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scytale, in What free things online should everyone take advantage of?

If you’re in the US, you can sign up for Informed Delivery with USPS so you know when to expect incoming important mail. This can help if mail theft is common in your area.

ApathyTree,
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It also helps if you are too lazy to bundle up to go outside to check when it’s cold as nuts, but are waiting for something specific. 😁

And if you just never check your mail (I get almost exclusively junk mail, so I check it every week or two. All my bills are autopay, and all communications are paperless when possible).

wesker, in What physical features do you find attractive on a person that would be considered unattractive by your culture's beauty standards?
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I like snaggle teeth and overbites. Bump on nose bridge can be attractive. Five-heads aren’t a bad thing. Honestly, probably a lot of things.

kamenlady,
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There are so many sexy nose bridge bumps being eliminated by cosmetic surgery. It’s really a “one beauty standard” going around the world and the amount of people getting their looks “corrected” is insane.

So many people erase the one special characteristic that made them interesting. Be it the nose, that was too big or the face too round.

usualsuspect191,

Yes on the teeth! Sometimes people’s teeth are just so perfect and straight that they loose all personality and character. It’s like how plastic surgery can leave people looking “good” but in a generic way that’s worse

Bennettiquette, in What physical features do you find attractive on a person that would be considered unattractive by your culture's beauty standards?

i tend to be attracted to people who are not driven by the compulsion to prove themselves. to people who know their worth is not defined by what they produce. and especially to people who are happy and content with what they already have. balance is key.

alas.

JusticeForPorygon,
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Fellow American?

Bennettiquette,

regrettably.

PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S, in What experience crushed your soul?
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Applying for over 300 jobs in my field and getting zero offers, and getting scammed by the one “job” that ever gave me an “offer.”

JUST_LET_ME_FAP,
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Hi are you me right now?!

watson387, in What physical features do you find attractive on a person that would be considered unattractive by your culture's beauty standards?
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Small/average sized breasts.

shalafi,

Average is too big for me. Flat as a board please.

Mammothmothman,

Huge breasts dont do it for me. Especially the helium baloon implants.

seathru, in What can the US do to help Mexico finally stop the cartels?

Legalize all the drugs. Stop providing them a market.

BobGnarley,

They would rather the addicts all die from Fentanyl laced bullshit than do that. They make way too much money with it being illegal

AbsurdityAccelerator,

Including stuff like fentanyl and tranq and allow anybody to buy it?

afraid_of_zombies,

I don’t support that. I support a FDA regulated opiod pill that has known dosages. It will get you high and if you OD posion control knows exactly what to do. Even forgetting about human dignity for a moment, it will save us all money to do it this way. If someone really wants to spend the next 18 hours of their life on a couch zonked out they should it do safely.

The pill will be in certain stores, on the outskirts of town. It will be taxed. You will have to sit through a video on exactly how you are to use it safely. You can camp out in a safe usage site and have a locker for your keys. At least in my ideal version of it.

As expensive as this all is it is nothing compared to what we have now.

seathru,

Yes. The same as alcohol.

TWeaK,

No. Regulate and offer known recreational drugs pure.

Very few people take fentanyl on its own or intentionally. Even tranq (which I hadn’t heard of but just looked up) is primarily harmful because it’s often tainted with fentanyl or other potent yet potentially fatal additives. Fentanyl does not need to be legally sold, because there is no real market for it.

Hell, even fucking weed is tainted, primarily with silica-based desccants, in countries where it’s still illegal (cough UK cough).

However if people could get pure, laboratory tested recreational drugs then these issues could disappear overnight. Heroin is bad when you fall deep into addiction, but most heroin users wouldn’t get into that state if they could take the drug legally without taboo or victimisation of illicit dealers. 100 years ago opium dens were a thing, and there were some people deep in the poppy - but there were also people just as deep in their alcohol suffering worse. Alcohol is less of a problem today, and back in the 90s there was a study funded by DARE (and subsequently unpublished because they didn’t like the results) that determined most heroin users were in fact business men and women earning large salaries with enough income to support their habit with high quality product.

