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TheDarksteel94, (edited ) in Got any suggestions?

Try chewing gum, a few pieces a day.

lseif,

BE VERY CAREFUL DOING THIS!!! you may accidentally chew too much gum, and blow a bubble so big that you float away into the sky.

Possible_EmuWrangler,

You could also swallow it by mistake and it gets stuck for years.

vaselined,

What does it do

TylerDurdenJunior, in Got any suggestions?

The seed shells from Cassia Angustifolia

Make a cup of tea from them, wait 12 to 24 hours.

Enjoy. Just don’t drink it everyday for weeks.

You can find it in herbal stores i am sure.

It is prescribed by doctors at least in some European contries

Thcdenton, in Got any suggestions?

5 mile run always does it for me.

juli, in Healthy relationships don't control the clothes their spouse wears

Why would I care what foreign people do?

vzq, (edited )

Why would I care if you care what foreign people do?

BustinJiber,

Foreign to you would mean the world’s population minus you? This kind of thinking led to why this world seems to be falling apart.

juli,

No idea why people misinterpret my comment. Foreign in this cintext means strange as in stranger, someone I do not know, not as in from another country.

wafflez,

in group out group is cringe. people are people. abuse is abuse.

wafflez,

in group out group is cringe. people are people. abuse is abuse.

TheAnonymouseJoker,
@TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml avatar

Do you care about what Jada Pinkett did to Will Smith?

flamingo_pinyata, in Healthy relationships don't control the clothes their spouse wears

We’re not supposed to victim-blame, but imo this applies only if the person was lured under false pretenses, or forced somehow.

It’s Kanye West. Everyone knows who and what Kanye is. Even if you don’t it’s a 5 second google search to find out.

Lmaydev,

Abuse often works this way.

Usually it’s intermittent and when they aren’t being abused they are super loving and caring.

This leads to people thinking they are doing something wrong or that the abuser is a loving partner with problems that can be worked on.

Abuse is incredibly complicated and until you’ve been through it it’s really hard to understand how anyone could put up with it.

tdawg, (edited )

It’s often bi-directional as well. Sadly I know someone in a battered marriage situation and a big part of why they won’t leave is bc they don’t want the court (they have a kid) to find out they were also getting physical with their spouse. Codependency is a bitch

Lmaydev, (edited )

100%

There’s reactive abuse. Where in response to abuse you defend yourself with abusive behaviour. Then the original abuser plays the victim and gas lights you.

My marriage was like this. It was hell.

Commiunism, in Got any suggestions?

You can hold it in for up to 2 weeks, speaking from experience here.

You’ll be fine

WhisperingEye,

Thank you for believing in me

Vlixz,
@Vlixz@lemmy.world avatar

What happens after those 2 weeks?

AlfredEinstein,
corsicanguppy,

But oh, god, the pain. What a way to escapeTheStall.com !

I had to turn my prescription and left-overs back into the pharmacy after day 4 because the smallest opiate scripp left me in more pain than the original complaint and I had that gait that only really pregnant women or really old men have.

morrowind, in Healthy relationships don't control the clothes their spouse wears
@morrowind@lemmy.ml avatar

Probably because I don’t give a shit about random celebrities

Custoslibera,

I care in a general human sense.

Society talks big about wanting to reduce domestic violence but when there’s a clear cut example it’s radio silence.

Just a little infuriating.

Facebones,

People PRIMARILY, before anything else, want to protect the status quo.

Unfortunately, SA and DV are part of that status quo. Therefore it’ll only ever get lip service cause DOING something would “shake up the meta.”

PerogiBoi,
@PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca avatar

Society is all about talking big on ideals and then doing the opposite.

TrickDacy,
@TrickDacy@lemmy.world avatar

One particular over privileged couple of people don’t catch my eye at all for any other reason either, except when they are spreading hate or something like that. Weird to think everyone does notice or care what celebrities do. I honestly have no idea who his wife is or why I would know she’s abused.

red_pigeon, (edited )

Exactly, why do people care so much about celebrities. It’s understandable to appreciate their work/talent (movies or whatever) but to go beyond that to know whatever crap they are doing in their life is cringy.

