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JohnDClay, in AITA for walking out of the Airport when I saw my husband's mom standing there with her luggage?

Yta for reposting these. These are very not useful to repost since the interesting bits are usually in the replies. Maybe post the subreddit drama version with the overview and follow up if you must.

deconstruct,

I’m reposting some of the most interesting and popular ones. Who knows when the next reddit meltdown will happen and sub disappears for a month?

I don’t see the harm, there’s not much activity in his community anyway.

clay_spine,

I’m glad you’re reposting. I’m here for the stories.

Leax,

Don’t worry, thanks for sharing!

traches, (edited )

Lemmy needs content dude, stop gatekeeping.

JohnDClay,

I haven’t seen any of these aita reposts that have any interaction, bearly any have upvotes. Aita posts just seem like the least valuable type of post to repost

vivavideri,

Well, I miiight just have to go comment and upvote all of them now. :)

ramsgrl909, in I’m considering leaving my wife because of her weight

Communication!

Little8Lost, in I’m considering leaving my wife because of her weight

that is a very nice read and i dislike all the jerks who belived that he did not love her. And yes, it sometimes needs a harsh wake up call to be better in staying alive

Default_Defect, in OP asks legaladvice for help on escaping her physically abusive husband. He is a cop.
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Jesus, thats frightening. Hope it all works out for the best in the end and the husband doesn’t just find a new victim.

Plibbert,

Sadly he’s a police officer in America. So best case he get fired and gets a new job at a department a stone toss away. Most likely nothing happens.

Default_Defect,
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Unfortunately true, probably comes with a raise too.

OhYeahThat, in OP asks legaladvice for help on escaping her physically abusive husband. He is a cop.

My favorite updates are the getting out of an abusive life safely. People underestimate just how hard that is to do

trimmerfrost, in OP asks legaladvice for help on escaping her physically abusive husband. He is a cop.

Here I can’t even get a woman, and there’s someone beating the shit out of his woman

ScrivenerX,

The real victim of domestic abuse: guys who are so narcissistic that they associate everything with the fact they don’t have a girlfriend.

pizza-bagel,

In addition to what @ScrivenerX said, this is also problematic because you seem to think women are aware someone is an abuser and then continue to date them. Abusers are incredibly manipulative and isolate their victims as much as possible over time so that they feel they can't realistically leave once they reveal their true selves.

superduperenigma, (edited )

Have you considered that this incel/niceguy attitude towards women is part of the reason women don’t care to associate with you?

Edit: Wow I figured you’re a troll but holy shit. -815 points in 16 days. That’s impressively low.

Tangent5280, in OP asks legaladvice for help on escaping her physically abusive husband. He is a cop.

So many such stories don’t have such a happy ending. This woman is lucky to be able to leave safely.

devdad, in OP asks legaladvice for help on escaping her physically abusive husband. He is a cop.

I really missed this sub

Me too. It’s about the only reason I still open Reddit, every now and again.

StackedTurtles,

Same. I use an rss reader on my phone and have the best of sub as an rss feed in it. That way I can still read it decently from my phone.

jaybirrd, in My wife and her best friend accused me of having an affair, then got angry when I didn't have one

There needs to be better awareness and support structure for postpartum depression and postpartum psychosis. It is truly horrifying and when you’re a parent, you often don’t realize it’s happening until things are really bad. The mother has really scary intrusive thoughts (sometimes intensely violent) and often does not feel safe to open up and get help. There are many tragic stories out there where things spiraled completely out of control and ended up in infanticide or suicide, sometimes both.

Mothers and their partners/spouses preparing to have children need to learn how to identify it and have a plan for what to do if it happens. It’s more common than you might think, and support is needed when it happens.

saferbirth.org/…/urgent-maternal-warning-signs-2/…

SnowMeowXP, in My wife and her best friend accused me of having an affair, then got angry when I didn't have one
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Are there no updates as to whether the “friend” was able to speak at the funeral?

seacocker, in I am leaving my wife tomorrow and I couldn’t be happier
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ASking out someone the day after leaving a long term relationship doesn’t seem like the best decision and makes me think he might actually be the douche bag here.

Buddahriffic,

I mean, it sounds like he’s been done with the relationship for a long time. The official breakup might have been recent but the feelings sound long gone. As long as the other person is aware of the situation and is ok with it, I don’t see a problem. Though both of them should be aware that it might not work out, but really that’s every relationship.

Saneless,

As someone who was in a 10 year marriage that was shit the last years of it

You’ve been emotionally broken up for years. It’s clear once you’re out. It might be hard to understand unless you’ve been there, but it’s absolutely true. You realize you haven’t been in a relationship in a very long time, so it’s not “the day after” it’s a few years and a day after

GunnarRunnar, in I am leaving my wife tomorrow and I couldn’t be happier

Too one sided and perfect. Pretty good way to kill a few minutes reading though. If I were on Reddit, I'd make my way r/amitheangel to see what's the opinion there.

zzz, in I am leaving my wife tomorrow and I couldn’t be happier

Nice idea! I could live with sone reposts, will only get more people to switch platforms

doppelgangmember,

Yeah i hated the consensus that everyone on Lemmy wanted 15 year old memes but absolutely NO REDDIT REPOSTS!!! Even if they’re entertaining and keep me from going back to reddit…

Blocked the antiquememeshow community. So annoying.

PeleSpirit, in Company throws a corporate retreat at a plantation in southern Alabama with a period-appropriate costume ball, only black guy that works for the company shows up dressed as a slave.

I love this one, he went all in and the pictures are the best part. One of the comments below, lmfao:

This is funny af. I would pay to listen to the phone convos by management to the ceo “ABORT PLANTATION PARTY! ABORT!!!”

PuffyPanda, in My gf was raped and became pregnant. I broke up with her because she wanted to keep the baby + Updates

I feel so terrible for the GF. Not only was she a victim of rape, she had to make a choice that would either cause her to lose her family or her boyfriend. Though I don’t think OP was wrong in any of his actions, it’s still such a terrible situation for her.

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