Just like digital piracy is a service problem, drug addiction is a societal mental health problem, and criminalising it only allows the problem to fester to extremes.


Decriminalise possession, keep supply of the most fatally harmful drugs illegal, legitimise and tax known recreational drugs.

j4k3,
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I’d argue to legalize everything including the extremes and price the extremes to barely undercut and drive out any illicit market. It is always better to have control over a legitimate market than it is to have a black market. There is no way to regulate demand and creating market choke points is totally ineffective. So use state run capitalism to make the market uncompetitive and drive out any competition to gain full control. The State as the dealer makes more sense than the State playing wack-a-mole in the middle.

TWeaK,

I dunno, I think it’s more complicated than that. First off, there are some things that should be prohibited - it’s illegal to privately own nuclear weapons, for the most extreme example. Second, many of these truly harmful drugs have tiny markets, and these markets are in fact propped up by other, more conventional drugs being illegal. If heroin were legal, very few if any people would even consider fentanyl, such that fentanyl could be prohibited entirely without having an out of control illegal market.

In some sense, though, we do already have a controlled legitimate market for these prohibited things. Even cannabis, even during the prohibition, had some legal purchase avenues for the purpose of research. Even nuclear, that’s manufactured by private businesses with permission from the government. That works for the vast majority of drugs, it only fails with popular, relatively low harm recreational drugs where the law just isn’t reasonable against the potential harm.

novibe,

But if you legalise all drugs, as you say, no one will want to use shit like fent at all. Fent was legal for decades, it’s older than most opioids. It wasn’t an issue until the crackdown on pills.

TWeaK,

I think possession of any drug should be legal. However, the intent behind its use can still be illegal. If you have fentanyl and can demonstrate you only have it for some genuine use, and aren’t looking to cause harm with it, then that shouldn’t be a problem. Supplying fentanyl is much more likely to be a harmful circumstance, and its supply should be controlled.

novibe,

Imo spending the effort to educate people instead of cracking down on sellers or producers makes much more sense.

In a world with clean accessible morphine, no drug user will seek our fentanyl, no matter how easy it is to find.

militaryintelligence,

No one wants that crap. When I did drugs I wanted pain pills but they kept cracking down, so here we are with worse stuff.

djsoren19,

Here’s the thing - most people aren’t actually interested in trying hard drugs. The people who are, will probably obtain them irregardless of legality. Given that, what is the harm in mass legalization? It keeps money out of the cartels and back into the community via taxation; it ensures the drug is pure and safe to consume with no additives; and for the individuals who afterward decide it is not for them, they can get the help that they need without worrying.

Cheers,

I’d imagine some sort of NIST to maintain a standard would make it more expensive, which would result in people looking for their local dealers again.

Altofaltception,

Exactly this. When Portugal decriminalized drugs, they saw a decrease in usage-related deaths, drug crimes, and an increase in rehabilitation. Overall, there has been a decline in drug use as a result.

BobGnarley,

Dont you love how every country in the world just acts like this didnt happen (and still is very successfully)?

NightAuthor,

But you have to put the money into the treatment. Oregon isn’t quite doing that yet, and the lag between legalizing the drugs and actually increasing services has been pretty bad for everyone involved.

Hopefully we get it straightened out in the next year or two.

intensely_human,

Predictable dosing will save lives from overdoses.

Lemminary,

Just a reminder that, while drugs are the cartels’ biggest income, it’s not the only one. They’ll just move onto produce and other goods like avocados and lemons. This was news years ago but I’m not at the computer to link.

afraid_of_zombies,

In that case subsidize the techniques to grow that stuff domestically.

