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TrickDacy, in Am I the only one getting agitated by the word AI?
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You’re not the only one but I don’t really get this pedantry, and a lot of pedantry I do get. You’ll never get your average person to switch to the term LLM. Even for me, a techie person, it’s a goofy term.

Sometimes you just have to use terms that everyone already knows. I suspect we will have something that functions in every way like “AI” but technically isn’t for decades. Not saying that’s the current scenario, just looking ahead to what the improved versions of chat gpt will be like, and other future developments that probably cannot be predicted.

Silentiea,

I don’t think the real problem is the fact that we call it AI or not, I think it’s just the level of hype and prevalence in the media.

some_guy, in What's something you're proud of doing?

An unhoused woman recently asked me if I’d buy her some food at a fast food joint. I said ok because I think I have a moral obligation to help anyone who asks for food if I can afford to. She ordered the largest multi-item meal they offered (think bucket of chicken). The person ringing it up offered to do a smaller combo, but I said fuck it and let her get the largest. I figured she might have people to feed other than herself and it’s not like I couldn’t afford to let her indulge.

The reason I’m proud on this is because I changed myself into this compassionate person where once there was an angry person filled with hate. This is the product of years of therapy and deliberate self-work. I’m also proud of finally being able to love myself. That happened in 2019-2020.

canitendtherabbits,

You are amazing. I’m inspired. I’ve been an angry hate filled person for about 5 years and am recently pulling out through attempting some sort of self realization. Thanks for posting.

umulu,
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Damn! Keep you the great work. <3

some_guy,

Thank you.

TheInsane42, in How to cope with existing right now?
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Anyone got any advice for coping with this late stage capitalist hellscape?

Learn skills.

Money is worthless when you have to spend 4 hours to work to hire somebody to do in 1h what you yourself can do in 2. At this point the prizes of skilled labour rise as there is a huge shortage of skilled personel. Somehow society decided ther theoretical knowledge is more valuable then practical knowledge, but to me managers and the likes are overhead.

As example, in '10, when I was 38, my house needed painting for the 1st time. I got a quote of €4k (more then a month’s wage) and it would be done in 2-3 days. I decided to paint the house myself and it took me a week, cost me €400, gave me the chance to repair the windows and I learned some skills.

Same goes for car repairs, plumbing and I (male) even made our curtains with a sewing machine I bought. The only tasks I’m forced to hire people for now is medical, for me, my wife and our pets. When I hire somebody for other tasks, it’s because I don’t want to do the work. It’s a choice.

As it always has been, knowledge is power, which includes the knowledge/skills to be self supporting. Refuse to run the rat race, although in the US that’s a lot harder then over here in Europe.

ArumiOrnaught, (edited )

car repairs

At least change your own oil. If you don't have tools I know a few part stores will let you borrow them.

blazeknave,

Sorry that was 14 years ago. A penny saved isn’t earned, when it’s already owed elsewhere or you’re just not making enough pennies. If you don’t want to sound tone deaf, you’ll need to internalize that your 15 years on us, was enough to get ahead of this stage of collapse.

TheInsane42, (edited )
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When I don’t have the cash for a paintjob, I shouldn’t have bought the house (Yep, home owner here). I make way enough cash to have somebody paint my house. However, when I hire somebody to paint the house, I can’t spend the cash on hobbies I like to do or improve the house the way I want to.

At the moment however, finding somebody that is willing to paint a house is a huge challenge. You just can’t find the personel anymore to paint. Everybody want to be overhead and manage, nobody want to work. There is a hude shortage of skilled labour at the moment, so I’m very glad I can do it myself, inclouing the needed wood repair. (buying new window sills will cost about 25% of the current value of the house and they are ugly as all you can get is plastic)

qyron,

€4k was really cheap, I’ll risk.

You just stated what we should internalize more than ever: we can do something, even if if takes longer.

I’m in Europe too and dealing with shady/unwilling professionals forced me to wake up and start learning.

And never forget the skills we acquire for ourselves may one day prove of value to others. But just the sense of personal worth from getting something done or fixed is precious.

neidu2, in What are you drinking tonight, and is it what you really want to be drinking?

Beer in an airport lounge, and no.
Tomorrow it will be beer in a hotel lobby, which is what I’m looking forward to.

