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morrowind, (edited ) in ironic
@morrowind@lemmy.ml avatar

The very idea of “nothing to hide” is born from fear.

https://lemmy.ml/pictrs/image/a037ffb6-07cd-4a72-88e3-d2b5852f3a58.png

It’s fundamentally a self-sabotaging philosophy. If I have nothing to hide, why do I need to be surveilled?

edit: source

edit2: see true source below if you have access or are willing to pay/pirate

grue,
LemmyKnowsBest,

yeah kind of like how even on Reddit we have to think twice before saying what’s REALLY on our minds

DragonTypeWyvern,

Some more than others.

ThatWeirdGuy1001, (edited )
@ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world avatar

I got permabanned once for telling someone to crawl into a hole.

I got permabanned a second time and fully quit reddit after bringing up the double standards of infant genital mutilation practices.

TenderfootGungi, in Do you feel the trickle yet?

Trickle down is a political term. Economists know that wealth trickles up. It is only moved back down with taxes. Non-economists have a saying for this, “the rich get richer”. Economists have a formula for this: r > g

SlopppyEngineer,

High capacity pump up, and a trickle down.

Nerorero,
@Nerorero@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Pickle down Rickonomics

oce, (edited )
@oce@jlai.lu avatar

And inheritance is one of the biggest source of inequalities hence why Piketty proposes a massive tax on inheritance to be redistributed equally as a universel basic inheritance to young people. There are hard core scientific papers behind it but this is a popularized article I have found: goodmenproject.com/…/fairer-taxes-and-inheritance…. Problem is inheritance is an extremely touchy topic, most people have the deeply rooted instinct to give everything to there children and can’t think rationally about it.

Annoyed_Crabby, in How could the EU do this??

Ohh no how can they not include me in their plan after i burn the bridges with them

jewbacca117,

Oh no, the consequences of my own actions!

RizzRustbolt,

Why won’t the EU help me fix all these burnt bridges?

Zevlen,

'Merica ; " why won’t EU take care of our homeless population and adopt them / refugee them to EU? I mean… We gave them like military bases n guns n shit… come on !

Zevlen,

Dude, who cares about Australia n Britain being left out?.. They left my mighty 'Merica out of the picture! 😔🖼️ SMH

agitatedpotato, in It's cheaper is what it is

Therapy doesn’t fix any of the most pressing issues I have. I’d wager about 85% or more of my stress is economic or environmental in nature. My big three worries are how am I gonna afford a house by myself, how am i going to be able to retire on little money and without kids, and is the envrioment going to lose the ability to sustain human life while I’m still alive and on nothing more than a fixed income.

I don’t need to journal my thoughts and pretend the outside world doesn’t exist, I need some damn material security in my life.

Ookami38,

The thing therapy has helped me with in regards to that is feeling okay despite it all. Being content despite not having all of our wants and needs fulfilled is a valuable skill.

agitatedpotato,

Being content despite not having needs met feels like a skill thats more valuable to my boss than me. Nah im gonna get my needs met.

lurker2718,

I understand your point, and I also think a bit in this direction. But i think there may be two counterpoints.

First you beeing depressed over the status and worrying at home and online about it, is not really helping your or doing anything against your boss.

Second, as i understand it, the goal is not to get really content, but to get more control over your feelings. It is perfectly fine if zou feel sad or angry over the situation. It shows you what you want or do not want. But this doesn’t need to control your life. If you have the possibility you should definitely use your anger to give you energy for the fight for better working conditions. But if you can not, you should your feelings taking complete control over you

Ookami38,

There’s only so much that can be done to meet one’s needs. There will always be wants and needs that go unfulfilled, it’s just the nature of being human. Being able to exist with that, without it causing you extreme distress, is a very valuable coping skill that’s lost in a lot of people.

This doesn’t mean eschew meeting your needs completely, but simply acknowledging that some may be actually impossible to fulfill right now, at least safely, and working on an actual viable plan, instead of panicking and doing whatever short-term fix seems handy.

tmyakal,

There will always be wants and needs that go unfulfilled

That’s not what ‘needs’ means.

agitatedpotato, (edited )

Im glad working on a viable plan and panicking are mutally exclusive for you, but they’re not for me. This is why my therapist started suggesting I simply stop paying attention to everything outside of my immediate daily view. My brain also failed to make itself happy through that kind of ignorance. Not to mention I couldn’t simply make that information unexists from my day to day social interactions. I was encountering at work what my therapist told me to avoid and since it was word of mouth it was less reliable than if I had just read it myself.

Actual doctors have tried, years have been spent and by the time I stopepd going id been going on about a year of weekly visits where I was no longer being taught anything new, simply checking in and making sure I was doing all the things I already learned. Copays were eating away at my actionable steps to fix the other problems in my life and I was no longer learning anything new or noticing positive behavioral change.

Ookami38,

Sounds like a therapist that just didn’t mesh with you. If they’re just doing routine maintenance and not suggesting ways to improve either they’re not suited to your situation, or there’s something else confounding the situation.

