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Sigmatics, in Does anyone actually enjoy working out?

It becomes enjoyable when you are fit. When you are not, your body will hate you, until you are fit enough.

acetone, in What password manager do you recommend?
@acetone@szmer.info avatar

Bitwarden.

Vendetta9076, (edited ) in What's the hottest and coldest temperature you've ever been in?
@Vendetta9076@sh.itjust.works avatar

-40C and +40C. Both in the same place and in the same year. Fuckin save me.

nebm51,

Add “in the same place” and you would have said Siberia without saying it

Vendetta9076,
@Vendetta9076@sh.itjust.works avatar

Oh it was in the same place. I should have made that clear, but incorrectly assumed it was implied.

nebm51,
Chrisosaur, in Does the reddit style format breed toxicity?

People breed toxicity, especially if you disagree with them. The more people a site has, the shittier it is. People suck.

makanimike,

Not necessarily.
A few years ago, when there was another Reddit Exodus people were suggesting to go to voat. But holy hell was that place toxic.
And tbh, maybe I just picked the wrong instance to sign up on, but right now, I feel like lemmy is more toxic than Reddit, too, despite still being a fraction of the size.
And people say to just not care about it. But it kinda does matter. Bullying and brigading can create an in-group and the rest. To the point that you can sway public opinion, even elections. tl;dr: OP makes a valid point

Barbacamanitu,

You think Lemmy is more toxic than reddit? I’ve seen the opposite so far. I wonder if this boils down to what communities we are a part of? It makes sense though, since most of lemmy is likely 30+ yrs old and have become jaded by reddit already.

Also, yes, voat was awful. It was mostly alt right assholes from what I remember.

makanimike,

the development on voat was incredible. once the hoards moved it went off a cliff within hours or a day or two.

I am fairly sure it is because of the instance I picked. when I click on Local instead of Subscribed my mood goes down. once in a while there is some spillover, and it seems to be following quite specific topics. So either I am out of touch with today’s youth (if the crowd on my home instance is representative), or there is a bias of the active users there and they are hungry for those topics.

Chrisosaur,

I don’t think our points are mutually exclusive. Small sites can be shitty while the trend remains that sites get shittier as they get bigger.

makanimike,

Fair point

Gorbachof,

Your opinion makes me angry 😡

Chrisosaur,

Fuck you. Imma tear down your fucking walls, Gorbachof.

Fthisguy,

I’m gonna fuck down your tearing walls gorbachof.

Chrisosaur,

Got ‘em!

lntl,
@lntl@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

Screw you asshole. More people make a site better!

Chrisosaur,

Go buy a vowel ya fuckin prick.

Saneless, in Does anyone actually enjoy working out?

As I get older, I enjoy it more. It’s a reminder that I’m not as old a bastard as I feel some days, and I know the benefits are real, noticeable, and literally life changing. And at that moment I’m the youngest I’ll ever be for the rest of my life, so it’s a good time to do it.

Maybe I don’t love the specific moment that my muscles are on fire but perspective keeps me happy while doing it

Kyrgizion, in What password manager do you recommend?

My brain. Comes up with the whackiest excuses for why this-and-that password would be a great choice and how easy it would be to remember, only to later explain to me rationally why it was the wrong choice and how I should’ve known I’d forget it. Then again, that’s just extra security. If it’s only stored in my internal memory and even I can’t remember it, no one else is getting in for sure.

Railison, in what was your first video game/system you played or remember playing?

Crystal Caves on DOS

kingmook, in What password manager do you recommend?

+1 for bitwarden. If you want full control you can even host your own server. Easyish to setup at Bitwarden Docker Setup

M_Reimer, in Do I need to remove metadata from pictures before uploading?

Just to be sure you should always remove information, you don’t want on the internet, by yourself.

I always have most metadata storage disabled on my smartphone. Good way to prevent leaking of a location stored in images.