TrickDacy,
@TrickDacy@lemmy.world avatar

I so agree. I admit there are a few celebrities that I like so much that I’d be interested in their life story a bit, but I’m absolutely not following news about them or really even interested in their kids or who they married. Even though those things are a part of them, I would be interested in their earlier life more – how did they become this person? Having said that, most biographies I have read have been snoozefests, sadly. Even when the person is insanely fascinating in an interview about their work, hearing about how they spent their summer in 1968 isn’t usually the most riveting story…

Deestan, in Healthy relationships don't control the clothes their spouse wears

What happened to Ye’s attempted political carreer? Last I cared to check he was boldly planning to run as presidential candidate in the US stop-calling-us-nazi party.

coffeebiscuit,

He was only there to make some African American votes irrelevant for the democrats.

LufyCZ,

He won! The election was just rigged…

Oh wait wrong guy

Zoboomafoo,

He tried to run as a Republican while being a black man, anything else is just details

jaybone,

Oh I forgot about this. That would make their primaries even more comical. Hoping this happens.

unreachable, in next year bois
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“my next fuckup won’t hinder my potential success”

Sonotsugipaa, in Our best days are behind us:
@Sonotsugipaa@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

This is what infinite exponential growth does to a mf

… and all the other mfs in the near vicinity

VictimOfAmerikkka, in Our best days are behind us:
@VictimOfAmerikkka@lemmygrad.ml avatar

Capitalism

Frozzie, in next year bois
@Frozzie@lemmy.world avatar

What happened

Rayspekt,

He bought a NFT

Zoidsberg,
@Zoidsberg@lemmy.ca avatar

I measured once and cut twice.

MisterNeon, in Just gotta work it in somehow.
@MisterNeon@lemmy.world avatar

I feel like I do this alot, except it’s the Aztec Empire instead of capitalism.

Rodeo,

I do too, except it’s billionaires instead of capitalism.

I believe in capitalism, it just needs to be very tightly controlled and heavily skewed in favor of the disadvantaged to keep it fair.

OurToothbrush,

I believe in capitalism

If you think billionaires are bad but capitalism is good you don’t know what capitalism is. You should seriously consider reading some of marx’s shorter works like Value Price and Profit and Wage Labor and Capital.

chemicalwonka,
@chemicalwonka@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

Capitalism cannot be regulated to become fair. Capitalism is irrational and immoral, it does not need to be controlled or reformed, it must be overcome

CaptainSpaceman,

I just want feudalism to end

Jentu,

Capitalism always exploits someone whether the bulk of the exploitation is within your country’s borders or not. Being perfectly comfortable within capitalism comes at the expense of someone else regardless of regulation.

Rodeo,

One, I don’t believe it has to be that way. With enough taxes on the wealthy, regulation on commerce, and social programs for the poor, I think a system of fairness can be achieved.

Two, I don’t believe that communism of any form result in a sense of fairness for anyone. I believe most humans have an innate desire to work to improve their lives, and I don’t believe communism offers the same freedom and opportunities for self improvement through honest work that can be offered by tightly regulated capitalism in combination with strong social programs.

OurToothbrush,

Two, I don’t believe that communism of any form result in a sense of fairness for anyone. I believe most humans have an innate desire to work to improve their lives, and I don’t believe communism offers the same freedom and opportunities for self improvement through honest work

Historically communism allows for more improvement though. Working class people would be able to take college classes in the evenings for free. Peasant girls went from a future of marriage and housework to being able to be scientists.

It is more easy to motivate yourself to be better at your work when what you’re doing benefits everyone than to motivate yourself to be better at your work when what you’re doing just benefits some bourgeois fuck.

BarrelAgedBoredom,

The fact that the poor still exist in your ideal “fair” society indicates that a capitalist system still relies on exploitation. How do you make “work or starve” disappear while still being capitalist?

Communism is a stateless, moneyless society. It’s a utopian marker for people in the present day. It’s not a fixed ideology in and of itself. The Spanish Anarchists of the CNT-FAI and the USSR have very little in common but both aspired to implement communism, at least on paper. I have my criticisms but they’re not relevant.