Sammy,
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Get yourself a Breakfast Pint; you’ve earned it!

neidu2,

Waiting at the first airport right now. There’s no beer here though, as it’s a tiny local airport with only a vending machine. But in about two hours I’ll be landing at a larger regional one. As I’m a very frequent flier this means lounge access and free beer during my three hour wait.

TheInsane42, in Can't we just start calling it "Formerly Twitter" instead?
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eXitter seems to be the correct name at the moment.

gilokee,
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x can be pronounced as sh, so…shitter?

TheInsane42,
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When you see the sewage that’s being spewed there it’s as good as any other name.

200ok, in If you had to restart your job at your current employer, what would you do differently?

Is it possible to have two cell numbers on one phone?

I’d give out my burner number if anyone outside of HR asked for my contact info.

imkali, (edited )

Yes. Most modern phones are dual-sim. New Google Pixels, new iPhones, All Xiaomis afaik.

You can give them phone number A and then completely disable that sim out of work hours.

Edit: also you can have “virtual” phone numbers that you just use inside an app on your phone, but they don’t do as much as a normal mobile number so I personally wouldn’t take my chances.

200ok,

Interesting!!

Do you know if it would it be cheaper to have a second SIM card or a virtual phone number?

imkali,

Depends where you live. MoreMins lets you buy a virtual phone number for about €4/mo if I remember right, which is wayy cheaper than anything physical you can get anything here in Australia.

200ok,

Thanks!

pdxfed,

Google voice has been around for like 15 years. It’s your perm number, that your direct calls to your real number as you like/don’t like.

Personally I give out work number that is semi permanent and fam/friends get GV #. I use one message app for work # and one for GV. Allows me to pay attention/prioritize during work/personal time.

Been doing this for more than 12 years. 8 employers, no worries.

200ok,

This is perfect, thanks!

LemmyKnowsBest,

You must use your Google voice phone number often enough for them not to disable it. I had a Google voice number. Used it infrequently. They disabled it.

TheInsane42,
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Yep, dual sim is a thing. However, my employer wants full control of the phone so they provided an iPhone. (I’m an Android user) The biggest pro of 2 phones is that you can silence the work phone outside work hours.

With my 1st temp job ('99) I told my boss that the best feature on the work phone the power button was. The moment I left the building it would be turned off. Alas, those modern phones have a complete sequence to go trough to get them off, so I now use the automated do not desturb. Alas, iPhone has only times you can set daily, instead weekday dependent times. Between 18:00 and 7:00 the thing is quiet, no exceptions.

200ok,

Interesting! Can work track your location via your work phone?

TheInsane42,
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Yep, when they have control overthe phone, yep. This iPhone tells me it’s managed by my organisation so they can do what they want with it, including looking up the location of the device.

Abucketofpuppies, in Why do christian apologists say the name of the person they're talking to so often?

Aside from it being a sales tactic, it’s also just a strategy to memorize people’s names. I use it often because I’m trying to be friendly, and I have slight face blindness.

wintermute_oregon,

Ironically I work in sales and rarely use names. I am shit with names.

ccunning,

OK, but how are you with sales?

wintermute_oregon,

Very good. Just funny it’s a common sales tactic that I don’t do because I can’t remember names

profdc9,

I want to take your course.

wintermute_oregon,

I teach new hires to my team on sales tactics. My background is in psychiatry/psychology.

It all boils down to being legit. Be you. Don’t be fake. Don’t lie.

Based on sales I typically outsell my peers 4:1. When I say a customer is a friend, that means we are friends.

After COVID people are looking for more authentic relationships. The dynamics have changed. They don’t want the fake sales person who just takes them to dinner. They want someone that has a real relationship with people, they enjoy spending time with and they trust.

The social isolation has caused people to seek true connections when they spend time with people.

PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S, (edited ) in What are you drinking tonight, and is it what you really want to be drinking?
@PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Cherry Coke.

Yes.

KpntAutismus,

now i want one too :|

iquanyin, in Ancient wisdom often sounds like common sense now that it is commomly taught. What is some ancient wisdom that we no longer teach because it was wrong?
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if it as wrong, it wasn’t wisdom, just a belief.

unreasonabro,

lmao at the brilliant wordsmiths downvoting this literally tautological and necessary truth.

iquanyin,
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that night air is bad for you.

Aussiemandeus, in Anyone shop on Temu? What are your best finds?
@Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone avatar

I’m not sure why people are hating on you, perhaps some kind of advertising thing?