ShadowAether, in e-reader or tablet for reading academic paper

I ended up using a vertical monitor + Zotero for note taking (allows you to highlight text and write comments). My ereader is small enough to be convenient but too small to read papers well. My tablet, I hate writing on screens and it’s also too small

starman, in What would Twitter look like with an absolute number of Likes in the system?
@starman@programming.dev avatar

I think that people would just don’t like/upvote any posts and keep those fake internet points for themselves

And/or they would create a lot of fake accounts to upvote their content.

southsamurai, in What are the most appropriate responses to some very uncomfortable and awkward questions?
@southsamurai@sh.itjust.works avatar

How big is your dick?

This was asked by the daughter of a patient while I was working home health.

She was 14.

I did not go back lol.

My answer was, " ma’am, that’s not a question to ask someone, much less an adult you barely know."

Home health can be fun lol.

cat,

That’s actually a good response, I think I would be stunned by such a question.

southsamurai,
@southsamurai@sh.itjust.works avatar

I was lol

Onionizer,

“Idk ask your mom”

ingy,
@ingy@lemmy.ml avatar

Can confirm, working home health is a lot of fun! I should make a Lemmy community for home health workers of there isn’t already one 🤔

Apytele, (edited )

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ingy,
@ingy@lemmy.ml avatar

Oh nice! I’ll check out the community you started. I’m working as a community care aide in Canada.

Apytele, (edited )

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Anti_Weeb_Penguin, in what was your first video game/system you played or remember playing?
@Anti_Weeb_Penguin@lemmy.world avatar

Dynomite on Windows XP

Radicalized, in What's the point of buying new phones every years?

There are OS updates and there are security updates. Check with your manufacturer as these periods may be quite short, and considering how tied our finances and porivate info are to our phones, it could be a huge hazard. Most android manufacturers, for example, I think offer 2 years of OS updates and 3 or 4 years of security updates. Apples does 6 and 8 - which is wild to me for all the talk of Android users about FOSS and privacy and security. Samsung does 4 and 5, which IIRC, is one of the highest in the android world.

I’m certain someone will mention GrapheneOS, so let me get ahead of that: You can completely de-google your android phone and get as many years of OS upgrades as your hardware can physically support… but is the average person really going to do that?

passepartout,

Apple doing software updates for such an extended period of time is wild, considering how anti-consumer they are in the first place (bad repairability, walled garden, bizarre prices).

Google does 5 years updates for the pixel phones, which is to be expected since they own android lol.

XTornado,

I mean…the software updates usually help people end up upgrading as new features do not work on certain models or are slower etc…

passepartout,

Reminds me of the occasions when iphone customers complained about their battery draining faster / their phones lagging after a software update for years, and just recently apple responded: “you can have battery or features not both lol”.

Regarding features: Usually good software development makes the software more performant over time, not less. But customers are expected to react to excessive DRM measures (like denuvo) or the uprising telemetry hell (like windows 11) with buying more performant hardware. Yields the question what is a (desired) feature and what is a bug, AND what is a cash cow for companies milking their customers.

XTornado,

development makes the software more performant over time, not less

Yeah but they will focus on the newer hardware. And new features might based on new hardware capabilities that might not be on the older hardware or requires workarounds that are worse.

Dick_Justice, in What are the most appropriate responses to some very uncomfortable and awkward questions?
@Dick_Justice@lemmy.world avatar

aRe YoU a ToP oR A bOTToM??

Absolute strangers will ask you that the moment they find out you’re gay.

dojan,
@dojan@lemmy.world avatar

Are you the man or the woman???

My response is usually “are you the man or the woman in your relationship?”

We’re both men, that’s the whole point!

Barbacamanitu,

“We’re both the woman”

Melobol,

I believe some comedian suggested to respond with a similar vulgar question about their sex life. I think that’s a fair point.
Tho you can always ask them if their first question to a stranger is a deeply personal one to get their own perversions fed. That way you are still on the high horse :)

Lemmylefty,
@Lemmylefty@lemmy.world avatar

“Why, trying to figure out if we’re compatible?”

Barbacamanitu,

Just say “we’re both the bottom” and confuse the shit out of them. Or “he’s the bottom and I’m the girl”

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