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TimewornTraveler, in It's going

So it goes.

S_204, in Aaaaaand it's over

ITT a bunch of fucking losers claiming to have hearing problems and would rather be a dick in public than invest in proper headphones.

Note on the claim part, I don’t believe a fraction of the assholes here, just trying to justify their assholery. People with legitimate hearing issues tend to accept the support technology that’s readily available these days. I spend quite a bit of time around folks who are actually hard of hearing.

Dettweiler42, (edited )

Even if they do have hearing issues, a phone pressed against your ear will sound much louder with much greater clarity compared to the speaker mode.

sizzler,

You don’t get it and you lack empathy. Got it.

Underwaterbob,

Which may be the case, but being immediately dismissive like you are isn’t exactly going to get them on your side now, is it?

sizzler,

There is no side, it’s a fact and if you can’t have some empathy for people with hearing issue then what can I say to change your mind?!

Underwaterbob,

Well, the guy you are responding to is maybe only thinking of people whose hearing is diminished in some manner. Not people whose hearing is otherwise incapacitated through something like tinnitus or like the other poster in here who has auditory dyslexia. Both of whom may be inconvenienced by headphones or earbuds and have an easier time with speaker phone than those options. Maybe try to explain how you think they are being insensitive or lacking empathy rather than just accusing them of such without explanation.

sizzler,

I’ll accept that, well spoken.

OrteilGenou,

I know right? Like how hearing aids are designed to be held a foot and a half from the head. These people need to be more sensitive

sizzler,

You don’t get it and you lack empathy. It’s a pretty straight-forward statement. Don’t think I need to expand.

OrteilGenou,

K

Iapar,

No, you don’t get it and lack empathy.

noli,

No, you don’t get it and lack empathy.

P33Ka,

I have hearing problems

I bring headphones everywhere

S_204,

Of course you do. You’re not a raging prick.

Smoogs, (edited )

Add to that the amount of headphones out there that do help with various ear issues is growing and the prices are not that heavy.

They have bone conduction ear phones now that can be picked up online. Your skull can hear for you now. This is the same technology as what hearing aids use and you can just wire it up as headphones to your phone now

dragonflyteaparty,

They have bone conduction ear phones now that can be picked up online

Yo, that’s dope. As someone who is partially deaf, but mostly hears fine, I’m curious about this.

Smoogs,

Yeah I saw several variances available on Amazon just in the past week. Might be worth checking out or seeing how they rate

lordgoose,

I was just reading about these yesterday. They basically bypass your eardrum so they’re really good for people with hearing loss who still want to use headphones. Definitely check them out if you think they’ll work for you.

Hereforpron2,

When someone calls and I expect it to be 60 seconds or less, I don’t wanna go fumbling in my bag for 30 seconds to find the headphones and spend another 20 making sure they hook up to my phone properly.

Plus, idk about hearing issues, but I have epilepsy and my seizures increase when I have long calls with the phone against my face OR with TWS earbuds in, which can apparently (and not too uncommonly) be triggered by the type of radiation they put off, even though it’s at very low levels. But just 3 inches further from my face and no problems. I know that’s not why a lot of people do it, and I still try not to in public, but there are various reasons that someone might.

I am sure this will get downvoted to the lowest level of hell, but when it comes to people doing this without a medical reason/just based on preference, I also just don’t know why a minor annoyance triggers such major anger in others. If I’m on a train for an hour and someone is talking the whole time, that’s annoying no matter how they’re doing it. If I pass someone on speaker in the grocery store, I don’t really let that 12 seconds affect the rest of my day, certainly not enough to harbor such hot feelings about it.

S_204,

You could have just swapped your first few lines for ’ I’m selfish and don’t care about others’.

Hereforpron2,

Sure, but I’d honestly also rather hear both sides of a stranger’s conversation than just one. Doesn’t feel better to me to be talking just as loud on the phone but have it against your ear than a few inches away

S_204,

See my original reply. It applies to this comment as well.

Starkstruck, in Watch out, he's a pro.

How to win any debate, just yell “NUH UH!” to anything your opponent says.

The_Picard_Maneuver,
@The_Picard_Maneuver@startrek.website avatar

Bonus for also plugging your ears and closing your eyes.

somePotato,

LALALALALALALALALALALAA I CAN’T HEAR YOU THEREFORE YOU CAN’T DISPROVE MY ARGUMENT LALALALALALAALALALALALA

Gradually_Adjusting, in Watch out, he's a pro.
@Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world avatar

Hitchen’s razor + put a shirt on

nxdefiant, (edited )

Also that guy should drink some water, he’s definitely dehydrated. Maybe he didn’t elaborate because he passed out.

Siethron, in It's going

The most traumatic situation of your entire life… so far

Kusimulkku, in Shut. The fuck. Up.

Could be that they think they missed something

grayman,

Like from yapping? Shut up and watch the movie.

Kusimulkku,

No just sometimes people don’t catch everything or don’t figure things out as quickly as others

0ops,

That’s what rewatching is for

Kusimulkku,

Jesus

lemann, in This is for (almost) all of you

No, Fight meeee 🤪

EternalNicodemus,
@EternalNicodemus@lemmy.world avatar

308 Negra Arroyo Lane Albuquerque New Mexico 87104 😎😎😎

dustyData, in Hopefully we find something

Unrelated, this meme always reminds me of the story of that one drug addict who stole a friend’s phone to sell it to buy drugs. And when the friend in distress tells them they lost their phone, they help him look for it. It’s hilarious and sad at the same time.

spj, in Hopefully we find something
notTheCat, in This is for (almost) all of you

PFPs are bloat

the16bitgamer, (edited ) in Aaaaaand it's over
@the16bitgamer@lemmy.world avatar

Wow I almost feel singled out by this. But I presume that this is supposed to be in public. Which by every account is a dick move.