You don’t have to completely put on blinders to be content despite being without. You can see all of the things you’re missing, or actively working towards but not at yet, and not be thrust into the middle of an emotional response. This is simply the point of my statement.

Promethiel,
@Promethiel@lemmy.world avatar

I want to commend you for what you’re doing. It doesn’t feel good, but you must remain effective. You can’t re-align schemas through Internet comments however, don’t burn yourself out.

Ookami38, (edited )

Hey, man, thanks for the kind words! I enjoy these kinds of conversations, I like to think I’m working towards making the world a better place, no matter how small. If one person resonates with what I’ve said, I feel accomplished.

lurker2718,

I want to thank you for your messages here. I agree with promethil that you need to consoder yourself, i think texts like yours can do quite something good. Sure you won’t heal someone with a few messages. However, I was brought to a mindfulness training* mostly by a reddit chain of comments and this helped me, along other things, a lot, getting out of difficult times.

*An app called “Mindfulness Coach” by the US Department of Veterans Affairs

Ookami38,

Thanks for your message! I’ll take a look at that app, for sure. I’m leaps further than I was, but not where I’d like to be. Hope you have an excellent day, friend!

agitatedpotato, (edited )

Ive been to multiple therapists, usually I switch when I get to the maintainace phase, except the last time when I just decided to save the money all together. This isn’t something that happend in isolation, and like I said last comment literal doctors have also intervened in some of these areangements. Please stop acting like you posses some truth I have yet to find. ‘Emotional response’ or not, having needs going unmet causes mental and physical duress and side effects, necessarily. No matter how happy you pretend to be about it.

Ookami38,

I never said they didn’t. And I never said you have to be happy in the face of it. There’s a distinct difference between “content”, the word i used, and “happy”, the word you seem to hear.

Society fuckin sucks for the majority of people, I think we can all agree on that bit. And yet, a lot of people manage contentedness despite these absolute facts.

There exist things outside of our ability to control, directly or otherwise. Often, these things get in the way of our needs. You have 3 options in this case. Give up, ram into it with everything you have and fuckin hope it works, or accept it and find a way to be content despite the roadblocks.

agitatedpotato, (edited )

Yes and I’m telling you I’ve spent years going to professionals trying to feel ‘content’ and it doesn’t really change shit. Either you can swallow it and smile or you’re gonna gag. Therapy didn’t move the needle nearly as much as investing in the knowledge and infrastructure to remove myself from the problem, which is property and small scale farming. Notice how the only thing standing in my way is means, means I was slowly giving an insurance company who took more than their fair share from my doctor or therapist to tell me to try and smile about it instead. Therein lies my point, therapy solves my bosses problems not mine, it’s a distraction from mine. You’re mileage may vary, but like I said way up top, therapy can’t solve every problem. Hell therapy can’t solve the same problem for every person either with how wildly different peoples brains are even on a chemical level. Sometimes it works, other times it doesn’t. Like every other medical treatment.

spacecowboy,

Thanks for your anecdote. We get it. You don’t care for therapy. Conversation over, moving on.

Ookami38, (edited )

I’m sorry that therapy hasn’t worked out for you. I do acknowledge that not every kind of therapy works for every person, or for every problem. I only truly made progress when I found a very specific type of therapy that resonated for me, doing a lot of that journey on my own, and finally bringing it into a therapist office when I reached the end of what I could do alone.

I hope your life path has you moving towards something you consider better, however that looks for you.

ThatWeirdGuy1001,
@ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world avatar

Yeah that mentality is exactly why things are as bad as they are

Ookami38,

What part of that mentality, exactly? Break it down for me.

ThatWeirdGuy1001,
@ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world avatar

Being content despite all of it.

We shouldn’t be striving to be “content” we should be livid, pissed, terrified, motivated.

Being content while the world is falling apart is madness and the more people that are “content” means more people unwilling to actually make the changes necessary to fix the problems we have.

Apathy is death.

Ookami38,

“content” doesn’t preclude any of that.

“Content” simply means you feel as if you could live life with what you have. It doesn’t mean you can’t WANT more. It doesn’t mean you can’t hate how badly the system is bending you and others over. It’s simply a state of being that is, “at the end of the day, none of this is unbearable. I will continue living, and as such, there’s no need for an extreme emotional response.”

Drive, desire, fight… all of it can exist, and you can still maintain contentedness.

ThatWeirdGuy1001,
@ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world avatar

there’s no need for an extreme emotional response.

That’s the part I’m having issues with. There’s very much a need for extreme emotional response.

Idk clearly I’m not picking up what you’re putting down and I apologize for seeming so hostile. I’m just at the point of wanting to commit acts of terror because the people in charge are making protest illegal.

I just don’t see how that’s any different from “it is what it is” in the first place.

Ookami38,

Man, I get it. I’m at that point, too. In a lot of ways society has failed all of us.

Society is also a large vessel that takes lifetimes to change. Essentially, the kind of thing one man can do barely anything about. Not that we shouldn’t try, but… Well, to quote Stephen King, “pray for water, but dig a well while you wait.”