You would be correct in saying that people have an innate desire to labor and improve their lives. Capitalism forces you to (attempt to) improve your life and shape the world through competition with your peers. If you’re disadvantaged in some way, fuck you. Work harder or die in the streets. Social programs and welfare are antithetical to capitalism. It doesn’t independently generate profit and thus is often ignored or slowly eroded over time when it does manage to manifest. Socialism/ socialist ideologies (worker ownership of the means of production) enables people to improve their life and shape the world through cooperation. It seeks to ensure everyone is able to live a dignified life and contribute according to their ability. Humans are capable of both competiton and cooperation and capitalism builds a very one sided society that demands competition. It’s a terrible way to live and alienates people from each other.

Socialism (in my perspective as an anarchist) seeks to allow people to live their lives with the maximal amount of freedom, self determination, and autonomy possible. Whether that includes markets (which I’m assuming is what you mean by capitalism, since that’s what most people who defend capitalism think it is), planned economies, gift economies, library economies or something completely different, is a better system than capitalism on a foundational level

Rodeo,

Man I knew it was a bad idea to engage with the tankies.

Since you completely missed to part about capitalism being combined with socialism to take advantages away from the rich and give them to others, I’ll say it again: I’m talking about tightly regulated capitalism with strong socialist policies.

Your description of capitalism here is the furthest fucking thing from what I’m talking about.

Socialism (in my perspective as an anarchist) seeks to allow people to live their lives with the maximal amount of freedom, self determination, and autonomy possible.

That’s hilarious because that exactly what capitalists say about capitalism.

explodicle,

Why did you shift tone so suddenly? Their argument was reasonable.

Shyfer,

Woah you escalated that quickly. Breathe. You guys were having a reasonable discussion that was enjoyable for me to read until you pulled out the insults and curses for some reason.

OurToothbrush,

I’ll say it again: I’m talking about tightly regulated capitalism with strong socialist policies.

You cannot have private ownership of the means of production and also worker control of the means of production.

When you say capitalism with lots of socialism that is what we hear, and it is nonsensical.

BarrelAgedBoredom,

You’re calling me, an anarchist, a tankie? Do you even know what that word means? I know you read the part of my comment where I said I was an anarchist because you quoted it.

The combination of capitalism and socialism is called democratic socialism. It doesn’t work long term. The Nordic model is essentially democratic socialism put to practice and it’s gone well for the people in Nordic countries. They still suffer from capital strikes and other problems that are only going to get worse with time. These countries still rely on exploitation of people in the global south. Nestle is a swedish company with a terrible past. They have literally killed babies, use slave labor, and destroy ecosystems to extract wealth from poor countries. Spotify is another swedish company with a problematic track record. They’re not alone either. H&M, IKEA and Nokia have all had sketchy track records. Why do Nordic companies have so many things wrong with them if they’re companies founded in the “ideal” countries? Could it be because of inherent problems in capitalism? Nah! The system just needs tinkering, it’ll all work out don’t you worry!

I’ll concede, the social problems in these countries are much smaller than, say, the US. They have managed to increase the quality of life of their polity. It’s not perfect but it’s better than what we have and it will continue to be that way for a little while longer until capital is able to erode those collective benefits further to increase their bottom line. Which they have done and will continue to do. See Canada and the UK for an idea of what the nordic countries will eventually devolve into and then have a look at the US for something closer to the end goal.

That’s hilarious because that exactly what capitalists say about capitalism

Capitalists are right.Capitalists have freedom, autonomy, and self determination. Problem is, most of us aren’t capitalists and we don’t have access to the material resources wealth gives you access to. And it has to be that way. There are very few that the above terms apply to and the overwhelming majority of us are excluded from the benefits of capitalism. “Work or starve” is the status quo for a reason.

All of this isn’t even getting into the whole “infinite growth is impossible and it’s killing the planet” thing. Capitalism will literally be the death of us and no amount of reforms are going to stop it. Capitalism is predicated on the assumption that infinite growth is possible and necessary. There are so many destructive and inhumane aspects to the ideology that at some point, it will become obvious that it can’t be fixed. For a long time feudalism seemed like a perfectly good system that should be upheld. Sure there were problems, but it just needed to be tweaked. Do you know how that ended? Revolution.