Lemminary,

They’re displacing and controlling domestic farming operations. It’s the reason why lemons and avocados shot up in price a few years ago despite there not being a shortage. They essentially monopolized the entire industry across the northern half of the country and would squeeze newcomers out via intimidation and other mob tactics. At least, that’s what my family tells me who used to have a lemon processing factory.

afraid_of_zombies,

Right so break it. Every monopoly has fallen eventually this will just be another one. We have all this tech and smart people and we can’t figure out how to grow a lemon?

Think of how many tens of billions of dollars of damage are caused by the cartels and how little it would take to make Florida the chief lemon producer. Much like OPEC the only way they could stay operational is by lowering their prices, with lower prices they are less successful at getting recruits and maintaining them. Who wants to work harder and harder for less money?

Lemminary, (edited )

These are cartels, dude. They have people infiltrating the government and policemen who have been threatened to death to comply or die. Corruption is rampant at very top levels of government and part of it is fueled by the US itself, directly and indirectly. We’ve been waging a war against them for for decades and you know what they do when the local government “oversteps”? They go on shooting sprees downtown killing anyone in sight and go decapitate politicians so they can hang their heads off bridges. It’s brutal. This is not the USA.

There are so many things I’m not even touching that have happened in the past decade that make this so much more complicated than it seems. They can easily rile up a month-long standoff with authorities, as they did in Michoacán vs the local government and then the military. They’re well-coordinated and they have modern equipment, warehouses, free labor in the form of slaves, an underground network, connections to people in high places, and anything you could ask for to avoid the law. It’s quite insane.

Just to paint you a picture, a local government kidnapped and murdered 43 students who dared protest in 2014 with the help of the cartels in a top-down operation, and where 26 more people were murdered who dared investigate. That’s the level of shit we’re up against.

intensely_human,

Good. Let them justify their private armies to the accountants when police protection for legal operations is free.

Lemminary, (edited )

Yeah, that’s why they do end up legitimizing after some time for some of these reasons. lol So maybe it’s a good thing in the grand scheme of things, even if it’s kind of shitty for the people who played fair to get to where the others got for free.

joyjoy,

You say that as if illegal operations is a valid justification (to the law) for having a private army.

morphballganon, in Which carbonated soft drink is the best?

I’ve been into vanilla coke zero sugar for a while now.

Sprite zero sugar if you want no caffeine.

Both work well with alcohol. Bourbon or spiced rum with the coke. Vodka with the sprite.

slingstone,

On those funky Coke machines in some restaurants, there was an option to get Raspberry Coke Zero for a long time. I grew to love it. Now it looks like they’re taking it away in most places.

hperrin, in What physical features do you find attractive on a person that would be considered unattractive by your culture's beauty standards?

Having a penis. Though, it’s only the conservatives who consider that unattractive, and based on how popular that kind of porn is in the deep south, they’re lying about it anyway.

mysoulishome,
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I mean they love Trump and he’s a giant dick

LopensLeftArm, in What do you think of sports analysts ?
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pimento64,

“DAE le hate it when ur le fundy dad watches le sports ball???”

Back to reddit

afraid_of_zombies,

What are you on about?

Montagge, in What experience crushed your soul?
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Realizing that all of the patriotic stuff I was fed as a child was bullshit, and realizing what I had actually become a part of by joining the US Army.

radix,
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I’m so sorry. Hope you’re out now, or soon.

Montagge,
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I've been out for almost 20 years, but thanks!

MrEff, (edited )

Me and my brother both joined the army at slightly different times. We both did a tour in Afghanistan that overlapped and were just one province away from each other. I did a second tour over there and he got out.

We both came from a VERY conservative family. It was after serving that we both became suuuuper liberal. It was like the wool being pulled out from out eyes when we joined the army and saw how much of a lie it all was. Oddly enough, this is a semi common story for conservative people joining the military.

We grew up with our dad working in the military-industrial-complex and he would make fun of the liberals who called out the military for serving the MIC companies, and how it Iraq was a war for profit. Then we serve and see it first had with all the contractors, the needless equipment, the contracts for new tech that wasn’t needed, and all the other money sinks going into it. It was all a lie.