I think the best way to describe it is, if I feel content, it’s a sense of stability within myself - a sense that I’m grounded, and going to get through. Some of my needs right now are going under-fulfilled, but that won’t be eternal. I’m uncomfortable now, but discomfort doesn’t mean I’m in a situation where I should panic and start grasping at the first possible way to fulfill my needs. Instead, I can be comfortable in my discomfort, think about what my needs actually are, and create a plan to fulfill those needs in a more healthy and sustainable manner.

agent_flounder,
@agent_flounder@lemmy.world avatar

UK? Yeah that shit is scary. I am gobsmacked they’re pulling that authoritarian crap.

I’m probably full of shit but here is what I’m thinking. Some things like employers not paying enough and treating employees like shit in various ways-- that is depressing if we are totally helpless. If we can form unions and protest in effective ways, that actually get some reforms going, then it feels like maybe there is some hope.

Content isn’t the right response. Neither is giving up in despair. Being able to channel anger and frustration productively seems lots better.

If you’re lonely for a bit, or some things aren’t going great you can learn to live with that, for now while also working on fixing what you can. Spinning your wheels fretting and self-pitying doesn’t help but taking action does.

Some things will always be outside of my control.

It is probably best to find a way to accept those things. Rather than stewing about them. Because all that does is make me feel worse.

Ookami38,

I think you pretty well nailed my view of contentedness with your paragraph starting “if you’re lonely…”. That’s pretty much how I see it. It’s a state of being okay, despite some needs not being met in the moment. Tend to urgent needs, be ok with some less urgent ones sitting for a bit, accept things you have no control over, and work towards bettering your position overall, instead of sitting and wallowing in the self-pity mire.

lurker2718, (edited )

I think I understand you. I also think there are needs for extreme emotional response. However, I would be interested how often they helped you in, and how often the only effect of these was making you feeling worse?

I did some therapy in this direction. And I am generally more content. I can enjoy way more time of my life than a year ago, even in similar situations.
But if we talk about the status of the world, I am at least as angry and sad as before. And I also do at least as much to change it as before. Which, to be honest, is not as much as I would like.

Edit: I think I can actually experience emotions more intense now, while not being overwhelmed by them.

lightnsfw,

What did they teach you to do to be okay with it?

Ookami38, (edited )

Feelings of extreme loneliness. Accepting that, despite having a very real need (community, belonging, connection) not being met at the moment doesn’t mean that it ever will be, and I can actually be okay being uncomfortable, but still content.

agent_flounder,
@agent_flounder@lemmy.world avatar

I think it is worth pointing out that while therapy can certainly help you manage stress better and be more content maybe, if you are truly struggling and falling further behind here in the US, no amount of therapy (which you can’t afford anyway) is going to make you stop being hungry, sleep deprived, heal severe injury or illness, or give your home back. And going without food, sleep, or housing can lead to death.

Ookami38,

Those items are a bit trickier for sure. There’s a biological need for them and so they can be pressing. There’s a certain bare minimum that yeah, you can’t just not have. Anything past that, though, past the absolute critical for life level, is something you can learn to be content with, learn to not desire more than, and instead just be thankful for the excess above starvation that you enjoy in this moment.

archon,

Or in other words, “it is what it is”.

Ookami38,

It is what it is, with more steps, some emotional processing, and some self-analysis to find out why it being what it is is so annoying to you, maybe.

Jarix,

If you are content without a need being filled, it does not fit my description of need.

So again you are saying it is what it is

Ookami38,

You have needs that go unfulfilled all the time. You’ve never been hungry without any immediate food? Part of being content is being able to go without needs for a certain period of time, being safe in knowing that it ISN’T going to be forever.

This, of course, doesn’t mean you can forego every need forever. Yeah, being without food or water too long can and will kill you, but that doesn’t mean you have to have that need 100% met 100% of the time.

Of note, I’m not saying that people just shouldn’t eat. That’s the kind of need that we as a society should have figured out by now, truly. But going without SOMETIMES okay, and learning that is huge.

gndagreborn,
@gndagreborn@lemmy.world avatar

That last thought is Maslow’s hierarchy in action.

agitatedpotato,

True. It’s also a good formula for PTSD. When your traumas have to take a back seat to material needs, disorders develop.

agent_flounder,
@agent_flounder@lemmy.world avatar

What if your needs take a back seat to your trauma? That can’t be good either.

agitatedpotato,

Once you’re aware of the phenom it’s a balance act, but you’re ‘balancing’ what you can afford to deprive yourself of depending on the circumstances.

agent_flounder,
@agent_flounder@lemmy.world avatar

That makes a lot of sense, thanks.

JaymesRS, in Presidential fitness test

Speaking of crazy things in US PE classes, if you learned to Square Dance, it was because Henry Ford was a racist who was afraid of Jazz.

yeather,

There’s usually a dance section included in PE instruction, mostly to break up hard physical activity snd allow kids to have fun. The type of dancing depends on the school and the state, we did salsa dancing in Florida.

captainlezbian, (edited )

We waltzed in german Catholic land, but we also square danced because midwest

Chetzemoka,

You’re younger than I am. For my generation, it was all square dancing.