I dont use temu at all, but the leatherman shears etc are they genuine?

phoneymouse, (edited )

I haven’t used the real leatherman shears, but they seem legit. The design is exactly the same, though there isn’t a leatherman logo on it. I can cut a penny with the ring cutter, so they’re pretty sturdy. It’s not something I’d use regularly, but I keep them in my car just in case I encounter an accident and need to use the glass breaker, belt cutter, or other components.

TheInsane42,
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I’m not sure why people are hating on you, perhaps some kind of advertising thing?

Temu is known for forcing their suppliers to sell below production costs so they can flood the market with cheap junk. Say the same tactic Amazon uses, but to it’s extreme. (and there are loads that already avoid Amazone like the plague it is)

phoneymouse,

Not sure where you saw this, but I think it’s possible. The thing is a lot of the stuff available on Temu is sold on Amazon for a higher price. So, I think the cheap prices come from cutting out the markup added by an American importer.

TheInsane42,
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As far as I understood It’s not even denying the producers a profit, it’s forcing them to take the loss on the products, just to take a market share.

Amazon ‘only’ prohibits suppliers to make profit (and then buy the company if the product sells).

Aussiemandeus,
@Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone avatar

Thank you, i didn’t even realise Amazon did this either.

Fortunately i almost never use any of the online shops like these.

HelixDab2, in If Trump loses in 2024, do you think he'd run in 2028?

Trump appears to be suffering from a serious cognitive decline since he was last president. He was never the sharpest spoon in the drawer, but it’s bad now. If he’s still alive in five years, I don’t think he’ll be capable of doing anything other than drooling on himself.

cley_faye,

That sort of does not answer the question, seeing some US senators in the news that are barely pushed around.

dwalin,

I wonder if the stress of being in court every day is starting to take a toll.

HelixDab2,

Trump is old. Republicans have been stressing how old Biden is–and using his life-long speech impediment as evidence–but Trump trails Biden by only four years of age. They’re both at an age where you start seeing a sharp divergence in cognitive abilities, where some people take a nosedive into dementia and senility, while other people retain their mental faculties while their body fails. Trump seems to be the former.

trolololol, in Have you ever seen coal burn? If yes, why?

What’s the difference?

Honytawk, (edited )

One you can mine from the ground.

The other you get by smelting oak logs in a furnace

xigoi,
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You can also get the former by killing wither skeletons, making it a renewable resource.

someguy3,

Coal is mined out of the ground.

Charcoal is wood that has been super heated to remove the water.

lemmefixdat4u,

Charcoal is wood that has been heated above combustion temperature without oxygen. That does drive off water, but it also chemically decomposes the lignin and other organics into primarily carbon while creating a volatile mixture of gasses known as woodgas.

Source: Have a woodgas generator. Byproduct is charcoal.

PatMustard, in How do you cope with the state of the world today?

On average the world is better than it’s ever been. Higher life expectancies, less war, better quality of life; it’s all generally on the up. Would you rather go back to the last financial crisis? When the ozone layer was being depleted? The interment threat of nuclear annihilation? Race riots? Women not being able to vote? High infant mortality? etc, etc

greywolf0x1,

Less war?

There’s a genocide going on in the middle east right now by settler colonialist fully backed by the western powers to destabilize the region and I’m sure you know that, it’s just irrelevant to you.

There’re too many neoliberals on lemmy, I can’t even deal fam

Pohl,

There were at least 2 other genocides in progress the last October when this mess started. You only care about this one because you have been told to.

Neoliberalism is really an economic philosophy. It doesn’t really have a lot to say about how a nation ought to position itself toward foreign wars. It’s not an all purpose slur for people who disagree with you.

intensely_human,

Which ones are those? What?

Pohl,

The darfuri people in Sudan and the uyghur people in china were what I had in mind. But honestly, war that disproportionately impacts one ethnic group or another is a fairly common sort of war.

otp,

On average the world is better than it’s ever been

Of course, certain groups of people have been trying to reverse these trends in the name of…money? Tradition?

The newer generations are no longer becoming smarter (I believe it was the Flynn effect). Education is being defunded at all levels.

The cost of living in many parts of the world has been outpacing wages… especially now, but for decades. Yet we have more wealth hoarded into fewer hands.

Anti-vax and anti-science movements have been reintroducing measles and have been making it hard to fight other diseases.