Do you have anything substantive to say about the benefits of capitalism and democratic socialism or are you determined to have your head so far up your ass that polite criticism of the status quo makes you feel personally attacked? I didn’t miss anything about your comment and if you knew a bit more about the things you’re talking about you would see that. Instead of being a reactive anus for no good reason, why don’t you try to understand what I’m saying? It’s clear that you don’t. I’d be happy to leave some resources for you to read up a little if you’re interested in understanding what you’re defending and what you’re claiming to be against. Books, videos, articles, podcasts, just name your preferred method of media consumption and I’ll leave something for you

Jentu,

Ancom here and I fully agree with everything you said. Hopefully we’ll get to where we’re going one day, whatever methodology ends up working.

kureta,

then it’s no longer capitalism.

aew360,

What would it be to have a market economy with private investments and also a system that ensures the tax system ensures everyone has at least basic housing and access to vocational schools and higher education? I don’t want to completely upend the system but tweak it so Kevin Griffin cries himself to sleep at night

OurToothbrush, (edited )

Idealist. It would be easier and more viable to just have the means of production be owned and democratically managed by the proletariat than to share power in the long term with our exploiter without one side or the other losing.

explodicle,

FWIW I’m one of those people who would rather hear about Aztecs than today’s weather, so thank you.

MisterNeon,
@MisterNeon@lemmy.world avatar

Aztec fact of the day:

To punish some Altepetl (city states) for rebellion the Mexica would impose near impossible quotas on yearly tribute, such as white jaguar pelts.

deus,

Pre-Columbian American civilizations are incredibly interesting. It’s absurd how far they got without wheels, iron tools or animals like horses and cows. I guess I wouldn’t mind listening about the Aztecs constantly.

MisterNeon,
@MisterNeon@lemmy.world avatar

Mesoamerican fact of the day:

The wheel was actually known to Mesoamerica pre-European contact. Archeological finds included toys, food preparation tools, seal rollers, and spindle whorls for textile making.

I’m a history nerd and Mesoamerica is quality content.

porcariasagrada,

the dense tropical forest made backpacks way better for transportation of goods.

Jknaraa,

Their secret was murdering their children to win the favour of their gods.

MisterNeon,
@MisterNeon@lemmy.world avatar

For Tlaloc only ones born on lucky days.

PP_BOY_, in 𓇋𓇩𓋴𓆰𓏜𓄤𓆑𓂋𓏏 𓅨𓂋𓇓𓅱
@PP_BOY_@lemmy.world avatar

If someone tells me their wifi password is still the default password, I automatically think less of them

Gork,

This is why I change mine to something difficult to comprehend yet still legible.

Something like:

“FOURWORDSALLLOWERCASE”, one word, all uppercase.

NaturalViber,

wordswordswordswordsWORD

lapislazuli,

My man here is four parallel universes ahead of the hackers

lemmyman,

AI will never crack that one

Raiderkev,

I SAID IT’S FOURWORDSALLLOWERCASE BUT THEY’RE CAPITALIZED DUMBASS!

CaptainBlagbird,
@CaptainBlagbird@lemmy.world avatar

Ooh I mixed it up with the other one which is “My_name_in_camel_casE”

ArmoredThirteen,

My trick is to change it to something that I immediately forget then if I need to modify any settings I can do a factory reset to get back in. Works every time

ShortN0te,

Since manufacturers are getting more pushed into getting rid of default passwords and including random generated ones this is thankfully getting less and less of an issue.

devbo,

as a satilite software engineer. your just an asshole. smart and better protected, but thinking less of people due to something so silly makes you asshole.

saigot,

It’s one of those things that makes life for you and anyone using your wifi way easier and all it takes is 30s and a Google search if you aren’t the most tech literate. It’s like not putting your cart away at the grocery store, it’s not a big thing but it’s annoying and impolite.

FlyingSquid,
@FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

We live in a world where people get to Facebook by Googling Facebook. You expect way too much of people.

frezik,

You can leave the password blank. Though that does mean anyone driving by your house might have their phone or whatever automatically connect to it. A few devices also don’t seem to like blank passwords (I think the Wii refused to connect that way).

A simple password is fine. Keeps completely random people out, and devices will connect OK. Edge-based security is flawed, anyway.

R2DPru,

Sounds like SOMEone is still using the default wi-fi password.

devbo,

you would be wrong

PP_BOY_,
@PP_BOY_@lemmy.world avatar

*You’re

Edgarallenpwn,
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Love this exchange

nicholasio, in Got any suggestions?

Just do it.

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