JaymesRS,

Same. I lived in Minnesota and Indiana and did Square Dancing in both.

son_named_bort,

Same here. Nobody liked it.

Mouselemming,

I’m over 60, growing up in SoCal we had Square Dancing and the Maypole but also the Mexican Hat Dance, plus Tinikling, the Filipino one with two poles. Oh, and I think a bit of Hula.

(Later as a teacher I taught my 2nd graders some Russian dancing I had learned from my ballet teacher, because little kids are bouncy and kicky and we could do it inside when it rained.)

NJSpradlin,

We did the Macarena where I was in GA.

Zron,

“Allow the kids to have fun”

Should have told that to my PE teacher in grade school. I’ve never been good at dancing, and I got pulled aside multiple times in front of the class because I just couldn’t follow some of the dances we were supposed to do. These weren’t for competitions or anything, just as an activity.

That’s when I learned that not all bullies are children.

corsicanguppy,

Let me guess: “if you only applied yourself, you’d get it. It’s easy (for me). Watch!”

Anticorp,

That might be why it was added to the curriculum at first, but that’s certainly not why it stayed, nor why we did it at my school. It’s a pretty fun activity too, so a good use of that PE time.

corsicanguppy,

Man. We hated square dancing time in PE.

ethanolparty,

I had horrible eyesight and was shockingly inept at all sportball games, even compared to other hopeless nerds, so I found it slightly less awful than the stuff we usually did.

poppy,

I never had dancing in PE in any grade. Can’t decide if that sucks or not. Maybe I’d have better coordination now. We did get roller skating week though.

ZombieMantis, (edited )
@ZombieMantis@lemmy.world avatar

We did square dancing, but I’m from Texas, so our families joined the hoedown. I was so proud of my bolo, fond memories.

And I don’t think it was part of the curriculum, I think they were just throwing a party for graduation or something. It’s been years, and this was when I was little, in elementary school.

surewhynotlem, in TELL ME YOUR SECRETS

Unlikely why?

Here’s a video of it being used for that: youtu.be/76AvV601yJ0?si=kvdh4ZLiBCmyldPN

I have seen people argue that "they are pretty intricate and expensive things to use only for the purposes of knitting gloves. ". To them, I would like to submit my wife’s $1100 sewing machine that definitely gets used, and isn’t just some weird status symbol among creative types.

andros_rex, (edited )

Knitting isn’t attested until almost a millennium after this artifact was created. Nålbinding was practiced during this era in a variety of areas and can look very similar, but is mechanically very diffferent.

Sagifurius,

Yeah, this object isn’t attested to either, so…

andros_rex,

Less ambiguously worded: knitting did not exist in Roman late antiquity. Romans produced their fabric by weaving. It’s very easy to tell the difference when looking at a fabric if someone points it out to you. Knitting was an early medieval probably Middle Eastern/North African invention. It took a while to spread.

It’s very awesome that someone was able to use a model of one of these to knit a glove, but one time I got wasted and knit with pencils. I really love imagining little Roman schoolchildren in woolen mittens and beanies, but it’s just not realistic.

Sagifurius, (edited )

Man, i looked up nalbinding. It’s knitting, 7000 years old, romans made their socks and mittens that way, it’s not crochet, of course, but it’s knitting. Apparently it was only named nalbinding in the 70s, it was just knit before.

andros_rex, (edited )

Nålbinding and knitting are not the same. They look very similar in the finished product, and can be hard to tell apart by non-experts, but are made by entirely separate processes. Because of the difficulty in identification - because honestly, many archeologists and historians before the 1970s were extremely ignorant on the history of “day to day” folks - many items were misidentified.

What the granny did was spool knitting - see youtu.be/cWNhi1iEIvk?si=g38FJCuCr3l78gPe

Nålbinding looks like - youtu.be/ouOHK-D0TGM?si=uXTwlbXpl6IyOdvY

Key differences: Nålbinding uses smaller, shorter strands tied together (early spinning methods = shorter bits to work with). Nålbinding works with one finger holding the stitches, the earliest knitting (which tbh, didn’t really reach Europe until the late medieval period) was worked in the round on multiple double pointed needles. What the earliest knitting looked like wouldn’t have looked what granny was doing, or either of the two videos linked above. (I tried to find a video but FUCK dpens, circ gang 4lyf)

Sagifurius,

Yeah I watched the video. it’s knitting dude.

starman2112, (edited )
@starman2112@sh.itjust.works avatar

Here’s the thing. You said “nålbinding is knitting.”

Is it in the same family? Yes. No one’s arguing that.

As someone who is a scientist who studies knitting, I am telling you, specifically, in science, no one calls nålbinding knitting. If you want to be “specific” like you said, then you shouldn’t either. They’re not the same thing.

If you’re saying “knitting family” you’re referring to the hobby of weaving, which includes things from crochet to macramé to plaiting.

So your reasoning for calling nålbinding knitting is because random people “call fabric crafting knitting?” Let’s get felting and tatting in there, then, too.