We are seeing the effects of these things in action, and they will only get worse over time.

intensely_human,

They’re trying to reverse those trends because acknowledging those trends means giving up on their theory that our dominant economic system is defunct.

highduc,

It’s cancer and it’s killing us all.

intensely_human,

Exactly. That kind of thinking doesn’t work when you realize the “cancer” is producing situations like:

Higher life expectancies, less war, better quality of life

Do you disagree with those statements? Do you need to see evidence before you’ll believe them?

Or do you acknowledge the statements, but disagree that they justify the “cancer” of our current economic system?

highduc,

Do you disagree with those statements? Do you need to see evidence before you’ll believe them?\

I disagree with them.
Higher life expectancy - I wouldn’t attribute that to capitalism. Further more life expectancy in the US is declining afaik.
Less war - What do you mean? There’s a war in Ukraine, one in Palestine, and there’s been perpetual war since …forever. The US war machine always bombs some country, assassinates a democratically elected leader, etc.
Better quality of life - For the 1% at the expense of all the others maybe.

Capitalism is all about profits, not about better products, better quality of life, etc. In fact it’s easily against those things if they get in the way of profit. You can see enshittification everywhere.
For example it would be against their interest for a pharmaceutical company to sell the permanent cure for a disease instead of life-long medical treatment. The latter would be subscription-based therefore create more profit. The cancer comparison is quite fitting imo.

HenriVolney,

Some people argue that humanity was never freer, happier and healthier than before the agricultural revolution. Everything has gone to shit since we decided to settle down on a small plot of land.

PatMustard,

It was much simpler when you were born, miraculously survived childhood, hunted, gathered, then died before your back even had time to get sore

intensely_human,

Honestly it probably was a far more meaningful and fun life. Terrifying too, but super meaningful. The environment your brain evolved for. No old age horseshit, just a painful moment of death followed by your family mourning you. But no pictures or nothing, and everyone’s tripping on shrooms so you’re still there in spirit form. I’m joking as a reflex but I’m serious here. It was probably a better life overall. Seeing a worm and thinking of it as food, having no problem eating that little bastard because your stomach’s gnawing at ya. That’s life boy. Just raw dogging for all the jungle to see why the hell not. It’s prehistory baby. Anything goes.

intensely_human,

Sorry I am trying to make a point. I think it would be better probably. Except for all the misery. The good parts would be super good. The non-awful parts would be super good.

PatMustard,

Sounds like it would be cool for some kind of quantum-leap holiday, but I think in general I’d rather have the relative comfort and lack of preventable pain that modern technology provides!

intensely_human,

How’s the argument go?

HenriVolney,

For about 60k years, between the cognitive revolution and the agricultural revolution, Sapiens was the apex predator of every ecosystem he lived in. People would move from pace to place, foraging and hunting a vast variety of plants and animals. They had the most diverse diet, didn’t rely on a small number of food products that would have exposed them to famine in case of collapse (like crops). Women had few children because they had to carry the younger ones and child mortality was not a challenge to the group survival: there were fewer diseases because they lived in small groups. People lived in tight communities and didn’t have to cope with the mental strains associated with long-term planning. Of course you could get killed by another tribe, eaten by a tiger or die from an infection. But your teeth and gums were healthy, you had the best diet, great overall physical health and people actually lived into their 60s.

MyDogLovesMe, in What are you drinking tonight, and is it what you really want to be drinking?

The tears of my defeated enemies, …with an olive.

toomanypancakes,
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Delicious, vengeful, and classy all in one! I like your style

BigBenis, in So is the US slipping into Civil War?

Can we just have a normal, boring year for once, please? I’m so tired…

HawlSera,

Better yet, can we have a government that doesn’t pretend things are fine and actually doe something about the fucking fascists?

risencode,

I think you’d have to relocate for that.

dave_baksh,

What planet do you recommend?

risencode,

Any “first world” country that will accept you.

wabafee, (edited )
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Closest would be the Moon. I heard it’s pretty boring. Aside from the occasional rover visits.

joyjoy,

Please let us have a normal election season

With the Trump? NO WAY!

CosmicCleric, (edited )
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Can we just have a normal, boring year for once, please? I’m so tired…

I’m right there with you.

But at least you can think of this to console you: You’re not actually fighting in a world/civil war, down in some troops trench somewhere, reading this (at least that’s my hope for you).

Other generations have had to go through major wars, but so far we’ve been dodging that bullet, for the most part.

Things could be a lot worse.

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