We grew up being told how bad universal healthcare would be, but then had it in the military and saw how amazing it was.

We were told that if people didn’t have a personal motivation through debt and loans to make them work harder, then people going through college would have no motivation to improve their lives. And yet here I am with the GI bill. (Granted, I still have 70k in student loans. The GI bill is kind of a lie in its self).

Everything that was a conservative talking point was exposed as a lie after joining army.

Montagge,
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Very similar background for myself minus a family working for the MIC. Did two tours in Iraq. Went in a Christian conservative and came out the complete opposite. Wish I had the wits about me to figure it out a better way.

afraid_of_zombies,

Everything that was a conservative talking point was exposed as a lie after joining army.

I have definitely gotten more leftwing as I have aged. My family was the same militant Christianity. Nothing as impressive as what you did, more of just seeing the ideas I was taught not working.

Mostly_Harmless, in What experience crushed your soul?

Nothing. Anything that happens to me happens for my benefit, even if I can’t see it at that time.

afraid_of_zombies,

Are you familiar with the term “post-hoc rationalization”?

Smoogs,

Ah so you’re the one running around scamming everyone commenting in this post

neidu2, in What free things online should everyone take advantage of?

If piracy counts: Piracy.

cll7793,

In the words of Ubisoft we need to feel “comfortable with not owning your game”. If buying is not owning then piracy is not stealing.

Got any recommended resources for piracy sites/lists?

KpntAutismus, (edited )

i’ve been told these are the ones to stay far awy from ;)

fmhy.net/videopiracyguide/

rentry.co/megathread

sbv, in What movies would you make if you had an AGI that could make any kind of media on demand?

More dark fantasy. Like Game of Thrones, but with a touch more magic.

Obi,
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I want non-dark fantasy, less “we have to save the world from the big bad guy” and more “here are the little every day things that come with being an elf/dwarf/hobbit/whatever”.

sbv,

bring on the AI

simple, in What free things online should everyone take advantage of?

Open Library allows you to digitally borrow a ton of books for free. It’s not the greatest experience since the books they own are scanned and not digital copies, but it’s good enough, and their catalogue is not half bad.

Lifecoach5000,

Why would you need to borrow and return in this scenario?

simple,

Just legality. These are paid books that they can’t give away for free, but acting as a library they can let you borrow them, read them, and “return” them.

In practice you’ll rarely feel this system because you can just re-borrow it whenever you want to read it.

TWeaK,

Just legality.

The legality was only ever a grey area. Their days may be numbered, however. During the lockdowns they removed the one physical copy per digital copy lent, and as a result of that they got sued. Instead of settling out of court they drummed up donations to a legal fund and lost hard, and during the trial a judge ruled that their practice was illegal. In my opinion, they should have done everything they could have to settle out of court, rather than try and build a frivilous defense that had no grounding in law.

Right now, they’re appealing it, so I guess that’s why it’s still up. However it looks like their strategy isn’t any better now than it was then.

But hey, their laywer’s getting paid.

200ok, in If you had to restart your job at your current employer, what would you do differently?

I would not mention as much of my personal life as I did.

People are going to make decisions based on more than just merit.

It might not be fair, done consciously, or with malice, but it happens.

Riven,
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Yep, the only thing I’ve let slip is that I volunteer at a non profit.

lars,

How does it feel like that has worked against you? [How could anyone possibly weaponize this [unless the non-profit is like Burning War-Orphan Flags and War-Orphans of America or something]?].

Riven,
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There’s a certain voting population that sees even that as weakness. I’m sure you can figure that one out.

lars,

If it’s not the supporters of the Killary Klinton Krime family then I don’t even want to know. (Thank you for volunteering—it’s rad!).

Darkassassin07,
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I was going to write very much the same thing.

I’ve given too much information about my health, and now it gets used against me.

Your employer, managers, supervisors; they’re not you’re friends. You can and should remain friendly to an extent, but be careful what information you give away.

200ok,

I like that… “Remain friendly, but remember they’re not your friends”.

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