Also, calling something knitting or weaving? It’s not one or the other, that’s not how taxonomy works. They’re both. Nålbinding is nålbinding and a member of the knitting family. But that’s not what you said. You said a nålbinding is knitting, which is not true unless you’re okay with calling all members of the knitting family knitting, which means you’d call macramé, plaiting, and other weaving methods knitting, too. Which you said you don’t.

It’s okay to just admit you’re wrong, you know?

andros_rex,

You’re wrong, but here’s some cool socks that someone might have worn while making dodecahedrons: youtu.be/SCIV27RVA90?si=inVWHIQz5bDV9LV3

Nålbinding is a very different technique because it is early - working with small scraps of fiber because you’re just grabbing what’s available, and it’s a technique that closes itself (unlike knitting or crochet, you don’t have to “weave in” the ends). Nålbinding also involves you working “off thumb.”

It’s very fun to imagine that Romans had a nifty way of mass producing gloves. But it’s a massive stretch. Clothing was made at home, by the women of the home. Poor women would not have been able to afford a fancy doohickey. Wealthy women didn’t make their own clothes. Prestige clothing (eg togas) was primarily woven.

I’ve seen lots of cool people make art with things that weren’t intended for the purpose of making art, and that’s great! Folks can write messages in the sky with airplanes - that doesn’t mean that airplanes were invented for skywriting.

Sagifurius,

dude, they’re just using their thumb instead of a spool with nails in it, or perhaps these weird objects. its the same thing.

andros_rex,

It might be helpful to try both techniques yourself.

You can buy a spool at Walmart for pretty cheap, they’re often available at thrift stores for less. You’ll want to look up an “i-cord” tutorial. Any old yarn will do honestly, the acrylic super savers will work.

Nålbinding will require that you use wool. The joining process involves felting the ends together (an extra knitter might do this, but it’s not necessary - it’s okay to tie them together because you’re weaving in ends afterwards). Felting is using water and patience to shape wool. For practice, you can use a cheap plastic tapestry needle honestly - save money here because the wool is going to run you a bit more.

I find nålbinding uncomfortable and slow, personally.

iheartneopets,

Do you also think crochet and knitting are the same? This is a totally different fiber art. I both knit and crochet and would not be able to hop right into this; totally different movements and methods and ways of weaving the yarn. Just because the products are similar does not make it the same.

I hope you’re trolling because you’re getting me good lmao

sanpo,

Just because you could use it for knitting it doesn’t mean it was its purpose.
There’s not a lot of detail, but you can check on the Wiki why it’s ultimately an unlikely explanation: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roman_dodecahedron#Purpose

surewhynotlem, (edited )

Thanks! I really like the idea that it was a test of skill of a blacksmith.

Revan343,

That seems like the most likely thing to me too

Sagifurius,

Wikipedia and this sort of thing…Yknow the article on saddles says that stirrups weren’t invented till the 9th century AD but the article on riding boots said the heel, to prevent your foot going through the stirrup, dates to 5th century BC.

AnyOldName3,
@AnyOldName3@lemmy.world avatar

Scale replicas can be used to knit gloves. Life size ones are way too big to make gloves for humans.

sizzler,

Have a quick think, what’s bigger than a finger…?

surewhynotlem,

Yet more evidence for Giant cyclopes

nomous,

As if we needed any more.

AllonzeeLV, (edited ) in My Ex loves to swat

They’d shoot the cats too, but those fuckers are just too small and fast.

Kusimulkku,

We need more grenades

Wogi,

They throw the grenades in the cribs, none left for cats

AnUnusualRelic,
@AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world avatar

That’s why they need a bigger budget.

FordBeeblebrox,

Babies are slow and weak, perfect targets for the biggest gang who constantly fears for their lives

Serinus,

Hey, it was just a flashbang.

Wogi,

Which takes up a grenade slot on the equipment screen.

Passerby6497,

You mean stun grenade

iAvicenna,
@iAvicenna@lemmy.world avatar

you don’t mess with the cat or you lose your partners first and then it comes for you

burgersc12, in Well thanks Dad

I mean, he’s not the ugliest girl I’ve ever seen

EdibleFriend,
@EdibleFriend@lemmy.world avatar

Also…like…I never questioned that he was a girl until I learned this factoid as an adult. So often when they put a man in drag for comedic effect you instantly know you are looking at a man but this kid passes yo.

DaMonsterKnees,
@DaMonsterKnees@lemmy.world avatar

Fuck. You’re right. A very interesting insight. Thank you for that. I honestly didn’t appreciate how easily primed I can be.

funkless_eck,

sometimes I do look at women - even attractive women - and see a man’s face in a moment of contextual disassociation. And vice versa. And I think about how maybe men and women don’t really look facially that dissimilar, there’s just a lot of context that affects our perception.

