t want anymore, it’s not quitting, it’s moving on

it seems just semantics, it’s about knowing yourself and being honest with yourself.

nothing is black or white

jrs100000,
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You dont have to keep going if you are tired and demoralized either. You dont owe pain and suffering and missed opportunities to your past self. You can quit any time you want for any reason or no reason at all, just be prepared to accept the consequences.

burningquestion, in Have you ever had Detroit-style pizza?

As a long time NY style preferrer, I was basically 100% certain that I’d hate Detroit style. Surprisingly, I loved it. It’s the only way I make pizza now. It’s so fucked up. How did they completely fuck up pizza yet make it so good? The sauce goes on top? What the fuck?

Anyways, I’ll probably burn out on it before long (eating a Detroit style pizza is a commitment) but it blew my mind when I finally tried it last year.

tron,

Chicago style is with sauce on top, Detroit style is rectangle deep dish because they originally baked the pizza in oil pans. Or so the legend goes.

burningquestion, (edited )

I’m going to guess the places I went had their own twist on it, but I’m offended you think I could mistake a Detroit style for a Chicago style.

Chicago styles are defined by being utterly disgusting and inedible round deep dish casseroles from a state whose entire cuisine revolves around turning everything into a casserole. The sauce goes on top as a matter of preference.

And, like you said, Detroit styles are defined by the pan they’re baked in, with Wisconsin brick melting down the sides and forming a burned cheese crust. The ones I’ve had – admittedly mostly local joints not in Michigan and only once or twice from a real Jet’s or Buddy’s-- mainly threw a couple splashes of sauce on top, but wildly unevenly, nothing at all like the even layering of a Chicago style “pizza”

burningquestion, (edited )

I know. Most of the places I’ve been – and the recipes I’ve found for Detroit style – have the cheese on the bottom with a couple splashes of tomato sauce on top. I’ve only been to a Jet’s or Buddy’s once or twice and I guess I dont really recall where they put the sauce.

These were still nothing at all like a Chicago style, which I generally categorize as either a war crime or a lab experiment hybridizing pizza and casserole gone horribly wrong.

Regardless, even if cheese on bottom with sauce on top isn’t characteristic of Detroit style, it’s a remarkable innovation in pizza science. And I don’t mean that you should fill a deep dish casserole with dough, cheese and sausage and pour several pounds of tomato sauce on top like you need to load up on fats and protein to cope with the wind chill in Chicago

beesthetrees, in Should an altruistic organ donor be allowed to restrict their donation to a specific group of people? (e.g. women, gingers)

That is literally the opposite of being altruistic, so no.

Nioxic, in What is the most unhelpful advice you have received?

I went to my doctor for an infection (i had a swelling in my throat)

My doctor told me to drink water…

I said… “ok, thanks” and left.

Got a 2nd opinion.

This new doctor actually took a blood sample and gave me antibiotics. I was much better just a few hours later.

FiftyShadesOfMyCow,

You should review bomb that asshat

Che_Donkey,
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report to the medical board would probably be more effective but what dobi know, I am not, and will never be, a whale biologists

FrostyWit,

How did you know they were a whale? Are you a whale soothsayer??

Blizzard, in Should an altruistic organ donor be allowed to restrict their donation to a specific group of people? (e.g. women, gingers)

I think if you volunteer as an organ donor, you waive ownership of your bodyparts and leave it to doctors to asses who needs it most.

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