However I do this in private, I.e. in my car or at home. And the reason I do it is because I can’t hear a call without using the speaker phone. Hearing issues aren’t fun.

However the easier solution is headphones, but calls over Bluetooth can make things worse, from battery life to sound quality.

Wired headphones are the preferable solution to this but we all know what happened to those.

TL:DR I do this because of my hearing issues. In public this is a dick move, but headphones aren’t the solution they use to be.

Smoogs, (edited )

but headphones aren’t the solution they use to be.

Not true. There’s air conduction, bone conduction(which is the same technology for people who actually do experience hearing loss), wired, non wired, in ear, over ear, on ear, noise cancelling and these are not that expensive that you can get it online so it’s super accessible.

It’s not the early 2000s anymore where you only get buds or on ear or whatever apple bullshit comes with your phone.

Same,

People don’t have their headphones turned on and in easy reach at all times. If you’re doing this in a private space, who cares?

Smoogs, (edited )

I don’t. I’m responding to the argument that headphones are not what they used to be. that is incorrect. There is more selection and varying types should one be selecting a pair.

the16bitgamer,
@the16bitgamer@lemmy.world avatar

Agreed, though sadly this doesn’t apply to me. Hearing issues doesn’t always mean hearing loss. I have Auditory Processing Disorder or Auditory Dyslexia means my hearing is good, but I don’t always understand what people are saying.

Speaker phone makes it easier for me to understand what the other person is saying. But again its a dick move to use it in public.

Evil_incarnate,

Is that what it’s called when other noise makes you not understand what people are saying?

the16bitgamer,
@the16bitgamer@lemmy.world avatar

Pretty much. The inability to filter voices from other noises. Not fun when you are on a bus and the engine is the only thing you can make out

Evil_incarnate,

And why I avoid noisy bars and stuff. I noticed once during the fire drill at work, we were all standing outside and the loud alarm was beeping like a truck backing up and the whole time I couldn’t make out what people were saying. I could hear the noises coming from their mouths, but couldn’t understand a thing.

Alarm stopped and I could understand them fine.

phillaholic,

Is it the Dichotic listening part? Airpod Pros might do wonders.

the16bitgamer,
@the16bitgamer@lemmy.world avatar

I have noise cancelling Sony earbuds for a while now. At this point I’ve just gotten use to how people talk, and guessing at what they said and I missed.

Smoogs,

What happened when you tried the bone conducting type? What we’re your findings with this one?

the16bitgamer,
@the16bitgamer@lemmy.world avatar

I didn’t try those yet. I presume it wouldn’t be helpful since I need noise isolation and blocking. Not sure if they do that

Qwaffle_waffle, (edited )

I feel this too with the hearing issues, but I have moved away to texting rather than calls mostly. Social took a hit, but I’m still here anyways.

the16bitgamer,
@the16bitgamer@lemmy.world avatar

Yup, texting is my go to for most of the time. However I want to catch up, I usually arrange a call.

phillaholic,

Are you over 35? If a friend calls me on the phone something bad’s happened.

callyral, (edited )
@callyral@pawb.social avatar

Wired headphones are the preferable solution to this but we all know what happened to those.

What happened? I use wired headphones, haven’t had any problems recently.

the16bitgamer,
@the16bitgamer@lemmy.world avatar

iPhone, iPad, and most Samsungs don’t have a 3.5mm headphone jack.

callyral,
@callyral@pawb.social avatar

Ohhh, I completely forgot iPhones no longer had those. Thanks for the reminder, I’ll remember to check for a headphone jack before buying a new phone.

the16bitgamer,
@the16bitgamer@lemmy.world avatar

The new iphones now have USB c so it’s not as bad as it use to be, since USB c dongles can be cross device compatible. But yeah it suuucks.

tpyo,

It’s not a mandatory feature for me personally, but I absolutely prefer having an actual headphone jack and die a little inside when a new phone doesn’t

You can “get around” that by using a usb c to 3.5mm audio adaptor, or a y adaptor that’s a 3.5mm audio and another USBC to allow for charging at the same time

Thermal_shocked, (edited ) in Aaaaaand it's over

The mic is at the bottom… And there is usually a speaker there too, makes total sense if not bothering those around you.

Dragon_dick_99,

My phone’s mic is at the top.

Thermal_shocked, (edited )

What phone? I’m still on an S9 and mic and speaker are on the bottom.

kamen, in Shut. The fuck. Up.

Maybe they got something that you missed. I often miss details like that.

chicken, in Shut. The fuck. Up.

I never got the point of watching a movie with someone if you’re both just totally silent and not interacting the whole time. Then at the end it’s like “what did you think of the movie” “it was ok” “yeah”

2 hours wasted

latesleeper,

More like be relatively silent and the occasional comment during and most conversation afterwards. Easily an hour’s worth if it was a good movie.

chicken,

I guess that makes sense if you’re watching movies with people who have a lot of thoughts about movies, I’ve never watched a movie with someone who had more than ten second’s worth of things to say about it afterwards though.

Kusimulkku,

Same. I didn’t come over to just watch a movie in silence, I wanted to hangout with you lol

jimbo,

Why do people enjoy shared experiences? Such mystery.

nucleative, in Shut. The fuck. Up.

In this meme, is the cool looking guy you or him?

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