I am terminally bisexual though so maybe thats part of it.

applebusch,

I’m sorry to hear that. How long do you have?

funkless_eck,

depends whether you’re reading my grindr profile or my medical records

Kiwi_Girl,
@Kiwi_Girl@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Are you saying you lied about your height?

funkless_eck, (edited )

well a biologicial physical dimension anyway

SnipingNinja,

Not bisexual, still notice that

sneezycat,
@sneezycat@sopuli.xyz avatar

Because drag is an exaggeration and not really trying to pass. If it’s for “comedic effect” they don’t want them to pass anyways, because “man dressed as woman haha funny” gets confusing for cisheteros when he actually looks good.

monz, in Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but it's not happening
@monz@pawb.social avatar

How are we supposed to get industry experience otherwise?

Businesses aren’t hiring without a degree unless you have four years of industry experience to replace the degree.

Plus, we get an internship during college to get some of both.

Still don’t get hired after graduating.

It’s fucked!

Sotuanduso,

Where and when you’re searching plays into it.

If you’re looking for postings, you’ll have an easier time finding a job, but a harder time getting it, because there’s so much competition.

If you’re searching right after graduation, so’s the rest of your class, and you have to compete with them.

If you’re hitting up relevant companies in hopes that they can hire you, you’ll have a harder time finding a place with an opening, but once you do, the competition is near zero. You need only prove you’re a good fit.

Kalothar, (edited )

You are supposed to either already have connections, or be forced to adapt your skills to create connections.

Ya know, they just want to make sure you’re one of them first and not one of the others

SnappDragon10,

I honestly need to work more on my connecting. Hopefully not any time soon but that networking gives me hella anxiety

Kepabar,

While the tone of this post is mocking, it’s a very real thing that having the social skills to match someone else’s vibe during an interview can help tremendously with helping the interviewer see you as someone who can fit with the company culture.

I see people who struggle with getting jobs often are lacking in those sort of soft social skills.

LunarVoyager,

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  • Kepabar,

    If you lack social skills you better have some sort of labor relevant skill to replace it with them!

    ininewcrow, in You're tearing me apart!
    @ininewcrow@lemmy.ca avatar

    I was fine with memes over the past few years … sure they are a quick dopamine hit that make you laugh or think

    But now when my friends send me tiktok videos … especially when someone has been watching these video streams for hours or days … they start sending out the most random, inane, mindless content … it’s the kind of material that keep a monkey occupied.

    FlyingSquid,
    @FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

    it’s the kind of material that keep a monkey occupied.

    And that’s what Ten Forward is for!

    bobs_monkey,

    it’s the kind of material that keep a monkey occupied.

    I think that’s kind of the point. There was an article a while back that said the CCP/Bytedance intentionally serve up braindead content to everywhere outside China, while promoting educational and uplifting content at home.

    SuperSpruce,

    I want to see a sampling of this “educational and uplifting” content.

    Bartsbigbugbag, (edited )

    That’s such a gross misunderstanding of the separation between TikTok and China that it’s very possible purposeful misinformation.

    China has no control whatsoever over TikTok, and in fact, there are US intelligence officers on the board for the American company. If anyone is “intentionally serving up braindead content…” it’s the US company, who is under strict control and observation by US intelligence agencies.

    Gabu,

    Why are you lying? Every Chinese company is under the CCP’s boot, as made evident by the one time Tencent tried to fight it

    Bartsbigbugbag, (edited )

    Xenophobia and jingoism have so thoroughly riddled most American brains that you require no evidence of anything, and just exist in a “vibes based reality” where you accept entirely false information as truth because it fits your preconceptions. The US government has spent years at this point trying to prove what you’ve said about TikTok, and they’ve been entirely unable to do so, because it’s literally not true. And as I said, their US board is filled with US intelligence spooks, not Chinese ones.

    Next you’ll tell me China is pushing pro-Palestinian content on TikTok, instead of the youth just being rabidly pro-Palestine.

    Gabu,

    I’m not even American, bot. Go suck CCP cock somewhere else.

    markon,

    Just don’t forget Blackrock owns a very sizable portion of Bytedance. Just saying.

    kofe,

    I’ve had no trouble curating my feed to mostly professionals, psychologists and pet behaviorists. Occasional cute animal videos

    bobs_monkey,

    Nice. I’ll be honest, I never bothered with tiktok, only Instagram. And even that got to a point where I just gave up and tossed it. Even Reddit was weird like that.

    TimewornTraveler,

    that sounds way too bizarre to believe without seeing a source. and i know there’s gonna be people replying saying it’s not that bizarre, because China, but really…?

    bobs_monkey,

    60 Minutes did a spread on it way back when, it’s on YouTube I believe

    TimewornTraveler,

    thank you

    rambling_lunatic,

    Absolutely reasonable thing to ask.

    cbsnews.com/…/tristan-harris-social-media-politic…

    Grep for “Companies like TikTok” to find the relevant portion.

    The guy talking isn’t exactly a scientist and this ain’t a rigourous peer-reviewed study, but it does seem like he knows at least a little about what he’s talking about. Take it with a grain of salt.

    ininewcrow, (edited )
    @ininewcrow@lemmy.ca avatar

    I have one 50 year old friend with very little tech know how and his kids set him up with a good smartphone. I saw his family about a year ago and his kids noted that their dad often sits up until about 2 or 3 in the morning at the kitchen table just scrolling through tiktok videos. He sent them to me about once a day until I had to block him and tell him directly to stop sending me this stuff. He’s since become ‘aware’ of his addiction and stops sending out videos as often as he did before. He still scrolls through thousands and thousands of videos a day.

    It would all be funny if it wasn’t so frightening at the same time.

    bobs_monkey,

    No kidding. I just find it ironic that the generation that kept saying “TV will rot your brain” is now completely consumed by social media.

    GluWu,

    50 is still too young. Endless scrolling should only be for old people who literally can’t do anything. Kids need to do physically stimulating things like playing outside, adults need to do mentally stimulating things like playing video games. Old people don’t need to do anything, they can veg out to short form.

    ZOSTED,

    Legitimately, when I was quitting nicotine, I would scroll on my phone when I was getting withdrawal pangs, and it helped.

    Nowadays I have to watch myself, or else I’ll potentially lose hours. I know exactly what addiction feels like: going without and satisfying what feels like a need - it feels right. And these apps are definitely addictive. I didn’t really notice until I tried to stop.

    ilinamorato, in I guess it's the pretty colors?

    Firefox logo looks better anyway.

    Dehydrated,

    And the browser is better than this Chromium bullshit

    Empricorn,

    Used to, anyway.

    oce,
    @oce@jlai.lu avatar

    RIP little paw

    ilinamorato,

    Still does, though I agree I liked the old one better.

    Anarki_, in W.... Will they stream it?
    Lemminary,

    It is false information with the aim of smearing Swedish sports and Sweden.

    Is it? I was thinking they were so cool

    SuckMyWang,

    The fact the Swedes were targeted for this makes me think they are so much cooler than they already are

    Emerald,

    en.m.wikipedia.org/…/Sweden_sex_competition_hoax

    It even has its own wikipedia page.

    moon,

    Sheesh don’t be a vibe killer bruh

    Thcdenton,

    My disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined.

    Unpigged,

    And of course there’s a russian name under such bullshit. This is how they fabricate stories of legal animal and children brothels, and alike.

    betterdeadthanreddit, in Those markings really were unnecessary

    I still don’t understand the red urinals, they make such a mess when you use them.

    assassinatedbyCIA,

    They’re for faeces silly.

    betterdeadthanreddit,

    Obviously, yeah, I’m not a moron. Still doesn’t make it any less of a disaster zone once the transaction is complete.

    assassinatedbyCIA,

    Which hand do you use to catch the turd? That might be the problem here.

    Dhar,

    What a terrible day to be literate

    LazaroFilm, in It can't be stopped
    @LazaroFilm@lemmy.world avatar

    After XP, Windows focused on adding crap to their aid that use unnecessary resources for crap things. I remember the Aqua look on Vista that sucked the life out of computers. Let’s not talk about Windows Me. Then 8 was a weird interface that no one liked and also not compatible with older machines. So XP is the most stable Windows os that can run on older devices.

    scottywh,

    ME came before XP

    TopShelfVanilla,

    XP was a pretty good running OS with plenty of software and games. I held out till 10 was out for a bit and there were programs I wanted to run that required it.

    Boozilla,
    @Boozilla@lemmy.world avatar

    XP still had the designed-by-engineers vibe. Since then, Microsoft got completely taken over by dipshits with marketing MBAs.

    They now code Windows to impress executives and shareholders with how much they can harvest data and manipulate customers into using their stupid Store and so on. They stopped caring about the experiences of power users, or even casual users.

    They don’t want the OS to work for us. They want us to work for them.

    KingBoo,

    Very well said.

    Do you have any suggestions for people wanting to go back to an XP feeling?

    A particular distro of Linux, etc.?

    circuitfarmer,
    @circuitfarmer@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

    Zorin OS is a linux distro designed partly to feel like Windows

    KillerTofu,

    Mint is the usual recommendation for transitioning from windows to Linux.

    Dhar,

    I’ll second this. Start with Mint or Pop!_OS

    JDPoZ,
    @JDPoZ@lemmy.world avatar

    I know you said Linux, but for anyone else here wanting to still use what at its core is still Windows, but with tons of garbage and bloat removed… as long as you have a valid serial / key… I would recommend AtlasOS.

    I did a clean install of it on my own old ancient desktop i7-2600K recently, and it actually still runs really well.

    Don’t take my word for it though. Here’s a video talking about it. Also here’s the YouTube link if you prefer.

    brbposting,

    Britec09 from the video there is quite skeptical - sounds like he prefers ShutUp10. With Atlas, he worries about large security impacts for small FPS gains.

    Good watch, thank you!

    gaterush, (edited )

    I second the recommendation of giving Linux Mint a shot. I didn’t use XP extensively but Mint is low hassle and gets out of your way.

    I’m not sure it has quite the same feel, but closest I can think of that is also approachable coming from Windows. Obviously a lot of other distros also satisfy the “built by engineers” vibe.

    OscarRobin,

    Linux Mint is definitely the closest interface- and vibes-wise to XP imo, of the big distros worth considering

    Boozilla,
    @Boozilla@lemmy.world avatar

    I have a lot of respect for Linux and use it here and there, but I am by no means an expert on it. The best thing I’ve done with it so far is running a Pi Hole at home.

    Unfortunately, my job involves using MS Windows. A lot. After I retire…soonish…I hope to take some time and learn Linux better.

    For my day-to-day Windows misery, I find that ShutUp10 does a great job of toggling off the bullshit you don’t want running. And it’s easy to toggle things back on if you ever need to. It’s a free program you can download and run. I send them a little money every year out of gratitude, but donations are completely optional.

    Some FUD mongers will tell you that ShutUp10 ‘breaks’ Windows. That’s simply not true. It puts all the Windows settings you can change yourself in one easy-to-find place. Things that are normally scattered all over the UX and the registry.

    While you could mess some things up using it if you’re not careful, it’s very good about color coding and letting you know which toggles are best to turn off, which ones are a little questionable, and which ones you should leave turned on (unless you know what you’re doing and can take the risk). I have used it for years now, on multiple PCs, with zero problems. It doesn’t make Windows 10/11 GOOD but it makes them less horrible.

    www.oo-software.com/en/shutup10

    agent_flounder,
    @agent_flounder@lemmy.world avatar

    Though enshittification was coined, I think, with online services in mind, this is a perfect example of the process as it applies to an OS.

    Boozilla,
    @Boozilla@lemmy.world avatar

    Completely agree. For some reason that word tends to trigger a few gatekeepers on here. But I think it fits.

    Emerald, (edited )

    The enshittification of windows is because of its online services. Copilot AI, “telemetry”, ads, etc.

    umbrella,
    @umbrella@lemmy.ml avatar

    To be fair, vista and 7 had a lot of QOL improvements too.

    I dont see the point of 10+ though, they pretty much just added fluff.

    LazaroFilm,
    @LazaroFilm@lemmy.world avatar

    They had QOL but I remember my machines running significantly slower. And that was not worth the extra QOL.

    MeatsOfRage,

    Don’t forget about Windows 7. That boy ripped. Too bad they didn’t take the good lessons from it.

    Bouga, in EDIT: I THINK I STAND CORRECTED

    I got tired of reading people saying that the infinite stack of hundreds is more money, so get this :

    Both infinites are countable infinites, thus you can make a bijection between the 2 sets (this is literally the definition of same size sets). Now use the 1 dollar bills to make stacks of 100, you will have enough 1 bills to match the 100 bills with your 100 stacks of 1.

    Both infinites are worth the same amount of money… Now paying anything with it, the 100 bills are probably more managable.

    VoterFrog,

    You could also just divide your infinite stack of $1 bills into 100 infinite stacks of $1 bills. And, obviously, an infinite stack of $100 bills is equivalent to 100 infinite stacks of $1 bills.

    (I know this is only slightly different than what you’re getting at, which is that infinitely many stacks of 100 $1 bills is equivalent to an infinite stack of $100 bills)

    Kolanaki, (edited )
    @Kolanaki@yiffit.net avatar

    Now paying anything with it, the 100 bills are probably more managable.

    I’d take the 1’s just because almost everywhere I spend money has signs saying they don’t take bills higher than $20.

    bhamlin,

    Yup. Exactly this.

    highenergyphysics,

    Alternatively for small brains like me:

    Imagine you have an infinite amount of $1 bills are laid out in a line. Right next to it is a line of $100 bills.

    As you go down the line, count how much money you have at any given point.

    Which total is worth more?

    IzzyScissor,

    Imagine the line of 1s is stacked like pages in books on a shelf, but the line of 100s is placed in a row so they’re only touching on the sides. You could probably fit a few hundred 1s in the space of one 100. Both lines still have infinite bills in them, but now as you go along, you’re seeing a lot more 1s at a time.

    That’s the thing about infinities, you can squish and stretch them, and they’re still infinite.

    shasta,

    Your example introduces the axis of time which is not in consideration when discussing infinity. You’re literally removing infinity from the equation by doing that because “at any given point” by definition is not infinity. Let’s say that point is 1 million bills down the line. Now you’re comparing 1,000,000 x 100 vs 1,000,000 x 1, nothing to do with infinity

    PotatoKat, (edited )

    They can spend the same amount of money, but at any moment the one with 100s has more money. If you have 2 people each picking up 1 bill at the same rate at any singular moment the person picking up the 100s will have more money.

    Since we’re talking about a material object like dollar bills and not a concept like money we have to take into consideration it’s utility and have to keep in mind the actual depositing and spending would be at any individual moment. The person with 100s would have a much easier/quicker time using the money therefore the 100s have more utility.

    IzzyScissor,

    We’re definitely not talking about this like a material object at the same time, though. There’s no way for a single person to store and access an infinite pile of bills.

    You can spend a 100 dollar bill faster than a 1 dollar bill, sure, but both stacks would have the same money in the bank.

    PotatoKat,

    Except you’re given an infinite amount of bills, not money in the bank. So even when moving the money to the bank you’d be able to access it quicker with the 100s

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